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When did Malini gave away Adi to Imlie . Adi left Malini.😆

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Originally posted by: raaz19

Finally have managed to catch-up the episode and have to come to one conclusion that I had to go back 10 episodes and see what the makers were trying to achieve and show us with the latest twist of tales as the web of lies Maline ha spun take off in an uncontrollable manner. Yes it finally becoming a pattern between right and wrong and the upbringing of both homes is being shown in clear light. The track seems to be focusing on creating comparisons between two homes two lifestyles and two ways of life. We have seen for days that Maline is the golden spoon of the city while imlie the copper of the village a girl whom has no name and no standing as most like to say in society. I always wondered why bring Mithi into the city and it became apparent that the whole setup was to show the significance that imlie places within her faith and relationships.


Her whole truth stems of the values and her relationships that being her the strength to fight and move forward. We have always seen anu pride her up bringing on the way she has raised her daughter through wealth may that we one of eduction or outer beauty and there has never been focus on valuing the things that money cannot but which is respect and trust. As her own marriage always lacked love and respect anu has focused and accepted that the lost valuable thing and truth is once social standing. Not realising that not all men are dev for her stuck by his woman because he was afraid of what people would say and feel.


Maline when going into courtship with Aditya saw similarities within him that her father had for her was a middle class man whom has made a name for himself and will be as wealthy as they come in the near future. He was not afraid too seek out the truth he wanted and own it. We have heard it plenty that anu has always prided dev as an asset whom she invested in and today is reaping the rewards not realising that talent is what brought the money and respect to the table for and investment can turn sour. Maline equally spent her seven years in this hope that she will be able to control Aditya just like her mother has but she has forgotten to notice that he has always been a kindred spirit. One that was separated from his family and focused on his dreams and goals her role in his life was just that of a tick box. The relationship never was one of priority for him for he went ahead what he wished he wanted. His success was one that he chased through to the end and although Maline likes to claim she made him the man he is today he was that already for he respected her but was not beholden to her off his career. Just because she waited to marry him doesn’t mean she help direct his whole lifestyle or how he managed his relationship for we have seen that he was never attune to his feelings till he met imlie.


It’s like her statement so far have focused around imlie immaturity, careless and need to attention. She has tried to show imlie as a selfish soul whom is only out to seek what belongs to others but she has forgotten that Aditya never cared what others thought because he has always been a man whom has said that what others say doesn’t matter for they do not help pay the bills. Her actions and her lack of acceptance toward his marriage with imlie is just so. Just because she cannot accept the truth doesn’t mean that it hold any value for Aditya has valued the love she has brought to him. The home he carved when he was all alone amongst his own. Someone that listen to him and yet had the courage to question. Aditya walked away from her because he wanted and needed more of emotional companionship then one of monitory. The acts of stealing imlie saree or blaming her for the jewellery situation was most of all about the fact that she believes imlie outer acts have impressed him. Not realising that that is not the case.


But the whole time when Aditya brought home the jewellers it was not about the fact of imlie needed the jewels it was to remind her that he had her back. I will go back to the time when Aditya had firts feared loosing imlie when she was shot he protected her and made her promise to wake up and walk the journey of faith with him. He had shown a sign then that although he was not happy about the situation he was going to respect her. He was going to support her no matter what and she was going to guide him through this path. He could have tried and talked it through then with anyone else but he chose not to. The bond of his heart started to form with imlie one of friendship or somewhat mutual respect. He became her protector but she infact became his instead. It like the act showed love is not what you say but what you do. There love has bloomed from the strength of there communication where they have talked and walked through any situation together.


Then when imlie had left and she went to Pagdandia giving him what he wanted closure of the relationship and freedom. His heart couldn’t deal with the fact that she had left and he was left behind stranded he needed her saath then not because she had asked for it but he longed for it. She had loved him in her own way offering her support to his broken soul. She had taken him as he had come broken bruised and he had found his sun with her. For she became a beautiful mentor for she was willing to walk with him knowing him for whom he was. Throughout this whole point Maline never offered him the choice and nor did she ask why he was so aloof. It was alway about why he married her or why they didn’t have time to go out. It was always about the social acts but not about the security he needed. She never offered him a blanket to talk unless it was off issue she wanted to address. So today when she talks about her marriage or relationship one laughs because she never gave him the time address any of real cracks in there relationship. As soon as he is about to question she throws it back in his face about all that she has done for him. But did she really do it for him or did she do it for herself because she wanted to show everyone that she made him the man he is for he was successful and with it she was able mirror the image her mother had. But in all the need of wanting prefection Maline lost sight of what matter and that was choice. Aditya has always been given the choice by imlie to decide what he wants and she has accepted his wishes even when they didn’t mirror her own. She walked out with her own convictions and owned them not caring what others may say in the process. Today when Aditya decided that he needed to win his truth and walk on his path he has reminded imlie once again that with the saath he is offering her security but also ownership of them. He has told her in no bolder words that neither she nor he can forget what they mean to each other and how they have become whom they are. That promise of togetherness was again highlight in the jewels for imlie showed him that she will love him and his family above all else and that memories can be made through anything things to items hold no value but the feelings behind them do. He once again showed his family how he respect his wife and listen and as she does to he. The act of offering everyone else something above her own showed she is secure in her relationship and also she is willing to accept her faith. She has never needed people to talk for her for she can talk off her self in her actions. The pride in Aditya eyes at that point was so beautiful to see and Maline will not understand but he showed her the mirror too. Because she tried to say that imlie wants what is not her but he showed her through his act hat all imlie longs for is love. So through her act of judgement Maline has not defined whom Imlie is but she has shown Aditya and others what she is really about. I loved the way he handled the situation for her tried to talk to her during the saree and makeup issues and it didn’t not work so his approach of actions was for more impactful and emotional because it showed the respect he holds in his love.


