Apna haq kyun chode, Reminder Note pg 3 - Page 14

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Dance main kaha na Adi ko - kasthuri ho jaaon aur sindhoori ho jaaon, usme pura sama hi jaon - madam ko toh bahut kuch bolna tha lekin family show hai, hence used gaane ke words to communicate her intentions😆

That song is one of my favs and they had to use that line for DD😭

Bold: Haan na

Yeh dekhke bas ek hi gaana aata hain man me -

Aa zara kareeb se....

This legit plays in my mind nowadays

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

DD ke overdose ne mujhse yeh bhi karwa liya😆

But really that was the only way I could describe that conversation.

Matlab that guy was legit telling her ki chappal ghus nahi rahi hai - that gave me an alag level of connotation not meant for family show consumption😆

Kya kya samajhna padhta hai humein in makers ke chakkaron main - everything we only have to speculate and assume, dikhayenge kuch nahi😆

Apsji bachhe logonko bigadna hai keya !!🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: shalu79

Aps, ye kya hai🤣🤣 ye kab hua... Aaj ke episode mein kuch tha kya.

To chk abt which epi u are talking abt I stalked 2-3 pages🤣

🤣🤣

And found it or not🤣

Originally posted by: Apudip

Apsji bachhe logonko bigadna hai keya !!🤣🤣🤣

Aajkal ke Bache waise bhi bade hi shaane hote hai 😆

Okay finally caught up with the episode and the thread slowly and what a positive episode it has been in the right direction even if it was filled with the dungeons of delusions of the wicked witches whom are after the blood of the angel and the heart of the wizard. 🤣 Although it headed in the right direction slowly I love the way the makers are trying to give us a connection between past imlie and Aditya moments. Today’s phone conversation was such a prime example why we keep coming back

I loved the way throughout the journey home how Aditya soul only had imlie on his mind and his reluctance to be away from her yet willing himself to do so. His heart was and is always in the right place some may have felt he is giving Maline a free pass but I feel he is being careful since that night. Maline has been trying to woven her web of lies and delusions with each spell she enchant she is left yearning in pity. It’s sad to see that her denial has taken her so far away from reality that she believes her presence matters when in fact Aditya ever action has been screaming in the opposite direction. I felt today his lack of words to her and his willingness not to explain himself was far more impactful then the thousand of friendship speeches and sorry he has sad. Slowly he has been drawing the line may that be leaving her behind to have her tea or letting her know of his worries for his imlie. He has not shied away from his truth and love for the woman his has claimed in the open.

I love the way the phone conversation openly showed and put the message across for the viewers to see that imlie and Aditya have shown that a for a relationship to be successful one doesn’t have to focus on the time that one has spent together but rather it’s built upon the foundation you have mutually built. Throughout this track the makers have shown us that all of Maline logic and her believe in her relationship success is based upon the length of its time and not the person whom she is with. She has today shown once more that she doesn’t respect or understand Aditya wishes for the it was never about the roti or rice but it was about having the choice and respecting it. Her taking that away from him showed that she was more focused on her role in there partnering then as a unit. For love doesn’t measure once preferences it learns to respect them. This showed once more that they never talked. For all the PDA and friendship it seemed this friendship was even hallow.


This was such a parallel back to the day when imie would let him choice what he wanted from her may that be one of her leaving, not entering his room or simply doing day to day task that he deemed were to intimate for them to be part of together. He back then had given Maline all those rights and more when in fact they belong to imlie. She never question or judge she just respected and walked on her path holding her faith.

