lets talk present track then when it comes to shivi it was shiva more specifically child shiva who started this ugly chain of reaction by spoiling raavi s dress then as an adult he always manhandled her harassed her even when she was perfectly pleasant to him she bought a shirt for him he tried to hit her with brick i mean what was that behavior?
dhara told him off gaumbi told him off but he never listened
then they both were forced into a loveless marriage
yes raavi has said alot of hurtfulk things to me but keep yourself in her place and think can you really be pleasant to a person who has been awful to you since childhood and that to without any reason
shiva has insecurities i get it he feels inferior i totally understand we all have felt that at some point but he does not gets to project his insecurities on raavi
raavi stood up for him against her friend after she stood up for him against rishita after all this i would believe she deserves at least this much fait from him that he will try to communicate his jealousy insecurity like normal human and not behave like a madman character assassinate her because that is taking it way too far