Why everyone feels he needed to say something to Maline is beyond me we have seen that this approach will never work for she will spin this in her own way. I feel he is on to her as Aps has said in her post but he I willing to let it slide until it doesn’t bring harm to imlie way. For him he is trying to support imlie and the robbery once again showed that in a crowed off noise he only has eyes for imlie and imlie alone.


For imlie has shown him that she doesn’t need his money or status for she just wants his time and commitment. Him willing to open his wallet and spend as much as wanted was a way of showing them all that she owns the whole of him. She never had to ask him he just went ahead and did so to protect her feelings and her too. There love is so pure and raw because when it has come to showing everyone he has not been afraid to own his commitment because he has held her hand to show her the respect he holds and the kiss has always symbolised the security he wants to bring for them. It’s all about protecting her from harsh words. And he is willing to do that in any way he can as she has. Just because he doesn’t fight with Maline doesn’t mean that imlie doesn’t matter for she matters far more the people have realised.


This is why despite Maline hundreds of taunts or inventing millions of delusions she has been left empty handed. No matter what the delusional situations she creates in the end the fact will still remain one that will always stem back to her insecurity of imlie just like her mother she will never be able to accept the truth that her marriage was never one of love but convenience. The image of her seeing imlie and Aditya was a backbone of the reality that she knows that this is the case. So no matter if she moves one she will still be stuck in the past for she believes and walks around people telling her how great she is that she cannot see her own flaws. That’s why all her own lies sound truthful to her because she is not willing to walk away. And this very fact had annoyed her for she enemies she is fighting for what is hers when in fact the one she is fighting with has not done so. She has just walked away claiming the relationship and wanting to fix what they have.


Imlie has always prioritised her values and her abandonment issues have always made her long for love and acceptance. This is why no matter what Maline has done so far she still belies they can be fixed because she believes the woman loves her too. Not realising that there is not love or respect accept hate. But it doesn’t mean she should be under estimated for she knows far more then she says or does. That we have seen at the scene when she was alone at the cars, brought everyone jewellery or when she stepped up to each challenge thrown her way in the competition.


In the end imlie resolve to support Aditya and walk on her morals or respect. Is her way to protect her family. Mithi had said it well that when it comes to the things imlie loves the most she is willing to go any Mike to protect it. She has shown this when she stood upto Aditya when he denied the relationship in the start that she could life her life with her faith alone or when she accepted that all the jewellery she needed was her wedding chain. Her identity is not defined by him but is all it them as a unit or on there own whereas Maline whole battle is around her Aditya of him and him alone.


Yes I do feel in the long run imlie will be made to leave and with it we will be shown an Aditya that the family never knew existed. But this will be because anu will be made to help Maline get her way as she will lose each battle she throws imlie way. Not sure why people forget just because imlie respect all doesn’t mean she is not wise to the worldly ways for she is as she has not come a state topper out of no where. As her nani says imlie is far more shrewd then she shows.


The battle is all about love and respect and in the end one that will make imlie gain respect but at the cost of losing something along the way.

just a few of my thoughts before we are hit by the next episode 😆


Wow Raaz, beautifully put and I agree 💯 to everything you mentioned.

I have said this many times and I reiterate - this show unfortunately is difficult to watch as a daily, but amazing when you watch it on a binge. Reasons being that the makers have always played a very long game from the start - one of building layers that are nver visible unless you get some episodes into the track.

While the bloopers and dumb acting tend to get annoying sometimes (Malini broke a freaking mirror, yet not 1 person in the T house realised it🤦‍♀️, the entire chori sequence which was unintentionally stupid and had horrible acting🤦‍♀️), the overall storytelling has always been one that takes its time to build. Hence at many points the episodes seem disconnected and make no sense when we go from one day to the next. The build-up sometimes do not make sense till much later when you piece together the clues that the makers have been giving us to finally build the puzzle. Jab puri picture dikhti hai, that is when much of the previous incidents start to make sense.

Like you said, the current track is to show the difference of upbringing which is one of the reasons for Adi's choice. The difference is outlook towards life, between luxury and struggles, between golden spoon and mitti ka spoon. People forget that while gold looks beautiful and is nice to have, you cannot cook in a gold ka bartan. Gold is something that people aspire for, but mitti is what they want at the end of the day to help them get sustenance. Khaana mitti ke bartan main hi sabse paushtik aur healthy rehta hai - kyunki that will always ensure that the food retains all its inherent nutrition.

