So Ishwari changed Ayush’s name…..!!!

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So Ishwari changed Ayush’s name. So why should Dev and Sonakshi cry so much about it? How valid is this “name hanging” ceremony which does not involve the parents? It was just a private ceremony which no one watched.How binding is that? Are Dev and Sonakshi “ compelled to use that name”? Is it a legal name? I thought only parents can name the child. Daadi cannot do a name change. So it is not even legal nor having any religious sanction. So why Dev and Son have to honour it or recognize it or feel sad about it? It is just like illegal second marriages. There is no need to annul it. Why make. Big issue of it? Ishwari is stupid as seen on tv. But Dev and Son are gyanis .Why do they worry? Adopt the kid but keep the name. What is the big issue?. Even if they are legal parents the kid can have another surname. Indians are weird.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: u4tlu

So Ishwari changed Ayush’s name. So why should Dev and Sonakshi cry so much about it? How valid is this “name hanging” ceremony which does not involve the parents? It was just a private ceremony which no one watched.How binding is that? Are Dev and Sonakshi “ compelled to use that name”? Is it a legal name? I thought only parents can name the child. Daadi cannot do a name change. So it is not even legal nor having any religious sanction. So why Dev and Son have to honour it or recognize it or feel sad about it? It is just like illegal second marriages. There is no need to annul it. Why make. Big issue of it? Ishwari is stupid as seen on tv. But Dev and Son are gyanis .Why do they worry? Adopt the kid but keep the name. What is the big issue?. Even if they are legal parents the kid can have another surname. Indians are weird.

I agree with you completely. It is not at all valid.

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Yes legally it has no ground , totally agreed just ignore it but than crying 😂

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Yes legally it has no ground , totally agreed just ignore it but than crying 😂

Not just legally but on religious grounds as well. Is there a “name change” ceremony per religion? Like you take Sanyas they get a new name. Child gets a name given by parents. When born that is Especially by the father.

Here Grandma calls the pandit. Pandit does havan and changes the child’s name. How weird .Pandit cannot do such things without the father being present. Pandit only conducts religious ceremonies. The house members are the actual “owners” of the ceremony. Pandit only guides them usually the father and mother together.

Eswari has no religious adhikar to lead such a ceremony regarding the kid. Pandit cannot do anything in this case. Why they show such nonsense with mamijs bakwas in addition I cannot understand. Dev and Sonakshi why should they cry Iabout Eswaris name change ceremony ?As for adoption that too can be done without changing name or surname. Wives when married even keep their maiden name. Why not a kid? What a hue and cry over such a silly matter

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See it has no ground legally or religiously but the pain that ayush has gone through ....he didn't know know all these things.... N he left that home bcoz of this , n dev is already in guilt trip that why he didn't understand him when he used to claim that they are so similar....and sona promised him that his name is not going to change.... But exactly opposite of what they promised to that child happened in their absence.... Right now they are thinking that what ayush is going through , how he is going to trust them further....they are new to ayush , so He need that need that assurity, trust from them...and they failed... Child needs love , trust , assurity to form a bond with parents.... But here after this namkaran all three things are missing... This is what sonakshi said to dev...taht I promised him , how am I going to face him?? Will he able to trust her further for anything...

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See it has no ground legally or religiously but the pain that ayush has gone through ....he didn't know know all these things.... N he left that home bcoz of this , n dev is already in guilt trip that why he didn't understand him when he used to claim that they are so similar....and sona promised him that his name is not going to change.... But exactly opposite of what they promised to that child happened in their absence.... Right now they are thinking that what ayush is going through , how he is going to trust them further....they are new to ayush , so He need that need that assurity, trust from them...and they failed... Child needs love , trust , assurity to form a bond with parents.... But here after this namkaran all three things are missing... This is what sonakshi said to dev...taht I promised him , how am I going to face him?? Will he able to trust her further for anything...

