Kuch Rang Pyar Ke Aise Bhi 3 Written Updates 17 Aug 2021 - Page 8

Originally posted by: Rosh4rose

Dev still loves Sona

Sona doesn’r love him any more make him realize it and leave

Children apparently belong to Sona

Both of them will be happier

Bijoy too will be happy

Dev too need some one who understands him

😂😂

Bold part:- From where I see it, actually it is the other way around. Sona still loves Dev. That is the reason why until recently she has tolerated the taunts, insults, humiliation from his maa & also indifference from Dev but now she is disappointed, frustrated, angry & seems to have lost respect for him.Their son had asked only one thing from them that is he would not want his name to be changed as it has sentimental value for him & Dev as a father couldn't even bring himself to take a stand & oppose his mother in renaming him as Ved.

Dev on the other hand seems to be taking Sonakshi for granted. He doesn't seem to value her or her opinions. Even when she shares her feelings with him, he seems indifferent to her fears & concerns & is insensitive most of the time. His words that he loves her very much sounds very hollow as his words don't get translated into deeds. If he really loved her he would have cared for & valued her opinions, given her respect & would have taken a stand for his wife each time his maa insulted or taunted her.

Originally posted by: CottonWorld

At least they were loyal to each other. Then where did that love go? How can you love a woman for 7 long years even in her absence but not care for her enough in her presence?

Dec slept around with multiple women.

Lol koi redeeming quality nhi hai.

Originally posted by: CottonWorld

I think Sonakshi was too hurt and angry today ... else I'm sure she would've known that the maa beta duo will not let her take the kids with her easily. If she wants it to go that way then divorce and custody battle is the way. If things go on like this then this will definitely come to her mind. Except this part...she was not wrong today. This move was wrong. I'm glad she chose mental peace for her kids and herself.

Dev did seem to give up on her and their marriage. He became too complacent with how everything was going on...him worshipping his mother, ignoring Sonakshi and her concerns and neglecting the issues his kids were trying to tell him about. As long as his happy family (read happy mother) bubble was intact...he didn't bother. If there was any instance in this season which showed his loving and caring side towards his wife... please point it out. I don't remember if there was any. It was Sonakshi who was missing the bond they shared till now.

Now that Sonakshi refused to put up with the facade of being happy anymore...he is unable to digest the fact. He is unable to accept that she can leave him and can think of his God like mother to be in the wrong. Not once he had even a self thought that his mother was in the wrong. It's his and his mother's way or the highway. So why can't Sonakshi also choose the highway?

I refuse to comment much on the God like mother because for me she is irredeemable.

I have quite mad at Dev's characterization this season. It's been awful, to put it lightly. Cracking idiotic whatsapp jokes like who pays attention to their wives after 10 years, increasing the volume of the radio while she talks about her feelings etc. He stood her up at the coffee shop and didn't even feel guilty about it, apologizing only when Bijoy made a comment on why she was sad.

They have made the Ishwari and Dev relationship even more cloying and over-the-top than what it already was. He forgot their anniversary but remembers to get his mother's favorite paan. That garden scene where he plays with her pallu and tells her that she is his life and he needs her like heart beat and breaths. That was serious Oedipus Complex vibes.

He has been telling Sona he loves her, but not what she needs at the time.

Everything aside, not siding with Sona over Ayush really is too much. He doesn't have to yell or be disrespectful but he needs to tell Ishwari in clear way that he and Sona make decisions for the kids and she can't do anything without their permission. I just don't see how he is not able to do that.

He hoped Sona had come home and everything will be back to normal. Dev loves sweeping things under the rug. But since she is confronting, he is really mad. I couldn't comprehend his statement that their POV needed to be told to Sona. Hello? I thought you agreed with Sona's POV! Once again, not a good characterization.

Shaheer fans have gone overboard in making gifs and edits on how awesome Dev is, but this season, he has sucked big time.

Originally posted by: CottonWorld

At least they were loyal to each other. Then where did that love go? How can you love a woman for 7 long years even in her absence but not care for her enough in her presence?

The writers have really screwed up. It's not possible. Sonakshi has been Dev's craziness. He was dating women when they were separated but that was him trying to cope. He never got over her.

So for a guy like that to ignore the love of his life, so soon after reunion is not possible, it's just really bad writing.

Originally posted by: Rosh4rose

Dev still loves Sona

Sona doesn’r love him any more make him realize it and leave

Children apparently belong to Sona

Both of them will be happier

Bijoy too will be happy

Dev too need some one who understands him

😂😂

Bold 1: Yes he does, but doesn't realize it that he cannot take her for granted.

Sona loves him very much too, she is missing their closeness and their bond.