Similarly while Malini as a bahu is nice to have for Aparna, she forgets that for anyone to be a good bahu, she has to be a wife that her son wants. Like you mentioned, Malini was just a tick mark for Adi, because she became a mirror to show him only what he wanted to see. She refused to hold on to her identity and was willing to mould herself as per what Adi wanted her to be. While that is not wrong, in that process, she could never challenge Adi to look beyond the box he was inside.

On the other hand, Imlie challenged him at every point to see beyond that box. Adi realised that there was more to the world than he knew and there was more to himself than he was aware of. Imlie slowly with her vishwaas in herself and her Sita Maiyya changed Adi's outlook towards life, so much so that the very relationship that at one time was his gale ka phanda, became his wings to fly out of the golden cage which was his relationship with Malini and finally embrace his true self.

Best example of this was during the party, where the editor mentioned that Adi had never once even cracked a joke in 10 years was making fun of his colleagues to protect Imlie's reputation. While that was pure sarcasm, the fact that Adi was prompted to act completely out of character than people around him we used to, shows just how much Imli has changed Adi. Similarly the guy who would never talk on the phone for long before and was likely to not even pick up when family calls, asked his wife to be on the line while he went to the kitchen to eat something she made for him, not letting the connection sever for even a moment.

But that aside, like you mentioned, the purpose of the last few episodes was to lay ground for multiple things. 1st - that for Adi, Imlie is paramount. Nothing anyone says or does will affect his feelings for her. Also, the guy will do anything to ensure that his wife is not hurt by anyone. While not directly, but he is very capable of doing things that will send the required message and remind both the outside world and his own wife that she will always be first priority for him and that no matter how much anyone tries, he will always be with Imlie. 2nd - Adi has understood that he needs to deal with Malini with kid gloves and not confront her in anyway, if he wants to keep his sanity intact and hopefully complete his divorce in the near future. Malini's outburst during the party night has heightened his senses towards Malini's tendency to blame others if she is confronted, so he uses diplomatic taunts and roundabout ways to ensure both his wives are aware of his priorities. 3rd - Mitthi was brought in to show AC and Malini that Imlie can do anything that she puts her mind to. It is also to show that 2 women who have suffered betrayal at the hand of the same man can have different ways of dealing with it not just for themselves, but also their daughter. Mitthi dealt with her betrayal with quiet strength and poise, which allowed her to life her life with her head held high and deal with anything that life throws at her with a smile. He daughter has learnt the same thing and follows it accordingly. AC has always been in the delusions of Dev being in her control because Dev loved her and that what he did with Mitthi was a small transgression and Dev never had any feelings for Mitthi, as she is a village woman - who would choose a village woman over a rich city woman. She assumes that her marriage was happy for the last 20 years and their fights were normal, as long as she can call herself Anu Dev Chaturvedi. The same delusions have been inculcated in Malini as well. Malini has never been able to accept that her Adi chose to leave a rich, beautiful woman like her to be with a girl like Imlie - much younger, not so "beautiful" (according to Malini), poor and from the village. That frustrates her - she cannot see what Adi sees in her to choose Imlie over someone like Malini. She also assumes that her marriage with Adi was happy and that it got ruined only because of Imlie - the same way how AC holds Mitthi responsible for the issues in her marriage with Dev. So Malini is willing to go to any lengths to prove her point - almost to the level of playing with her life, the same way AC also played with Malini's life. For them more than their lives, winning is more important. Holding the husband trophy at the end is more important than respecting the choice of the person they claim to love.

Hence with the promo we understand that this track will finally show Imlie that she is worthy of being Adi's wife and the T house bahu, it will show Adi continuously bolstering Imlie's confidence to fight for her rights and finally show Malini that Imlie is worthy of everything that has been given to her by her Sita Maiyya. After that wat happens will help define how we see all these 3 characters ahead in the story.

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Posted: 4 years ago

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When did Malini gave away Adi to Imlie . Adi left Malini.😆

Apne delusions mein, aur kahaan

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Posted: 4 years ago

Raaz.. wonderful analysis and WU as always.. 🤗



The battle is all about love and respect and in the end one that will make imlie gain respect but at the cost of losing something along the way.

Just hope Imlie retains her essence, just that she will lose her blinders where M is concerned. She wants to have a bond with a sis that has been gifted to her by her SM whereas M sees her as an annoyance, one who has grabbed all that was hers.. and wishes her to far far away land.

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Raaz.. wonderful analysis and WU as always.. 🤗



The battle is all about love and respect and in the end one that will make imlie gain respect but at the cost of losing something along the way.

Just hope Imlie retains her essence, just that she will lose her blinders where M is concerned. She wants to have a bond with a sis that has been gifted to her by her SM whereas M sees her as an annoyance, one who has grabbed all that was hers.. and wishes her to far far away land.

Oh, nice one there Nim. Loved how you mentioned that even Imlie's relationship with Malini was gifted to her by SM - so looks like SM only is going to ensure that Imlie's vishwaas will win in the end. While Imlie will fight doe her identity, as mentioned, winning this fight is not going to give her any happiness. Her blinders are off, but I think she will still have hope that she can change Malini to get back that sister relationship, despite whatever she has done.

Imlie will use this opportunity to prove that she deserves to be Imlie AKT and still somewhere at the back of her mind hope to salvage her sisterly relationship as well. Whether she succeeds will depend on when the makers decide to make Malini mahaan again - not before that.

