Pandya Store|Episode Discussion#80|Teri Meri Shaadi Khatam (YELLOW) - Page 64

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

My vote is Green

I feel that we need a vote for this episode. I personally find this to be a red episode (other than Kanta Kaki's intervention). I'm very exhausted of their fight and wish to just see some progress... Suman's words were nice, and she clearly saw the need of what a punishment will do in terms of self-growth... but again, it's not the way I would've wanted to see it (again, I'm being spoiled by the OG here, so maybe I need to decouple the OG to truly understand). But the family's initial reaction, plus the fact that Kanta Kaki needed to come for Suman to react in the way she did makes it less enjoyable for me... I wish Suman had more trust in her son... (and this is not me saying this as a Shiva supporter, but as a simple person in general... parental/family support and voice of reason is always needed for mental support). The family could learn of Shiva's insecurities later, but I think that would be too late already... they planted the seed of doubt in him already by never giving him a chance to speak his side of the story...

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Originally posted by: funny_fubar

Wow ya so this episode happened 😕

I did not think I could hate Raavi more- but she proved me wrong. She is not on a high horse, but on a high dinosaur 😡 If it were not against forum rules, I could list a thousand gory ways to "do away" with Raavi 😡

Can I just say, I love Kanta Kaki ❤️

Can I also just say- I no longer like Gautam. I repeat, I no longer like Gautam. For all the talknof being a father to the boys, he was happy to jump on bandwagon Raavi 😐 It did not cross his mind for a ms, that maybe, just maybe there is something more to the story- that they have brought up this boy, know how he works, and there might be more to hos anget than what a biased party like Raavi would have to say.

I don't even feel disloke for Dhara at this point- I am not even sure what she has become. She is not the Dhara I loved in the pre-leap. If Suman hadn't intervened, I am sure she would have forced Shiva to grovel, forced Raavi to stay behind and just played doll house with them 😕

I want to hate Suman and Rishitha but I cannot completely. Suman was completely fair. I might like and suppory Shiva all I want- but he did loose his cool and created a spectacle of himself and Raavi. He definitely needed to be told off.

Rishitha- is irritating. But she does not know Shiva and Raavi long enough to understand how they trigger each other. And her reaction to standing up for a woman being "tortured" by her huaband is kind of consistent with her character over the past few episodes(yes, yes she definitely is a hypocrite for letting her mom suffer 😕)

All in all- I am actually glad Suman sent Shiva out. Ya, he needs support, love and care. But given how these people are falling over themselves in their love for Raavi- I am glad Shiva will get some space to breathe. 👍🏼

Ofcourse the makers will have Shiva groveling to a extremely undeserving Raavi. 😔

THIS.

THANK YOU FOR THIS 🥺❤️

Originally posted by: SlytherInMe.

but even her guilt was linked to blaming him - she blamed him for the way she acted

Most of us are like it’s fine, she got angry, she slapped him because what he said was truly uncalled for, but then she should either own up to slapping him or feel guilty

She has no right to say that the reason she slapped him is because she’s become a junglee by living with him

She didn't in last episode and it made me furious. Irrespective of what she believes for herself, at least she didn't shift that blame on Shiva front of the family! When Suman questioned her, she said she slapped him and kind of felt guilty and said she was so angry when he questioned that she couldn't control her hands. (is that right? No. But that's at least owning that she raised her hand bwcause she couldn't control her emotions).

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

I guess I am in the minority here today. I loved today's episode!

I guess I just had too many expectations - the way all of them consistently berated each other, taking turns to say something uglier and uglier - it didn’t sit well with me at all

Just not my cup of tea 🤷🏽‍♀️ I think I saw a comment about how you like both of them being punished - and I agree with that!

If shiva has to leave and Raavi is stopped by suman, that will be ughhhh

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

My vote is Green

Uhhmmm really 😔

Edit: Sass not directed towards you. Love you 🤗

It is just that I wish I had skipped the episode and got thw cliff notes instead

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

Wow ya so this episode happened 😕

I did not think I could hate Raavi more- but she proved me wrong. She is not on a high horse, but on a high dinosaur 😡 If it were not against forum rules, I could list a thousand gory ways to "do away" with Raavi 😡

Can I just say, I love Kanta Kaki ❤️

Can I also just say- I no longer like Gautam. I repeat, I no longer like Gautam. For all the talknof being a father to the boys, he was happy to jump on bandwagon Raavi 😐 It did not cross his mind for a ms, that maybe, just maybe there is something more to the story- that they have brought up this boy, know how he works, and there might be more to hos anget than what a biased party like Raavi would have to say.

I don't even feel disloke for Dhara at this point- I am not even sure what she has become. She is not the Dhara I loved in the pre-leap. If Suman hadn't intervened, I am sure she would have forced Shiva to grovel, forced Raavi to stay behind and just played doll house with them 😕

I want to hate Suman and Rishitha but I cannot completely. Suman was completely fair. I might like and suppory Shiva all I want- but he did loose his cool and created a spectacle of himself and Raavi. He definitely needed to be told off.

Rishitha- is irritating. But she does not know Shiva and Raavi long enough to understand how they trigger each other. And her reaction to standing up for a woman being "tortured" by her huaband is kind of consistent with her character over the past few episodes(yes, yes she definitely is a hypocrite for letting her mom suffer 😕)

All in all- I am actually glad Suman sent Shiva out. Ya, he needs support, love and care. But given how these people are falling over themselves in their love for Raavi- I am glad Shiva will get some space to breathe. 👍🏼

Ofcourse the makers will have Shiva groveling to a extremely undeserving Raavi. 😔

Originally posted by: SlytherInMe.

I guess I just had too many expectations - the way all of them consistently berated each other, taking turns to say something uglier and uglier - it didn’t sit well with me at all

Just not my cup of tea 🤷🏽‍♀️ I think I saw a comment about how you like both of them being punished - and I agree with that!

If shiva has to leave and Raavi is stopped by suman, that will be ughhhh

I too loved it . Every bit of it . I am finally happy ppl are letting out their frustration . Happy with Raavi for standing up for herself

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

I guess I am in the minority here today. I loved today's episode!

Nah bud, I respect your opinion! You've made me see this episode in a new light which I would not have seen otherwise ❤️ I'll probably re-watch it in the morning with a few of the perspectives you've pointed out today... all in all though, I agree, Kanta Kaaki stole the show!

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

But that's half complete.

I think a another key point is that Kanata Kaki came in and berrated Raavi for revealing one sided truth. And reveals that Raavi slapped Shiva and it was wrong too. Suman becomes furious at that and tries to throw something at Raavi and hits Rishita. Shiva was punished today, but Raavi's punishment was annonced as well and it will be go through tomorrow.

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

She didn't in last episode and it made me furious. Irrespective of what she believes for herself, at least she didn't shift that blame on Shiva front of the family! When Suman questioned her, she said she slapped him and kind of felt guilty and said she was so angry when he questioned that she couldn't control her hands. (is that right? No. But that's at least owning that she raised her hand bwcause she couldn't control her emotions).

Hoping for some introspection from both ends once all of this calms down. They are both angry at this point.