Bold 2: I would pray that no other girl is put through what Sonakshi has already been through in that madhouse called Ishwari Niwas. Women deserve better. Also, Dev already has his mother, his zindagi, who thinks she knows and understands him. He doesnt need anyone else.

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

The hug between Dev-IshuWorry at the end was so pukeworthy. He should be hugging & consoling Sona admitting that he understands Sona & how she feels. Maate sati Savitri is wrong. Instead of Sona in his arms it’s gF Momma. How sick & sadistic is that? 🤢

I thought it was terrible too! What is going on?!

For the first time, I felt Dev should never have gotten married.

Originally posted by: DiscoDhokla

Sona and Dev love each other but they aren’t meant for each other.

Sometimes in relationships one need to think practically and about the future. Alone love isn’t enough.

Sona and Dev are two very different people. Maybe if they lived without ishwari it may have been a different story. But Sonakshi signed up for living with ishwari - she knew what she is getting into- so she shouldn’t have married Dev at all.

Because of them 2 and now +1 small lives are at stake.

Dixit household has been always toxic. It was never good.

As much as I love their love story and I love how insane Dev is for her, how he can go to any lengths for her, I agree that they will be better off apart until Ishwari is alive.

Dev gives his all to a relationship and he is already done that with his mother. She, unfortunately, is not good at sharing even an iota of attention.

When Dev fell in love, it was completely head over heels. No half measure. So Ishwari has to tolerate another woman who might be commanding equal rights to his heart? That will never be peaceful.

So for everyone's sanity, Dev and Sona are better off apart. They will be perfectly happy living separately in a different house, but Ishwari will not be happy, which in turn means Dev won't be happy.

Originally posted by: Newbiewriter30

I thought it was terrible too! What is going on?!

For the first time, I felt Dev should never have gotten married.

any grown up person who isn’t independent & has their umbilical chord attached to the parents shouldn’t get married. Unless they are willing to detach & start their life with partner with the full intention of making it a good go.

Here Dev hasn’t cut or should i say mother hasn’t cut that umbilical chord, Dev is not emotionally or mentally independent even intellectually so he isn’t a good candidate or marriage material 🙁

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

In a marriage this is the order things should be as honeymoon period can last for so long 😂

respect

Trust

Caring

Love-Sex

one day love even physical attraction diminishes as couple gets older, but if you respect your marriage, spouse, care & dont take it for granted marriage flourishes. Different relationship is developed which lasts for a long time until they die.

Couple must be best friends ... Dev’s every thing is mother Sona’s every thing is Babs, her family. assessing whose family is better , and mine yours

Packing bags , fightings and blaming each other infront of children , bringing past in to every single time arguing every thing is very un healthy .

Not supporting either Dev or Sona

It will be better for them get separated

They both are independent financially

Sona must really move out since she doesn't consider herself as a part of Dev’ family

First she must realize she and children are his real family

Since this people are adults it is better to get separate even if Iswarry no more also these two will still fight

They don’t understand each other

Drooling over physical attraction alone is not love

😂😂😂

Trust , respect , caring , love - sex one more I add communication nothing there in the relationship

Every time one topic “ who is right or wrong “

No one is completely right or wrong either

Sona & Dev don’t respect each other or their respective families .

What is happening nit entirely Dev’s fault or Sona’s they are not destined to live together !

Until today get that vibe , rarely seen any love from

Sona’s eyes for Dev this season may be it is over for her

She deserves better life too

Yes communication is a must. But it takes 2 to tango. Sona tries & Dev shuts her off. Accuses her, undermines her opinion, feelings. That is no way to communicate.

Sona is way mature than Dev only ln this serial. I think sona sees how He truly is & ishvary’s insecurities create powerstruggle. now after 10 yrs marriage, 7 years seperation & suddenly one more kids bring a whole lot of stress in marriage especially living in a joint family where there are additional dramabazi going on. Sona is seeing Dev for who he is & fed up. She wants to be a good mom to her kids more than good obedient wife or DIL.

Sorry to differ on part abt Sona not loving Dev or never liked or respected him or his family. She is there physically, emotionally & mentally. Dev is an absent husband, & a father. He has NO respect or consideration for Sona, her views, feelings etc. He is only concerned abt his mom & himself.

One can take so much of BS in the name of working a marriage out but than when things get to be too much one sees reality & sees the truth abt oneself, partner & their marriage. Self respect, dignity is challenged - questioned & one has had enough. One can take pain or hurt to them but no mother can see her kids being hurt & manipulated.

I so wish COVID makes evil disappear & story abt dev & sona continues with their kids.

Culprit makes the victim feel victim over & over. Put the blame & shame on victim. As they don’t want to be responsible for their action. Defensive attitude & denial. Narcissistic behavior period.

My 2 cents