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Originally posted by: raaz19

Finally have managed to catch-up the episode and have to come to one conclusion that I had to go back 10 episodes and see what the makers were trying to achieve and show us with the latest twist of tales as the web of lies Maline ha spun take off in an uncontrollable manner. Yes it finally becoming a pattern between right and wrong and the upbringing of both homes is being shown in clear light. The track seems to be focusing on creating comparisons between two homes two lifestyles and two ways of life. We have seen for days that Maline is the golden spoon of the city while imlie the copper of the village a girl whom has no name and no standing as most like to say in society. I always wondered why bring Mithi into the city and it became apparent that the whole setup was to show the significance that imlie places within her faith and relationships.


Her whole truth stems of the values and her relationships that being her the strength to fight and move forward. We have always seen anu pride her up bringing on the way she has raised her daughter through wealth may that we one of eduction or outer beauty and there has never been focus on valuing the things that money cannot but which is respect and trust. As her own marriage always lacked love and respect anu has focused and accepted that the lost valuable thing and truth is once social standing. Not realising that not all men are dev for her stuck by his woman because he was afraid of what people would say and feel.


Maline when going into courtship with Aditya saw similarities within him that her father had for her was a middle class man whom has made a name for himself and will be as wealthy as they come in the near future. He was not afraid too seek out the truth he wanted and own it. We have heard it plenty that anu has always prided dev as an asset whom she invested in and today is reaping the rewards not realising that talent is what brought the money and respect to the table for and investment can turn sour. Maline equally spent her seven years in this hope that she will be able to control Aditya just like her mother has but she has forgotten to notice that he has always been a kindred spirit. One that was separated from his family and focused on his dreams and goals her role in his life was just that of a tick box. The relationship never was one of priority for him for he went ahead what he wished he wanted. His success was one that he chased through to the end and although Maline likes to claim she made him the man he is today he was that already for he respected her but was not beholden to her off his career. Just because she waited to marry him doesn’t mean she help direct his whole lifestyle or how he managed his relationship for we have seen that he was never attune to his feelings till he met imlie.


It’s like her statement so far have focused around imlie immaturity, careless and need to attention. She has tried to show imlie as a selfish soul whom is only out to seek what belongs to others but she has forgotten that Aditya never cared what others thought because he has always been a man whom has said that what others say doesn’t matter for they do not help pay the bills. Her actions and her lack of acceptance toward his marriage with imlie is just so. Just because she cannot accept the truth doesn’t mean that it hold any value for Aditya has valued the love she has brought to him. The home he carved when he was all alone amongst his own. Someone that listen to him and yet had the courage to question. Aditya walked away from her because he wanted and needed more of emotional companionship then one of monitory. The acts of stealing imlie saree or blaming her for the jewellery situation was most of all about the fact that she believes imlie outer acts have impressed him. Not realising that that is not the case.


But the whole time when Aditya brought home the jewellers it was not about the fact of imlie needed the jewels it was to remind her that he had her back. I will go back to the time when Aditya had firts feared loosing imlie when she was shot he protected her and made her promise to wake up and walk the journey of faith with him. He had shown a sign then that although he was not happy about the situation he was going to respect her. He was going to support her no matter what and she was going to guide him through this path. He could have tried and talked it through then with anyone else but he chose not to. The bond of his heart started to form with imlie one of friendship or somewhat mutual respect. He became her protector but she infact became his instead. It like the act showed love is not what you say but what you do. There love has bloomed from the strength of there communication where they have talked and walked through any situation together.


Then when imlie had left and she went to Pagdandia giving him what he wanted closure of the relationship and freedom. His heart couldn’t deal with the fact that she had left and he was left behind stranded he needed her saath then not because she had asked for it but he longed for it. She had loved him in her own way offering her support to his broken soul. She had taken him as he had come broken bruised and he had found his sun with her. For she became a beautiful mentor for she was willing to walk with him knowing him for whom he was. Throughout this whole point Maline never offered him the choice and nor did she ask why he was so aloof. It was alway about why he married her or why they didn’t have time to go out. It was always about the social acts but not about the security he needed. She never offered him a blanket to talk unless it was off issue she wanted to address. So today when she talks about her marriage or relationship one laughs because she never gave him the time address any of real cracks in there relationship. As soon as he is about to question she throws it back in his face about all that she has done for him. But did she really do it for him or did she do it for herself because she wanted to show everyone that she made him the man he is for he was successful and with it she was able mirror the image her mother had. But in all the need of wanting prefection Maline lost sight of what matter and that was choice. Aditya has always been given the choice by imlie to decide what he wants and she has accepted his wishes even when they didn’t mirror her own. She walked out with her own convictions and owned them not caring what others may say in the process. Today when Aditya decided that he needed to win his truth and walk on his path he has reminded imlie once again that with the saath he is offering her security but also ownership of them. He has told her in no bolder words that neither she nor he can forget what they mean to each other and how they have become whom they are. That promise of togetherness was again highlight in the jewels for imlie showed him that she will love him and his family above all else and that memories can be made through anything things to items hold no value but the feelings behind them do. He once again showed his family how he respect his wife and listen and as she does to he. The act of offering everyone else something above her own showed she is secure in her relationship and also she is willing to accept her faith. She has never needed people to talk for her for she can talk off her self in her actions. The pride in Aditya eyes at that point was so beautiful to see and Maline will not understand but he showed her the mirror too. Because she tried to say that imlie wants what is not her but he showed her through his act hat all imlie longs for is love. So through her act of judgement Maline has not defined whom Imlie is but she has shown Aditya and others what she is really about. I loved the way he handled the situation for her tried to talk to her during the saree and makeup issues and it didn’t not work so his approach of actions was for more impactful and emotional because it showed the respect he holds in his love.


