SBs SEGMENT TODAY ~ UPDATED Pg 4 - Page 14

Originally posted by: tptwi

Because anger is not the only emotion that over clouds him. We have seen him being left speechless by Sai before too. The most powerful example is the Ladhak fight. Sai was accusing him of being in love with Pakhi, and all he could do was stand there and cry. All he could say was that she is lying. He had no more explanations to give her. Because he was in so much pain and hurt that she could even think these things…they were already so far from the truth, and this was before he even realized his love for her. Now, what she has said is 100x worse than what she said during the ladhak fight, and from his POV his actions should have made clear by now that Pakhi has no place in his life and that he loves Sai. He has poured his entire existence into Sai’s happiness and comfort.
Sai questioning him like this has left him hopeless….

Tagging you because we were discussing something similar a few days ago.

Originally posted by: tptwi

Because anger is not the only emotion that over clouds him. We have seen him being left speechless by Sai before too. The most powerful example is the Ladhak fight. Sai was accusing him of being in love with Pakhi, and all he could do was stand there and cry. All he could say was that she is lying. He had no more explanations to give her. Because he was in so much pain and hurt that she could even think these things…they were already so far from the truth, and this was before he even realized his love for her. Now, what she has said is 100x worse than what she said during the ladhak fight, and from his POV his actions should have made clear by now that Pakhi has no place in his life and that he loves Sai. He has poured his entire existence into Sai’s happiness and comfort.
Sai questioning him like this has left him hopeless….

Tags not working properly again. Laksh, tagging you here in case you are interested. My take on asmi’s question as to why Virat didn’t burst with anger this time.

Originally posted by: tptwi

Before I was starting to think that we should wait until the episode airs to discuss. And, that is still partially true, because we will get the entire context. But, then what you have written (@bolded) really did make me think otherwise. From Virat's perspective, it does not matter what she intended to mean. The fact is that the phrase that she has used "masterplan" and "being in two boats at once" has implications beyond intentions. I have always sided with her and understood where she is coming from. And, Laksh as you have beautifully described, I still do. But, now I want to say for Sai what I always say for Virat. There is a difference between intentions and how those intentions comes across. Her intentions here could have been to simply say that he needs to choose, to clear everything up... and to me, this is the greater possibility... this is again, all of her hurt and pain coming out. Samrat returning has slashed open her wounds in ways that are even worse than before. But, despite all of this, her words are still 100% wrong. She has no control over her tongue when she gets angry. She probably was not thinking before speaking, but the bottom line, to me, is that the phrase she has used is very dirty and below the belt as you have said Nethraa.

I really would like to see her apologizing for this.

Seriously at this point of time, what she intended doesn’t matter. The problem is that she didn’t control her tongue. She has made a false allegation and it is not fair for her to talk whatever be her hurt or mindset is. Ofcourse, she has to apologise. I really doubt that now Pooja because they are only going to have a fight now and when he starts to distance himself from her and with Samrat coming into picture giving divorce to Pakhi, she probably now not think of what she spoke. It probably is going to take sometime and when he distances herself from her, when she sees a change in his attitude towards her, she will be made to think and introspect. She will then start to see the difference in how he can be and how he used to be. Also, she also might get some hint of him trying to sort things between Pakhi and Samrat.

And whenever she realises that he had feelings only for her, she might confess her feelings and also apologise to have misunderstood him.

Originally posted by: laksh

Seriously at this point of time, what she intended doesn’t matter. The problem is that she didn’t control her tongue. She has made a false allegation and it is not fair for her to talk whatever be her hurt or mindset is. Ofcourse, she has to apologise. I really doubt that now Pooja because they are only going to have a fight now and when he starts to distance himself from her and with Samrat coming into picture giving divorce to Pakhi, she probably now not think of what she spoke. It probably is going to take sometime and when he distances herself from her, when she sees a change in his attitude towards her, she will be made to think and introspect. She will then start to see the difference in how he can be and how he used to be. Also, she also might get some hint of him trying to sort things between Pakhi and Samrat.

And whenever she realises that he had feelings only for her, she might confess her feelings and also apologise to have misunderstood him.

Agree with everything. @bolded- this was essentially my point too.

And yes, she won’t be apologizing any time soon. That was just my personal wish that isn’t going to come true (yet again). Her misunderstandings are only going to increase watching all of this samrat Pakhi BS….things are going to get way worse before they get better, and Virat will be suffering in the background due to the 2 most important people in his life treating him this way and thinking such inaccurate things about him.

Originally posted by: tptwi

Because anger is not the only emotion that over clouds him. We have seen him being left speechless by Sai before too. The most powerful example is the Ladhak fight. Sai was accusing him of being in love with Pakhi, and all he could do was stand there and cry. All he could say was that she is lying. He had no more explanations to give her. Because he was in so much pain and hurt that she could even think these things…they were already so far from the truth, and this was before he even realized his love for her. Now, what she has said is 100x worse than what she said during the ladhak fight, and from his POV his actions should have made clear by now that Pakhi has no place in his life and that he loves Sai. He has poured his entire existence into Sai’s happiness and comfort.
Sai questioning him like this has left him hopeless….

