Pandya Store|Episode Discussion#80|Teri Meri Shaadi Khatam (YELLOW) - Page 93

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

@bold, this was what made me feel for Shiva today! I know Suman was trying to teach Shiva a lesson; however, considering how the family has shared finances and the brothers don't own a bank account of their own, how could the family let Shiva leave like that?

Exactly my point.

The punishment just looks equal, but is not.raavi will be in the comfort of her house with maasi, mausa and anita pampering her and shiva will be crying away in guilt all alone somewhere 💔.

Originally posted by: mahajanaish

And when on Earth did I say Raavi isn't . But Shiva's outcry and wrong leaves Raavi far behind . I am not some one who differentiates between a girl or a guy . Did he question her ? No . He accused her . And just because u went point wise let me come back with scene by scene scenario.

Shiva poured water on her the day of wedding .

Shiva pushed her on the day of wedding

Raavi wanting to slap shiva after kidnapping MU

I can't remember Raavi pushing Shiva in Haveli but do correct me if I she did .

Shiva manhandling her again when she saved his burnt hand

Shiva screaming at Raavi when he was angry with Maami

I am sure there were more scenes but that's what I remember from Haveli .

From the house scenes

The obvious one is Shiva Pushing Raavi in the function .

Raavi hitting him after saving her from death on wedding day

Raavi about to slap him in kidnapping fiasco

Raavi pushing him in haveli when he pulled her back from the ledge

Raavi holding his collars in haveli

Raavi holding his collars some episodes ago

Raavi slapping him after calling him janglee gawar in a full market...

And I am sure she is justified each time

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

she did the same -- she called him jungli jaanwar in front of all. And let her friends do the same. She also hit him the moment he questioned her character, so I'd say she gave back as good as she got. She isn't the victim

My reference was to the synopsis of the episode.

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

But just because this was the house he was born in, he shouldn't be punished and shown the door as well?

They can always give him money for his expenses from pandya store,or he can probably go to Hardik's house.

I felt it was a fit punishment. Both being asked to leave the house!

@bold, I don't know if they would show this in PS, as CVs tend to show things at the surface level... but I think it's an interesting question... I wonder if they would give him money considering all the recent expenses that happened due to the room building. I know Suman sold her kangans, but do they have enough left over money to give to Shiva to support himself? And if they don't, would they actually ask Hardik for help since Gaumbi didn't even take money from Hardik in the past... it makes me think Shiva wouldn't want to lodge with Hardik either so as not to burden Hardik further...

I wonder if Shiva will spend his first night at the store, reflecting on all that has happened... before moving onto some other room elsewhere...

Originally posted by: mpks1

By making Shiva petticoat chaap number 3😆

You said it.. exactly this will happen 😆

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

Of course it is

And yet her slap is justified

And his wrist twisting is not...

She have pushed him in haveli

Tried to slap him after kidnapping

held his collars

And yet all of that is okay...

Why?

U wanna justify her slap because of his question on her character?

What about the pushing pulling she did?

What about the collar holding she did?

It comes under manhandling too isn’t it?

Can u justify that?

The point was never if Shiva was wrong

Shiva is wrong, a lot. Everyone agrees.

The point is how come Raavi isn’t wrong when she have done many of the things wrong herself!

Shiva is wrong

Raavi is wrong

Both needs to grow!

So when u see his fault and think how come Raavi is being blamed

Many here sees her fault too...

Maahi🤗 I am tired of posting this again and again that both are wrong, both need to realize but got called frustrated and bizarre today😆

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

Again- no one said he was right.

But if you are taking the effort to dissect his words, why not Raavi's too? If she was pushed into saying mean words to him, he was pushed by her to react.

Shiva is not an ideal guy, but Raavi is no saint. She is equally terrible and toxic as him. He is more open and volatile with his toxicity. She does it behind a veil of innocence.

I am not making efforts to dissect . The whole scene was about Shiva's accusation on Raavi . I don't think he was pushed by Raavi . He only heard Raavi at the wrong times with Half words going in his ears. He was pushed by Sneha who is not Raavi . He was pushed by That dev Raavi scene where Raavi was not at fault .He was pushed Raavi's friends who is not Raavi . He was pushed by Raavi's diary which was written before marriage . And her opinion has changed over time when she said "boht handsome hai mera pati" . It's Shiva's MU and he is taking out his frustration on Raavi . Him comparing her to Bangles. I don't even wanna elaborate more. Raavi might not be a saint but She is a thousand times more human than Shiva. She tried to correct him , tried to converse .tried to clear out .

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

I feel that we need a vote for this episode. I personally find this to be a red episode (other than Kanta Kaki's intervention). I'm very exhausted of their fight and wish to just see some progress... Suman's words were nice, and she clearly saw the need of what a punishment will do in terms of self-growth... but again, it's not the way I would've wanted to see it (again, I'm being spoiled by the OG here, so maybe I need to decouple the OG to truly understand). But the family's initial reaction, plus the fact that Kanta Kaki needed to come for Suman to react in the way she did makes it less enjoyable for me... I wish Suman had more trust in her son... (and this is not me saying this as a Shiva supporter, but as a simple person in general... parental/family support and voice of reason is always needed for mental support). The family could learn of Shiva's insecurities later, but I think that would be too late already... they planted the seed of doubt in him already by never giving him a chance to speak his side of the story...

I'm interested to hear about the other opinions. You can vote on this post with:

🧡 --> 🟢

👍 --> 🟡

😡 --> 🔴

I vote yellow because it was kinda what I was expecting.

I was prepared for the family to be a pendulum while assigning blame and defending initially. But what I didn't expect was how violence was the first reaction of everyone- Gaumbi, Dhara, Suman. They're not even giving Shiva a chance to say anything...just wanting to hit him which doesn't solve anything. That's what made the first part really ugly.

I actually liked Suman when she talked about respecting each other and their relationship. She also kinda gets that both Shivi are at a fault. So that made the episode salvageable

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

of course he will, the makers will make him a complete doormat to her 🤣

In Suman's words petticoat chaap😆. He may even get petticoat chaap no1 position 😆

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

He says you know what they were talking, you should keep them away.

She refuses.

She calls him junglee janwar

He tells u have a prob with this junglee janwar

Was that why u were laughing so happily with them!

Dil mein laddoo phoot rahe honge na tere ki wo ladke tujhpe fida hain.

To jaa.

She slaps.

Accused her of infidelity? Or reacted on her taunt?

Either way the guy should have been punished. But was that slap justified??

U can use words to counter words.

Slapping is abuse.

U cannot counter words with a physical abuse!!!

And Raavi have given him plenty of literal abuses just like Shiva. But her slap has taken the cake.

Character assassination in Shiva’s corner

Physical abuse in Raavi’s

Again my point proved

Both r wrong

Both shouldn’t be supported

Both needs growth

Adding " Tujhe Accha lag raha tha na unke saaarh tabhi lot pot hoke gale mil rahi thi, Jaana unke saath"