Why everyone feels he needed to say something to Maline is beyond me we have seen that this approach will never work for she will spin this in her own way. I feel he is on to her as Aps has said in her post but he I willing to let it slide until it doesn’t bring harm to imlie way. For him he is trying to support imlie and the robbery once again showed that in a crowed off noise he only has eyes for imlie and imlie alone.


For imlie has shown him that she doesn’t need his money or status for she just wants his time and commitment. Him willing to open his wallet and spend as much as wanted was a way of showing them all that she owns the whole of him. She never had to ask him he just went ahead and did so to protect her feelings and her too. There love is so pure and raw because when it has come to showing everyone he has not been afraid to own his commitment because he has held her hand to show her the respect he holds and the kiss has always symbolised the security he wants to bring for them. It’s all about protecting her from harsh words. And he is willing to do that in any way he can as she has. Just because he doesn’t fight with Maline doesn’t mean that imlie doesn’t matter for she matters far more the people have realised.


This is why despite Maline hundreds of taunts or inventing millions of delusions she has been left empty handed. No matter what the delusional situations she creates in the end the fact will still remain one that will always stem back to her insecurity of imlie just like her mother she will never be able to accept the truth that her marriage was never one of love but convenience. The image of her seeing imlie and Aditya was a backbone of the reality that she knows that this is the case. So no matter if she moves one she will still be stuck in the past for she believes and walks around people telling her how great she is that she cannot see her own flaws. That’s why all her own lies sound truthful to her because she is not willing to walk away. And this very fact had annoyed her for she enemies she is fighting for what is hers when in fact the one she is fighting with has not done so. She has just walked away claiming the relationship and wanting to fix what they have.


Imlie has always prioritised her values and her abandonment issues have always made her long for love and acceptance. This is why no matter what Maline has done so far she still belies they can be fixed because she believes the woman loves her too. Not realising that there is not love or respect accept hate. But it doesn’t mean she should be under estimated for she knows far more then she says or does. That we have seen at the scene when she was alone at the cars, brought everyone jewellery or when she stepped up to each challenge thrown her way in the competition.


In the end imlie resolve to support Aditya and walk on her morals or respect. Is her way to protect her family. Mithi had said it well that when it comes to the things imlie loves the most she is willing to go any Mike to protect it. She has shown this when she stood upto Aditya when he denied the relationship in the start that she could life her life with her faith alone or when she accepted that all the jewellery she needed was her wedding chain. Her identity is not defined by him but is all it them as a unit or on there own whereas Maline whole battle is around her Aditya of him and him alone.


Yes I do feel in the long run imlie will be made to leave and with it we will be shown an Aditya that the family never knew existed. But this will be because anu will be made to help Maline get her way as she will lose each battle she throws imlie way. Not sure why people forget just because imlie respect all doesn’t mean she is not wise to the worldly ways for she is as she has not come a state topper out of no where. As her nani says imlie is far more shrewd then she shows.


The battle is all about love and respect and in the end one that will make imlie gain respect but at the cost of losing something along the way.

just a few of my thoughts before we are hit by the next episode 😆


Such a lovely post. As I was reading it, all flashes of their journey played in my mind. You've worded it so beautifully Raaz Ji! ❤️


It's easy to just paint a picture of assumptions and prejudices on them ignoring the depth which actually has to be seen. They remained silent and veiled the truth (ofc without any ill intentions; it was maybe he felt he was doing right and she moved along) and now that very silence has its cost laid out to pay - the prejudices of society and family and a surface level comprehension of their bond, which is potent enough to challenge them.

People haven't witnessed their entire journey together. They haven't seen how he has changed, maybe he was never the true him infront of his family. It was Imlie who brought out that hidden him and while his relationship with M bound him, his association to Imlie allowed him to soar high.

And the silence they hold has also had a journey. Initially it was of guilt and the burden of truth, it was of helplessness. It then transformed to acceptance of her in him to more than a living reminder of the forced marriage. It then transformed to a dilemma on what he felt towards her, his silence speaking his heart's language (through his eyes) but his brain still stuck on impossibility of it. It was then of complete acceptance that what he felt for her is above everything else, that he loved her, that she was his truth. In that moment before the hug where he gazes at her, it reaches a sort of culmination of the events when he finally accepts that she's the rain to his parched land, that she's become his world and that he just cannot live without her. And now it's finally of support and protection.

The way their silences speak to each other, the way they are so in tune has my heart. Their bond has always been soulful and be it whoever or whatever that tries to malign their bond, that can never change its existence or its strength.


We all have spoken about M, her delusions, her refusal of the truth - my opinions on that are the same as most of you here. So not going there.