This takes me to the whole phone conversation a few days back I mentioned that trust is far more significant of a sign of love then the words one utters. Today the makers I felt strengthen that by allowing imlie and Aditya to have there little moment on the telephone. In the past may that have been when she left for PD or his return both were left yearning for the other. Wanting more of a connection but not being able to walk on the path. The angst was such a mirror to there love and longing. Especially when Aditya wanted to hold on to the conversation when he knew Maline knew not of his truth or when imlie had been sent away and all his soul wanted was to sure she was okay. Not sure if anyone else felt it but I so believe that imlie and Aditya relationship is far more intimate then Maline likes to believe. Them sharing each small moment was a sign of the understanding they hold and the intimacy that comes with it. Yes that foundation of trust has allowed them to show the how they can love one another without being at the same place at the same time. This I feel once again has been shown in Maline failure today for she was so focused on the outer beauty may that have been the dinner date or the tea. She forgot and also showed that she never understood Aditya and with it she shown that she doesn’t not know how the love him. She has proven that between imie and her imlie holds the knowledge of what makes Aditya heart tick and she holds the knowledge of how to connect and let his heart be at peace and so his soul. Her actions of letting Maline have the diner and bike ride shows that she has the courage to hold onto her faith. That’s the knowledge that lets her vulnerable side go. I think this is something that Aditya has held into the knowledge of knowing that Maline may have never really known whom he was within. Just because the makers have not voiced it doesn’t mean it can not see or feel it when imlie is not around.

Finally how adorable was it that Aditya would go to any lengths to protect the heart of the woman he loves as he departed the the c house one could see that he never wanted to leave either mother or daughter behind.

As for the precap 😎 all I will say is finally the makers have focused on the sister hood and have shown us a glimpse that the bonding of such love is based upon once capacity that it decided based upon once will and acts that you will be showing and exercising when accepting the bond. It’s not decided by destiny it determined by once self. Imie finally standing up for her self was such a relieve to see. Finally we are moving away from the whole destiny bond and seeing for what the grey showed is about.

Today I will say this that the makers have finally even if so subtly have tried to show that marriage is not a love affair but a recognition of one spiritual journey. This is what imie and Aditya path is one right know because they are both connecting with each other mentally and physically. It’s so sad to say but Maline is so focused on the love affair that was not that she cannot see that her relationship was shallow and empty to start with.🤣

If only makers would keep given us such more chops I can deal with the screeching and multiple nds 😆


Sorry for the typos as posting from mobile 😊

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Mujhe toh sabse bura tabh lagta hai when they mention Adilie ka romance in PD and under Malini's nose. I am like - yeh inhe kahaan dikha, aur hume kyun nahi dikhaya gaya.

Matlab hadd hai - we fans never get to see what the opposite waalon ko dikh jaata hai - is this their paarki nazar or Nirma super ki dhulayi of their favourite- I cannot decide😆

Mujhe sabse bura when accuse imlie of stealing pati, idk if we are in the 18th century, as if adi is a toy woh utha ke le gayi uski apni marzi khwahish nahi 😆 woh chorh bhi de adi 20 saal coma mein chala jayega but chaand ke paas nahi jayega 😆 character progression is a thing what happened in the past cannot be applied now when the characters have grown so much (all except one) idk itna dekhne ke baad bhi kahaan se expectations aati hai a guy like adi is capable of going back to someone he doesn’t care one bit by leaving someone he starts dying at the thought of gone for a few hours lol

Originally posted by: raaz19

Okay finally caught up with the episode and the thread slowly and what a positive episode it has been in the right direction even if it was filled with the dungeons of delusions of the wicked witches whom are after the blood of the angel and the heart of the wizard. 🤣 Although it headed in the right direction slowly I love the way the makers are trying to give us a connection between past imlie and Aditya moments. Today’s phone conversation was such a prime example why we keep coming back

I loved the way throughout the journey home how Aditya soul only had imlie on his mind and his reluctance to be away from her yet willing himself to do so. His heart was and is always in the right place some may have felt he is giving Maline a free pass but I feel he is being careful since that night. Maline has been trying to woven her web of lies and delusions with each spell she enchant she is left yearning in pity. It’s sad to see that her denial has taken her so far away from reality that she believes her presence matters when in fact Aditya ever action has been screaming in the opposite direction. I felt today his lack of words to her and his willingness not to explain himself was far more impactful then the thousand of friendship speeches and sorry he has sad. Slowly he has been drawing the line may that be leaving her behind to have her tea or letting her know of his worries for his imlie. He has not shied away from his truth and love for the woman his has claimed in the open.

