Ghulam. - Page 2

Originally posted by: ShanUlas

None of the ladies want to be foregranted . Neither Tejo nor Jas.Only person who is taking himself foregranted is Fateh. While trying to appease these two he has ended up in hospital.

He was same to Tejo when he accepted her as wife. Though Tejo did no make him dance on her tune but he did everything he could. Followed her around like puppy ; to school, to bed ,to academy : cuddling her ,hugging her , grabbing her. Nimmo rightly called him Joru ka ghullam. He did behave like that. But Tejo never misused his love and attention . She directed it in right direction ; to the family, to academy ,to career. That's why Gurpreet warmed up to her . No mother wants her son tailing his wife like puppy . But when she saw Tejo instead of using him to get worshipped directed him to positive direction. Gurpreet gave in.

(I am pointing to this coz many DIL do it. Once they see their husband worshipping them they start using it as an excuse to dominate and rule. Tejo is different. )

We have both type of girls in our society. One like Jassso who rules the same Fateh and the other like Tejo who walks equal.

Very well said! 👏

I have a 5 yo son.

25 years down the line, when my son gets married, I do not want him to be like a love-sick puppy tailing his wife.

IRL, relationships are nurtured, lot of give and take is there.

Originally posted by: ShanUlas

None of the ladies want to be foregranted . Neither Tejo nor Jas.Only person who is taking himself foregranted is Fateh. While trying to appease these two he has ended up in hospital.

That's just the beginning. Soon he will face family embarrassment and insult . His indicissiveness will drown him.

Fact is he likes being ghullam in love. For him love is complete submission forgetting your pride even self respect. If such person falls for wrong person one can make him dance on his / her tunes.

He was same to Tejo when he accepted her as wife. Though Tejo did no make him dance on her tune but he did everything he could. Followed her around like puppy ; to school, to bed ,to academy : cuddling her ,hugging her , grabbing her. Nimmo rightly called him Joru ka ghullam. He did behave like that. But Tejo never misused his love and attention . She directed it in right direction ; to the family, to academy ,to career. That's why Gurpreet warmed up to her . No mother wants her son tailing his wife like puppy . But when she saw Tejo instead of using him to get worshipped directed him to positive direction. Gurpreet gave in.

(I am pointing to this coz many DIL do it. Once they see their husband worshipping them they start using it as an excuse to dominate and rule. Tejo is different. )

Now when Jas came back to him he reverted back to lover boy . Doing same things . But now to Jas. And here is the difference. Jas is using his love to get worshipped and satisfy her ego. She is using it to prove herpoint that he was forever her slave .She is testing him every now and then to be sure that her charm is working . She is dying to declare it to Sandhus Virks and Tejo that look i won . You lost. Here is my trophy. She is forcing Fateh to reveal . Coz when she said nobody believed so now Fateh must say it.

We have both type of girls in our society. One like Jassso who rules the same Fateh and the other like Tejo who walks equal.

It's on Fateh to choose how he wants to be treated .

Feteh is not gulam of Jesso love. Whenever he thinks about jesmean he only thinks about how she looks. How he felt when she is in his arms. When he thought tejo he feels respect he feels relationship which he is betraying he is with tejo feel as friend husband all the relations around him. He is gulam of Jesso beauty and this obsession will make him loose everything.

Love never make you cheater. If you love someone you can't actually insults that person the way recently did of jesso to hide his EMA.

Originally posted by: ShanUlas

None of the ladies want to be foregranted . Neither Tejo nor Jas.Only person who is taking himself foregranted is Fateh. While trying to appease these two he has ended up in hospital.

That's just the beginning. Soon he will face family embarrassment and insult . His indicissiveness will drown him.

Fact is he likes being ghullam in love. For him love is complete submission forgetting your pride even self respect. If such person falls for wrong person one can make him dance on his / her tunes.

He was same to Tejo when he accepted her as wife. Though Tejo did no make him dance on her tune but he did everything he could. Followed her around like puppy ; to school, to bed ,to academy : cuddling her ,hugging her , grabbing her. Nimmo rightly called him Joru ka ghullam. He did behave like that. But Tejo never misused his love and attention . She directed it in right direction ; to the family, to academy ,to career. That's why Gurpreet warmed up to her . No mother wants her son tailing his wife like puppy . But when she saw Tejo instead of using him to get worshipped directed him to positive direction. Gurpreet gave in.

(I am pointing to this coz many DIL do it. Once they see their husband worshipping them they start using it as an excuse to dominate and rule. Tejo is different. )

Now when Jas came back to him he reverted back to lover boy . Doing same things . But now to Jas. And here is the difference. Jas is using his love to get worshipped and satisfy her ego. She is using it to prove herpoint that he was forever her slave .She is testing him every now and then to be sure that her charm is working . She is dying to declare it to Sandhus Virks and Tejo that look i won . You lost. Here is my trophy. She is forcing Fateh to reveal . Coz when she said nobody believed so now Fateh must say it.

We have both type of girls in our society. One like Jassso who rules the same Fateh and the other like Tejo who walks equal.

It's on Fateh to choose how he wants to be treated .

I agree. In fact, one common thing between tejo and jasmine is that they’ve made it extremely clear that they won’t be ill-treated or disrespected in any way. Fateh has gone to extreme lengths and in the process, was ready to give up on his family, dreams and self respect.

His idea of love is kinda twisted and like you mentioned, his love needs to be handled carefully otherwise it’s almost toxic.

Jasmine keeps pulling these stunts that trigger him. The photo with flowers and the message were sickening because his first thought was that she will harm herself. She keeps messing with his head whereas tejo motivates him to do better.

The next few episodes should make him decide.

Superb 👍🏼

You explained it so well ...

I watched that scene nd I loved it how when Tejo said "gulaam nahi hun tumhari" he stilled for a moment.

It felt like someone shaken his foundation of true love.

This is what love for him ... going crazy , being her gulaam, testing the love ( like jasso did) .

But Tejo she is opposite of his idea of love ... the girl demands equality in relationship... she doesn't need a slave nd she won't be a slave . She wants loyalty, u don't hv to do crazy stuff to prove ur love...

It Is in little things that keeps 2 persons together.

I hvnt watched the show from start but I am very curious to know who instilled this idea of ibadti ishq in his mind

This guy just can't differentiate between love nd obsession...

Even before he declares whom he loves Tejo or jasso, he actually needs to know what love is 😆