I really don't know how they plan to bring about an MU (maybe they don't and I hope they don't because trust has always been there between them, even when he hated her). Just hope that this track shall go on to conclude with a proper conclusion.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Wow Raaz, beautifully put and I agree 💯 to everything you mentioned.

I have said this many times and I reiterate - this show unfortunately is difficult to watch as a daily, but amazing when you watch it on a binge. Reasons being that the makers have always played a very long game from the start - one of building layers that are nver visible unless you get some episodes into the track.

While the bloopers and dumb acting tend to get annoying sometimes (Malini broke a freaking mirror, yet not 1 person in the T house realised it🤦‍♀️, the entire chori sequence which was unintentionally stupid and had horrible acting🤦‍♀️), the overall storytelling has always been one that takes its time to build. Hence at many points the episodes seem disconnected and make no sense when we go from one day to the next. The build-up sometimes do not make sense till much later when you piece together the clues that the makers have been giving us to finally build the puzzle. Jab puri picture dikhti hai, that is when much of the previous incidents start to make sense.

Like you said, the current track is to show the difference of upbringing which is one of the reasons for Adi's choice. The difference is outlook towards life, between luxury and struggles, between golden spoon and mitti ka spoon. People forget that while gold looks beautiful and is nice to have, you cannot cook in a gold ka bartan. Gold is something that people aspire for, but mitti is what they want at the end of the day to help them get sustenance. Khaana mitti ke bartan main hi sabse paushtik aur healthy rehta hai - kyunki that will always ensure that the food retains all its inherent nutrition.

Similarly while Malini as a bahu is nice to have for Aparna, she forgets that for anyone to be a good bahu, she has to be a wife that her son wants. Like you mentioned, Malini was just a tick mark for Adi, because she became a mirror to show him only what he wanted to see. She refused to hold on to her identity and was willing to mould herself as per what Adi wanted her to be. While that is not wrong, in that process, she could never challenge Adi to look beyond the box he was inside.

On the other hand, Imlie challenged him at every point to see beyond that box. Adi realised that there was more to the world than he knew and there was more to himself than he was aware of. Imlie slowly with her vishwaas in herself and her Sita Maiyya changed Adi's outlook towards life, so much so that the very relationship that at one time was his gale ka phanda, became his wings to fly out of the golden cage which was his relationship with Malini and finally embrace his true self.

Best example of this was during the party, where the editor mentioned that Adi had never once even cracked a joke in 10 years was making fun of his colleagues to protect Imlie's reputation. While that was pure sarcasm, the fact that Adi was prompted to act completely out of character than people around him we used to, shows just how much Imli has changed Adi. Similarly the guy who would never talk on the phone for long before and was likely to not even pick up when family calls, asked his wife to be on the line while he went to the kitchen to eat something she made for him, not letting the connection sever for even a moment.

But that aside, like you mentioned, the purpose of the last few episodes was to lay ground for multiple things. 1st - that for Adi, Imlie is paramount. Nothing anyone says or does will affect his feelings for her. Also, the guy will do anything to ensure that his wife is not hurt by anyone. While not directly, but he is very capable of doing things that will send the required message and remind both the outside world and his own wife that she will always be first priority for him and that no matter how much anyone tries, he will always be with Imlie. 2nd - Adi has understood that he needs to deal with Malini with kid gloves and not confront her in anyway, if he wants to keep his sanity intact and hopefully complete his divorce in the near future. Malini's outburst during the party night has heightened his senses towards Malini's tendency to blame others if she is confronted, so he uses diplomatic taunts and roundabout ways to ensure both his wives are aware of his priorities. 3rd - Mitthi was brought in to show AC and Malini that Imlie can do anything that she puts her mind to. It is also to show that 2 women who have suffered betrayal at the hand of the same man can have different ways of dealing with it not just for themselves, but also their daughter. Mitthi dealt with her betrayal with quiet strength and poise, which allowed her to life her life with her head held high and deal with anything that life throws at her with a smile. He daughter has learnt the same thing and follows it accordingly. AC has always been in the delusions of Dev being in her control because Dev loved her and that what he did with Mitthi was a small transgression and Dev never had any feelings for Mitthi, as she is a village woman - who would choose a village woman over a rich city woman. She assumes that her marriage was happy for the last 20 years and their fights were normal, as long as she can call herself Anu Dev Chaturvedi. The same delusions have been inculcated in Malini as well. Malini has never been able to accept that her Adi chose to leave a rich, beautiful woman like her to be with a girl like Imlie - much younger, not so "beautiful" (according to Malini), poor and from the village. That frustrates her - she cannot see what Adi sees in her to choose Imlie over someone like Malini. She also assumes that her marriage with Adi was happy and that it got ruined only because of Imlie - the same way how AC holds Mitthi responsible for the issues in her marriage with Dev. So Malini is willing to go to any lengths to prove her point - almost to the level of playing with her life, the same way AC also played with Malini's life. For them more than their lives, winning is more important. Holding the husband trophy at the end is more important than respecting the choice of the person they claim to love.

Hence with the promo we understand that this track will finally show Imlie that she is worthy of being Adi's wife and the T house bahu, it will show Adi continuously bolstering Imlie's confidence to fight for her rights and finally show Malini that Imlie is worthy of everything that has been given to her by her Sita Maiyya. After that wat happens will help define how we see all these 3 characters ahead in the story.