I love the way the phone conversation openly showed and put the message across for the viewers to see that imlie and Aditya have shown that a for a relationship to be successful one doesn’t have to focus on the time that one has spent together but rather it’s built upon the foundation you have mutually built. Throughout this track the makers have shown us that all of Maline logic and her believe in her relationship success is based upon the length of its time and not the person whom she is with. She has today shown once more that she doesn’t respect or understand Aditya wishes for the it was never about the roti or rice but it was about having the choice and respecting it. Her taking that away from him showed that she was more focused on her role in there partnering then as a unit. For love doesn’t measure once preferences it learns to respect them. This showed once more that they never talked. For all the PDA and friendship it seemed this friendship was even hallow.


This was such a parallel back to the day when imie would let him choice what he wanted from her may that be one of her leaving, not entering his room or simply doing day to day task that he deemed were to intimate for them to be part of together. He back then had given Maline all those rights and more when in fact they belong to imlie. She never question or judge she just respected and walked on her path holding her faith.

This takes me to the whole phone conversation a few days back I mentioned that trust is far more significant of a sign of love then the words one utters. Today the makers I felt strengthen that by allowing imlie and Aditya to have there little moment on the telephone. In the past may that have been when she left for PD or his return both were left yearning for the other. Wanting more of a connection but not being able to walk on the path. The angst was such a mirror to there love and longing. Especially when Aditya wanted to hold on to the conversation when he knew Maline knew not of his truth or when imlie had been sent away and all his soul wanted was to sure she was okay. Not sure if anyone else felt it but I so believe that imlie and Aditya relationship is far more intimate then Maline likes to believe. Them sharing each small moment was a sign of the understanding they hold and the intimacy that comes with it. Yes that foundation of trust has allowed them to show the how they can love one another without being at the same place at the same time. This I feel once again has been shown in Maline failure today for she was so focused on the outer beauty may that have been the dinner date or the tea. She forgot and also showed that she never understood Aditya and with it she shown that she doesn’t not know how the love him. She has proven that between imie and her imlie holds the knowledge of what makes Aditya heart tick and she holds the knowledge of how to connect and let his heart be at peace and so his soul. Her actions of letting Maline have the diner and bike ride shows that she has the courage to hold onto her faith. That’s the knowledge that lets her vulnerable side go. I think this is something that Aditya has held into the knowledge of knowing that Maline may have never really known whom he was within. Just because the makers have not voiced it doesn’t mean it can not see or feel it when imlie is not around.

Finally how adorable was it that Aditya would go to any lengths to protect the heart of the woman he loves as he departed the the c house one could see that he never wanted to leave either mother or daughter behind.

As for the precap 😎 all I will say is finally the makers have focused on the sister hood and have shown us a glimpse that the bonding of such love is based upon once capacity that it decided based upon once will and acts that you will be showing and exercising when accepting the bond. It’s not decided by destiny it determined by once self. Imie finally standing up for her self was such a relieve to see. Finally we are moving away from the whole destiny bond and seeing for what the grey showed is about.

Today I will say this that the makers have finally even if so subtly have tried to show that marriage is not a love affair but a recognition of one spiritual journey. This is what imie and Aditya path is one right know because they are both connecting with each other mentally and physically. It’s so sad to say but Maline is so focused on the love affair that was not that she cannot see that her relationship was shallow and empty to start with.🤣

If only makers would keep given us such more chops I can deal with the screeching and multiple nds 😆


Sorry for the typos as posting from mobile 😊

Wow raaz this is so lovely to read.. 🤗

Word in bold... beautiful analysis and agree with what you wrote.

The telephone conversation is shown so rarely and we have seen 2 convos of Adilie.. once when she left to PD and called the T house and the 2nd time when she called after PD3. The first time, Adi felt bereft when Imlie did not speak with him and instead spoke to BK and the others. The 2nd time around it was M's presence but the hearts were longing for the other, to not hang up the phone, to prolong the feeling of being there, the intimacy as you rightly said. The nod she gave when Adi left C house with M, was one filled with trust and also saying that we will be fine, don't worry. The convo that we got, showed them expressing their thoughts, concern n love for the other.. dont have to present for the love n caring to be visible. It is expressed in the happy tone of voice, the teasing, the many unsaid words that they have for communicating.

Adi has come to realize just how precious this girl is as she trusts him absolutely while giving him the freedom of choice, nothing is ever forced and his decision is respected, not made a tamasha of..like our phamous Delusional dd where it only centres on her.

