Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi
PS- just my try on analysing why itv doesn't dwell into women's working place.
Even shows like ipkknd Didn't do well when khusi was arnavs secretary.it did well when she worked to "train" the working, modern woman to be an "ideal" bahu.
Shows like diya aur baati hum potrayed unrealistic scenarios in which a woman cracks the country's toughest exam by studying along with doing all the household chores and handling the family.people are unable to crack the exam by studying all day, forget working all day and studying for two Hours and night and acing the exams.🤷
Our neighbour show has a teenage girl as the lead who miraculously studies well despite facing harassment on a daily basis by her in laws.of course we are not shown the details of her college life.
I am not a working woman but still I have a problem with with way housewives are portrayed . That is, why does everyone have to take crap from elders and move on? Why can't they have a voice ? Why is violence justified in all forms here ? Suman throwing things at her son and dil was horrible. Why do dils have to be superwoman? Dhara was walking 25 km wants to wash everybody's feet and give a hair spa to her mil 😲 It's shocking ..I would not come out of my room , bhaad mein jaaye aisi nikammi family.
Raavi choosing to be a bahu is fine with me , because it's her choice. She wants to be dhara part 2..fine na..neither of the decisions are right or wrong , bas she shouldn't be fussing over it...like rishita said, own up ur decisions and live with them.
Lastly , let's not bring ipkknd in the discussion, it was very different with diff characters and diff theme. If the hero was toxic , it was his story , his arc , he took 350 epis to come around , whereas here , Shiva and raavi will come bk to eCh other in the most pathetic way🤢khushi was always shown to be independent , if u have seen the show , she started her own tiffin business after marriage n her Nani saas supported her , not by giving any other reason like woman must work n all, but bec she was so happy while doing it....whether she pursued anything or not it not imp..anjali and khushi both went on to do something meaningful with their lives...the family was so supportive and sweet , here the pandya family is highly toxic and hypocrite.
Edited by _charu_ - 4 years ago