This has been so aptly out and I am just catching up with the thread and this view point is just so perfect 🤗 One of the fact I love and has been highlight is the clear difference and direction of what one values in the lay of the land. Like it said by yourself and others so many times we whom live, breath and prosper from the very soil is also the one where are ultimate end is. We are at the end also part of the same fragment. We grown from within through the nature that we breath and choices we make for once self. The fact that our upbringing reflect our choices and relationships shows the difference the way we see our reality. The raw fact is that imlie has been learnt from a young age that one rich within relations is the one that can reach heights one can earn money and status but love and respect is one that cannot be brought. Maline has been given this at each stage may that have been through the failures of her farther or the distance that her parents relationship lacked. The issues were always brushed under the carpet. And this is why as you said the whole chori sequence is stupid 🤦‍♀️ because what ever was being said showed that the people imlie lived with and claimed to love her forgot whom she was in a drop of a hat. So proving that they never really tried to seek out whom she really was. The crack in the mirror 🪞 as you said allowed him to trek a path of self discovery and one that was both rewarding to his soul and fruitful. He was allowed to walk and learn that it was okay to be different. He was finally able to see that what he felt was okay to be questioned and that maybe he was normal after all. The prejudice that imlie has grown up with and so her mother has been so aptly shown in the track. None of the woman have been able to see Mithi pain and focus on the fact that she could have been a victim. The very sindoor they are asking for imlie to leave behind for themselves is the one that she has earned on her own accordance. They have had to live with the negative and at each turn prove it to be not so till it was turned into a positive. Why did Maline believe she had the right to question Mithi this same statement can be applied to imlie were she should be the one question the actions of her father. But has he been put through the fire of hell no he is allowed to walk away unscathed and unquestionably by anyone. Mithi allowed her self to listen to the taunts and deprive her self of happiness because she thought that would be deceitful to the man she claimed to love. She walked through fire everyone to hold on to his honour by letting hers slip. The very trust she showed him was never returned. So when imlie has been able to gain hers why should she walk away because others don’t like it. That’s not there decision to make.

I have to agree with you that although moulding yourself to your lovers likening is not a bad choice to make one should not lose perspective of what they hold dear to themselves. They should not lose there own essence of what makes them tick and why the person choices to grown with them and alongside them in the good, bad and the ugly. This is why while she was counting the stars she lost her moon to the sun. For imlie warmth drew him in as she was a quench to his thirsty soul. As unattractive as his demons may have been to him to imie they were just his longing for clarity and voice of faith or courage to understand. A silent hand asking for someone to listen and say it’s okay to be different. That’s why when the editor said as you aptly put at the party you have changed the man we know we could feel Aditya pride shine in his eyes for her because he found his home in her for he knew if he ever fell she would be right by him to hold his hand.

In contrast Maline although managed to knot the tie, she failed to hold on to his love for he never wanted to be bound. He may like to have a routine but that doesn’t mean he is not open to change. No matter how many times she spins her lies or tries to show why she should matter it won’t make a dent in Aditya because he know knows that when you are loved by someone they will never ask you to be the lesser person of yourself but the will actually encourage you to be more of whom you really are.

He has seen this in imlie at each stage for his family has hurt imlie so much yet she is willing to grown and mould herself towards someone they can be proud of but not at the risk of losing herself. She loves and respects them but at the same time doesn’t want to want her past reflect her present. She had shown him that although dev was the person whom wronged her and her mother she is willing to form a bond with Maline knowing full well that she may not see her the way she does. The believe that she holds that any relationship can be fixed shows her nature to nurture. That why she is so confident even when she feel so love she loves herself enough to comeback fighting.

I would definitely say the episodes are disconnected but there is so much focus on the material actions then the one that mattered for example the fact that he wanted imlie to accept his gift for he knew she would never take anything of his without him making her. That was proven when there was no love during the Valentine’s Day dress drama we’re imlie had to reassure him that although his act was one of concern others would not deem it so. Today that very fact was highlighted because his whole family assumed that he had called the police when in fact he had called the jewellers to show her how much she did matter. For a careless person will pay the price.

Maline will learn that while she has everyone trust today her act to get her trophy will cost her to lose all she hold dear. For she won’t be able to be seen in the same light. To earn once trust can take years but once shattered it can never be regained.

Aditya will have to learn that silence can only get you so far sometimes one needs to speak to be heard. I feel he will realise that while he has held his believe in imlie he has not listened to her concern and this may be gap he will have to fill when she leaves him behind.

As for imlie she will have to learn that not all relationships can be saved and not everyone is willing to be trusted or simply cannot understand why you love them then way you do. There will always be a divide and she will have to learn that while she may gain respect of some she won’t be able to hold it together for all of them.

For so far the key that has given imlie and Aditya the upper hand is there communication and that is because of there mutual understanding until that cannot be broken no matter what anyone does or say they will always find there way home to laughter. And this has been proven through the multiple chops that didi has received so far.😆


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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: nim_var

Raaz.. wonderful analysis and WU as always.. 🤗



The battle is all about love and respect and in the end one that will make imlie gain respect but at the cost of losing something along the way.