. Question is not about Ayush’s. Question is about “ name change” “ceremony” itself. This has no religious sanction or base. So how an Eswari conduct such a ceremony? Or the pandit conduct such a ceremony. . He will know such ceremonies are religiously invalid. As for Ayush he is a kid. I understand. Eswari if she is really religious or knowledgible then she will know she cannot conduct such ceremonies. The pandit should refuse to conduct such a ceremony as he knows only parents can do it. I mean it is not forcible religious conversion or forcible mundan ceremony that they fondly keep showing on TV to defiane Hindu religion. I mean any bakwas any half baked cv cooks up is passed off as Hindu religion. A havan for any silly thing. Kundli and name and any other bakwas they think of.AKA religion Hinduism is blind belief and all priests propagate the same . Vegetarian Eswari is control freak. NV Sonakshi suffers. Half vegetarian Dev is stupid and weak, want to eat non veg Ayush is suffering as well. Get back at Eswar by feeding all kids fish and bring fish into the house etc etc.
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: u4tlu

So Ishwari changed Ayush’s name. So why should Dev and Sonakshi cry so much about it? How valid is this “name hanging” ceremony which does not involve the parents? It was just a private ceremony which no one watched.How binding is that? Are Dev and Sonakshi “ compelled to use that name”? Is it a legal name? I thought only parents can name the child. Daadi cannot do a name change. So it is not even legal nor having any religious sanction. So why Dev and Son have to honour it or recognize it or feel sad about it? It is just like illegal second marriages. There is no need to annul it. Why make. Big issue of it? Ishwari is stupid as seen on tv. But Dev and Son are gyanis .Why do they worry? Adopt the kid but keep the name. What is the big issue?. Even if they are legal parents the kid can have another surname. Indians are weird.



It has no validity at all.

However, Dev told Ayush that his name on all paperwork will be Ved Ayushman Dixit.

That means, Dev the perfect son is going to make sure all the paperwork is completed in the name that his 'God' mother wanted.

So there, once the paperwork is done, it's all legal.

Ayush will officially be Ved.

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It has no validity at all.

However, Dev told Ayush that his name on all paperwork will be Ved Ayushman Dixit.

That means, Dev the perfect son is going to make sure all the paperwork is completed in the name that his 'God' mother wanted.

So there, once the paperwork is done, it's all legal.

Ayush will officially be Ved.

. Yes. The problem is not just the forcible conversion sorry forcible name change ceremony. The problem is Dev Dixit of the surname fame. Legal adoption can take place even without name change. Problem is gaslighting by Eswari and Dev’s weakness. The child is powerless. But importance is given to the ceremony as if that made Dev change than some legally. How stupid is that. I pity the kid and Sonakshi who cannot stand up to Eswari. She can object to name change and refuse to agree to it. Can’t she?
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. Yes. The problem is not just the forcible conversion sorry forcible name change ceremony. The problem is Dev Dixit of the surname fame. Legal adoption can take place even without name change. Problem is gaslighting by Eswari and Dev’s weakness. The child is powerless. But importance is given to the ceremony as if that made Dev change than some legally. How stupid is that. I pity the kid and Sonakshi who cannot stand up to Eswari. She can object to name change and refuse to agree to it. Can’t she?

Dev could have refused to make it official. But he didn't. He has given validity to this idiotic ceremony by agreeing to have paperwork done using this new name.

Sonakshi can protest the official name change.

But to counter that, Dev, Mr. Perfect has proposed the perfect name compromise! Ved Ayushman Dixit!

Now , one would wonder what use is a middle name? Most people are known by their first names only, then Ayush will be known as Ved only!

For that also, Dev, Mr.Perfect, has come up with the perfect compromise! He alongwith his dear Sona will call him Ayush!

Ho gaya, sab khush, to Dev bhi khush! Aur Dev ke saare fans bhi khush! Awwwww such a good son, husband and father he is!!

The only person disgusted with this whole thing is me!!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Bcoz writers did bokwas writing. Just to show esh bad light, they wrote bokwas and top of it they made devakshi accepting it. It simply shows makers don't hv better ideas.🤣

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