Action vs words is being stretched too much pointlessly. Virat can see Sai is not understanding his actions and needs words and Sai can see Virat has moved on why else would he give her a anniversary surprise 🤣🤣.

Originally posted by: tptwi

Tags not working properly again. Laksh, tagging you here in case you are interested. My take on asmi’s question as to why Virat didn’t burst with anger this time.

I had actually replied something similar to Kumuda in this thread. He would get hurt and wouldn’t be able to speak anything. Even if he is angry, he wouldn’t want to clarify, he would only ask her how she could think of him like that. He would only think that if that is what she thinks of him, then he has nothing else to clarify.

He would distance himself from her and it is understandable.

Originally posted by: Rdigest

Action vs words is being stretched too much pointlessly. Virat can see Sai is not understanding his actions and needs words and Sai can see Virat has moved on why else would he give her a anniversary surprise 🤣🤣.

The problem is that neither one of them can see what you have outlined here 🤣

They are both too blinded in their own emotions and insecurities and lack of clarification from the other

Originally posted by: tptwi

Agree with everything. @bolded- this was essentially my point too.

And yes, she won’t be apologizing any time soon. That was just my personal wish that isn’t going to come true (yet again). Her misunderstandings are only going to increase watching all of this samrat Pakhi BS….things are going to get way worse before they get better, and Virat will be suffering in the background due to the 2 most important people in his life treating him this way and thinking such inaccurate things about him.

Whether he clarifies to Sai or not, he needs to clarify to Samrat. He has to try to clear the misunderstanding with him. Obviously Samrat wouldn’t be willing to talk to him but Virat has to understand Samrat’s hurt too. Wouldn’t he have felt betrayed?

This is why I had always said that the more he delays in revealing the past, the more misunderstanding will get created. It has happened with Sai now. It can happen with Samrat too.

It is not just him suffering but all of them suffering now is how I see it. All 4 of them are wrong in one way or the other.

Originally posted by: tptwi

The problem is that neither one of them can see what you have outlined here 🤣

They are both too blinded in their own emotions and insecurities and lack of clarification from the other

I wish I could knock their heads together hoping telepathy can help them🤣🤣. Kyaa log hain yeh dono made for each other paagal couple , can't live with each other and without eachother 😂😂

Even in anger i wish Virat would say what he had to. How come he always goes mute ONLY when pp issue is raised. Does he even in rage not ever want to say anything. He could even say- i dont need to clarify anything to anyone but still let me say "i have nothing to do with pp". When he is angry at Sai he usually says whats in his heart but whenever the matter pertains pp, he always shuts down.

And what does he expect Samrat to do- live a happy life with pp, even though he knows pp is actively still pining for him. I dont understand why he is disturbed/upset that Samrat intends to end the relationship with pp. What did he expect?

Samrat definitely wronged mansi by running away from the situation but pp n virat kinda deserve his hate. Of course he feels betrayed - he heard his wife declaring her love to his brother.

They both owed him the truth. A marriage cannot be based on the foundation of a lie. And samrat obviously realized that virats behavior during his wedding was off because he was watching the girl he "loved" marry his own brother. So this "sacrifice" was completely unnecessary from virat and both of them took the decision to hide the truth from samrat. Pp didnt even give him a little truth- atleast confess she had a past...

Also i think another mistake virat made was to be " friends" with pp. As soon as he accepted that shes his brothers wife, he should have decided to not encourage any friendship with her n cut her off so that they could get over each other. Instead he was texting/calling her from GC, indirectly encouraging her to "confide" in him....it was all a massive mistake. He looked so remorseful about "cheating" pp when he married Sai- and promised her that the marriage meant nothing, was only a deal.

What virat should've done is tell pp- we are NOT friends, all you are is my brothers wife, nothing else. And he should have distanced himself instead of trying to console her. He should've got someone else like his aai/bua to be her emotional support instead of doing it himself. Virat wanted to be there for everyone..ki saari duniya ka bojh main uthaunga.

His tendency to be unduly supportive to pp in the past has made a huge impact on Sai. Its only recently that he has dissed pp in front of Sai, that too pretty mildly. Even his own aai took him apart for even allowing pp into the room and conversing with her at all , not caring for his clarification that he was actually telling pp off in that conversation.

So now by the time he had righted his wrongs, too much damage has been done.

So yes, virat was a victim of circumstances. His intentions were always right n he never ran away from his mistakes, always owned uo to them. Thats why we love him.

but his actions have repercussions. He doesn't deserve to have his "character questioned" but Sai and Samrat are not going to be quiet. I feel like the "master plan" prefix makes people including me feel bad for virat because it goes overboard but thats obviously makers doing it for dra quotient but imo crux of what Sai is saying is still the same thing she was always saying- "you are in 2 boats at once- you have one obligation to pp n one to me. But i cant handle it. Please either pick her and free me from this obligation or pick me but cut off everything with pp". His ambivalence hurts Sai. she can neither get herself to leave him nor can she handle these constant reminders of his "past" .

Also on an aside, what does virat think about pp. Did they ever have "a past" or was it only an infatuation. He seems confused. On the one hand he told pp - we never had a rishta, what are you talking about. On the other hand he told Sai- oh there was a time when i was involved with pp....