Just hope Imlie retains her essence, just that she will lose her blinders where M is concerned. She wants to have a bond with a sis that has been gifted to her by her SM whereas M sees her as an annoyance, one who has grabbed all that was hers.. and wishes her to far far away land.


Thanks Nim 🤗 I believe she will retain her essence I feel throughout she has always been true to her self for we have always seen her fight for her family over her own concerns but most of all she had protected Aditya when he was a just another person to her. She has always held his honour and her own in her hand by walking on her faith. The fact that she is willing to walk through her demons to achieve this shown her strength.

She has never demanded and that what Maline has forgotten for imlie was the one that let Aditya marry Maline as she offered her sindoor to her, she let her own that identity and was willing to walk away from it with pride. By focusing on her own goals and dreams and live with a marriage were there would never be any love attached in another land only to watch in form afar.

It was Aditya that couldn’t handle the lose. He seeks her and fought to have her accept him, then and what they can be. Yes along the way we have to swallow the bitter pills of the didi love and the blinders she put this is because imlie still believed Maline can be saved.

Now that she may be willing to fight I hope Maline will see what force she has to reckon through for a battle is never won until both players are playing. This will ago it to happen and Maline will learn that two people can play the game but what I worry off is in all this whom will Aditya trust🤔


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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Ps143

Such a lovely post. As I was reading it, all flashes of their journey played in my mind. You've worded it so beautifully Raaz Ji! ❤️


It's easy to just paint a picture of assumptions and prejudices on them ignoring the depth which actually has to be seen. They remained silent and veiled the truth (ofc without any ill intentions; it was maybe he felt he was doing right and she moved along) and now that very silence has its cost laid out to pay - the prejudices of society and family and a surface level comprehension of their bond, which is potent enough to challenge them.

People haven't witnessed their entire journey together. They haven't seen how he has changed, maybe he was never the true him infront of his family. It was Imlie who brought out that hidden him and while his relationship with M bound him, his association to Imlie allowed him to soar high.

And the silence they hold has also had a journey. Initially it was of guilt and the burden of truth, it was of helplessness. It then transformed to acceptance of her in him to more than a living reminder of the forced marriage. It then transformed to a dilemma on what he felt towards her, his silence speaking his heart's language (through his eyes) but his brain still stuck on impossibility of it. It was then of complete acceptance that what he felt for her is above everything else, that he loved her, that she was his truth. In that moment before the hug where he gazes at her, it reaches a sort of culmination of the events when he finally accepts that she's the rain to his parched land, that she's become his world and that he just cannot live without her. And now it's finally of support and protection.

The way their silences speak to each other, the way they are so in tune has my heart. Their bond has always been soulful and be it whoever or whatever that tries to malign their bond, that can never change its existence or its strength.


We all have spoken about M, her delusions, her refusal of the truth - my opinions on that are the same as most of you here. So not going there.


I really don't know how they plan to bring about an MU (maybe they don't and I hope they don't because trust has always been there between them, even when he hated her). Just hope that this track shall go on to conclude with a proper conclusion.


Love everything you have said her and more Ps143🤗 it’s like you said there silence is what speaks through all the challenges they are facing today. Yes I felt as we watch the episode we fell into the trap of judging the act at face value and this said it is why I had to go back a few episodes and see what there were trying to show. As the editing is quite bad these days one forgets what faith has put these two through. As Nim said faith has given imie so much and that very faith has allowed Maline to claim what she belief is hers but as we all know that is not the case.


This so why although people hail kunal as a hero I felt he was not one for Aditya stood up to Maline mother when he knew she only wanted ill for imlie and he didn’t know what she meant to him. He has always questioned his own actions and that of others just because he is open with his flaws doesn’t mean he doesn’t regret them. If kunal wanted as he claimed to anu he would have gone to imlie and helped her out but in the end he stuck in Maline corner and nor did he say something to Aditya of this meeting. A lot of people can make bold claims but to own one truth is not easy.


This time Aditya has done both for he is trying to trust imlie judgement and walk with her by letting her have Maline in her life for the man we knew from the past would not hesitate to end these ties. It his need to respect imlie core value of family that holds him back I feel. For his eyes speak volumes when he know address Maline. And also still shows his fear of losing her as well. One could see the pride when imlie addressed him as her husband to the family as she chose the jewels and told him how she was proud of him knowing her wishes so well. That’s all he has ever wanted from her to be with him and not forget what they are for each other.


just because he doesn’t say all of what he thinks of her doesn’t mean he has not shown her either. For each of the times his hand has stretched toward imlie has been his resolve to show Maline he had moved on.

Love is not only about the physical act it is about the emotional one for the more one can express themselves the more they feel at home and at peace. Most of all they feel secure in the relationship for they are willing to give all of themselves without expecting anything in return.

Just because imlie has said it to him several times that she is okay he has seen that she is not. One could see this when Maline sat in the car or when the family failed to appreciate her achievement in the competition.

As for how this will end I feel it with climax with an nde where imlie will leave the family not out of choice but because she has too. This has to move forward to show us why Aditya feels imlie matters to him over Maline and his family has to see this too as has she. This is where the trust will be tested for sure I feel.


Maline will win in the short term but in the long run imie will return home with all honour.

Edited by raaz19 - 4 years ago

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