Dd never understood or tried to understand his choices, his family, respect them all and was focused selfishly on herself. If only she understood that, she would not be living in a delusional world, a prisoner of her own mind, caged by her Rs 2 beliefs. When Adi went to take his work call, Dd was upset and threw away the tea as his focus was not on her. No man can focus on a woman 24x7 and if he did, he is an obsessive stalker and something more. Same can be said for the other way around too. Liking the same things and praising the partner for every small gesture or action does not make a great foundation for a marriage. There has to be individual space and respect which was sorely lacking in AM's marriage.

Again the differences between the sisters are being highlighted and closing of some of the earlier loops.

Eveready to see Dd ki chop.. like her making chopped vegs rice. She made Adi feel suffocated and hope he explains this to his family, what Imlie brings him, why he loves her to bits and never had this with M.

Originally posted by: shalu79

Thank you, Aps❤️

Episode seems okay.. I haven't watched it yet..aapke sab ke reviews ka hi sahara hai🤗

Kya se kya hogaya.... ye show DD ke pyaar mein🤣

I am glad atleast Meethi was unconscious.. small mercy atleast she was not part of the decision to stay at DC'S house.

Malini puri pagal ho gayi hai..kya bachkand harekete kar rahi hai isse accha Imlie ko seedha seedha bol de that she loves Aditya n want him back. Mujhe moti roti chup nne ki harkat se cake wala episode yaad aaya..Though I understood her being upset at that time but the way she was going non stop about Cake nahi khaya ..mera cake nahi khaya🤣 puri pagal aurat hai ye.. trophy pehle pakad ni hai, color mujh e pehle lagana hai, kya pyaar ke maiyne hai iske🤣No wonder she couldn't form deeper bond with Aaaddiitttyaa

Precap toh ekdum dhaasu hai...chai phek diis.. n DD yelling behave urself .. Preachers are not followers suits Dd so aptly...

@bold Shows her maturity level is that of a pre teen. Never denied what she wanted or never hearing a NO to remind her no one gets everything handed to them in life. Sometimes it’s for the best. Lekin ye nahi samjegi.

Didn’t Malini decide to step aside and let Adi and Imli live as a couple since she didn’t want to be the other woman in his life. Suddenly she wants Adi back. as if he’s a toy she decided to give away that she wants back. Shaadi koi gudda gudiyon ka khel samajthi hai. Can she really live with Adi knowing he is not in love with her?

Imli at 19 had many hard knocks in life and sees life through the reality lens. She’s a lot younger than Imli. She’s the pampered daughter who doesn’t see listening to her mother will be her downfall. Live and learn!

Oh Nim what wonderful words 🤗on choices and especially the part at the end. How can one forget his suffocating during the truth reveal and the stages leading upto it and after. I hope he gets to say all he has been holding back and more. Just like yourself I am ever ready with 🍿 waiting for didi to be chopped in half or more 🤣🤣

hopefully Aditya may suggest he go have some 🫖 after as it seems from the precap that he may not be getting any after the debacle of the moti 🫓 drama

But seriously I cannot agree more to the fact you have mentioned so perfectly that if one looks into it deeper the root of it all lay at the fact that Aditya has finally been allowed too be with someone whom has better intentions for him then the person he believed he had know for years. Just because it happened suddenly doesn’t mean that it’s not any more valuable then the previous infact is stronger. For time means nothing but one character does. In the whole of this drama one thing Maline is losing with it is her friendship and and respect she may have had in both there eyes. Why does Maline and everyone around her measure there relationship on time for that is not a measure of quality it has never been and cannot be today for love is endless and comes in all forms of emotions and feelings.😎

Just sad to see that both mother and daughter have forgotten this perspective in the want of a 🏆 husband.For no matter how long she spent on the veg 🍚 all Aditya wanted was Imlie for he started to miss her even before he left. So he made the time to be with her without the need to make excuses, break promises or hide behind broken promises which is what Maline had to do to have one of her dream reality come true.

The simple fact is that Aditya and Imlie miles apart or in a room alone can find there little bit of heaven come rain or shine. For they have neither let there love imprison them or control them were they feel the need to be away from each other. The Liberty to be a free spirit neither making them feel lost or confused but just whole. Which sadly Maline is not. This is why there marriage while on testing path is surviving when Maline didn’t.