Pandya Store|Episode Discussion#80|Teri Meri Shaadi Khatam (YELLOW) - Page 16

Originally posted by: mpks1

@bold - 🤣🤣

But the final blame will squarely fall on Shiva, hence the Majnu reference in Alice’s stories😕

Maybe starting mein Shiva will get blamed by the family🤔but overall, I also see Raavi getting blamed. If not by anyone else, at least by Shiva.

I've kinda seen them as strong-willed individuals jo family ke pressure mein chup reh sakte hai...but jab baat actual actions ki hai, they always do khud ke mann ki. Pehle ke jhagde...kangan drama...in fact, I've always thought that Shiva ka shadi ka faisla wasn't just for Dhara either.

So Shiva will definitely continue to call out Raavi's behavior. And, honestly, that's actually sufficient for me. The family can continue doing additional mannats but Shivi are not getting back together till they want it 🤔

Originally posted by: Pratichi16

Hi everyone, I am Pratichi; I am usually a silent member of this forum. I love the EDT discussions and a #shivi shipper.

After going through all the posts here, however, I have a genuine question: while both Shiva and Raavi are wrong on many accounts, I am wondering why the burden of understanding Shiva's insecurity should fall on Raavi. Yes, Raavi is immature and not always perceptive, but she also has her own issues of abandonment to deal with (which of course will never be dealt with explicitly in the serial). This marriage was never an act of choice for either of them, especially for Raavi who literally faced the worst rejection possible on the day of her marriage. While Raavi may have faltered on many accounts to understand Shiva (which also develops after many trials and errors), Shiva's falling for her and consequent insecurities are not Raavi's responsibility. While Shiva's fear of rejection is understandable, but under no circumstances, can that justify Shiva's outbursts and abusive behaviors (physically) towards Raavi. At least, after their khandar and kangan misunderstanding was over, Raavi tried her best (in her own way, may not be ideal) to accept Shiva and this marriage wholeheartedly. It's difficult for Raavi to fall for Shiva rightaway given the history and the contrasting personalities; but at least she started. But Shiva's male ego and insecurity tested her attempts time and again leading to this confrontation today. I am not blaming Shiva here because one can understand from where his insecurities are coming but that again cannot justify his bad behaviour (almost borderline abusive) towards Raavi in the past few days. Both were equally wrong here (and that's the beauty of any relationship) and hope they rise from here together.

Just an honest reflection and not at all intended for hurting anyone. :)

hi jaan 🤗 welcome to the edt and I'm so glad you posted your thoughts!

In my opinion, raavi shouldn't have to carry the burden of shiva's insecurities but rather realize how superficial her thinking is - it's less about understanding him and more about understanding herself and how insensitive and cruel she can be with her words, actions, and thoughts

Originally posted by: SlytherInMe.

in the process jaan 😆

tab tak ye le ☺️☺️☺️

Omg I just love this look of him

Please Shiva change your hairstyle in to this ❤️

Originally posted by: Beautyful_Mess

It’s 1 am here too and I’m usually fast asleep by now but tonight neend nhi aarahi. This episode has done me wrong 😂

watch some feel good scenes before bed jaan 🤗 and I'll supply the hot ones 😉

aag boy ☺️☺️☺️

Originally posted by: SlytherInMe.

aag boy ☺️☺️☺️

Haayee

Thank you for this jaan🤗❤️

Originally posted by: Pratichi16

Hi everyone, I am Pratichi; I am usually a silent member of this forum. I love the EDT discussions and a #shivi shipper.

After going through all the posts here, however, I have a genuine question: while both Shiva and Raavi are wrong on many accounts, I am wondering why the burden of understanding Shiva's insecurity should fall on Raavi. Yes, Raavi is immature and not always perceptive, but she also has her own issues of abandonment to deal with (which of course will never be dealt with explicitly in the serial). This marriage was never an act of choice for either of them, especially for Raavi who literally faced the worst rejection possible on the day of her marriage. While Raavi may have faltered on many accounts to understand Shiva (which also develops after many trials and errors), Shiva's falling for her and consequent insecurities are not Raavi's responsibility. While Shiva's fear of rejection is understandable, but under no circumstances, can that justify Shiva's outbursts and abusive behaviors (physically) towards Raavi. At least, after their khandar and kangan misunderstanding was over, Raavi tried her best (in her own way, may not be ideal) to accept Shiva and this marriage wholeheartedly. It's difficult for Raavi to fall for Shiva rightaway given the history and the contrasting personalities; but at least she started. But Shiva's male ego and insecurity tested her attempts time and again leading to this confrontation today. I am not blaming Shiva here because one can understand from where his insecurities are coming but that again cannot justify his bad behaviour (almost borderline abusive) towards Raavi in the past few days. Both were equally wrong here (and that's the beauty of any relationship) and hope they rise from here together.

Just an honest reflection and not at all intended for hurting anyone. :)

Originally posted by: mpks1

It is coming on Monday😭 her expressions are irritating the heck out of me. She is not the same Dhara I liked before leap😕

Rishita and Dev get sound advice but ShiVi get sab kuch teek ho jaayegaa, khara sona hai woh, Raavi jaise ladki nahi hai, donon ko adjust karna hai, bedroom ke bast andhar hi rehab chahiye, yada yada, yada

💯 Correct

But now that you know this, treat it as comedy filler coz this version is here to stay 😆 honestly, my coping mechanism is just to laugh at her...These days, Gaura and the family are unintentionally amusing. 😆

So I watched the episode...not once, actually twice.😆 It's funny because I was dreading watching it but then the first time I watched it, my mom joined me, and then later my sister came and we ended up having a riot over it smh 😲 (We laughed quite a bit...jeez they ruined the intense scenes for me lmao)

Imo, a decent episode tbh. Did I love the dialogues? Not really, but we all saw this coming. I still think both are in the wrong but seems like Raavi is still not close to accepting her mistakes. Shiva was wrong for questioning her so I will let the slap pass. Didn't like her putting the blame for her behavior on Shiva, at all. Her dialogues were disappointing. She needs introspection...A BIG ONE. Taali ek haath se nahi bajti, so the blame for their failing marriage which is currently lying in the deep pits of hell shouldn't be blamed upon just Shiva alone. @ Pandya family, y'all better not gang up on Shiva alone (but I feel this is what will happen. Just pls keep Dhara and her saintly dialogues away from ShiVi...I can't handle it. She has done enough by getting these two married. Give them decent advice or don't comment at all. Gaumbi is always welcome for his advice but these days, he's been reduced to a statue as well *sigh*)

I am glad that Raavi at least actually questioned herself. She asked herself the "Why's?" About time she pondered upon why he affects her this much. Hopefully, she's able to give us the answer!

Funny thing which happened, my sister saw the flashbacks of the friends taunting Shiva and she was like "Who are these idiots? Shiva looks better than all of them combined so what are they on about and why?" Facts tbh.😆

Now coming to their screaming contest at the beginning which had me totally hooked, but then they played tadap tadap ke and first my mom laughed, while I looked on shocked. My sister looked at me like "You loveee this song" which I do but it didn't suit them at all!!! My mom commented "hatao iss gaane ko" 🤣 I beg VM makers to please replace that song with one which fits better! I would have loved it if they played Alvida from D-Day (the male lyrics of that song would be quite befitting, at least that's what I think). That song alone makes me bawl.

Last but not least, the entire Pandya family is stupid as hell (referring back to comments about bacche and all). Please give them some brains

Originally posted by: SlytherInMe.

aag boy ☺️☺️☺️

Oh thank you luv 🥰🥰 He looks 🔥🔥