Pandya Store|Episode Discussion#79|Shaadi Ka Galat Faisla (GREEN) - Page 28

Originally posted by: Transference

Jahil is savage! A term used for mideival tribes when they were barbaric and untamed.

This is very interesting. I didn't know what it meant either. But in English, Savage usually has a positive connotation. E.g. "Your comment was savage." Whereas going by this show, Jhahil has negative connotation.

Languages and translations are interesting. No wonder things gets lost in translation.

Originally posted by: deeps07

@bold..I totally agree with u there.. his problems are a problem only because he is thinking it as such and suffering due to it..if he understands his own worth he will stop suffering.. then he will be able to clearly handle the situation..atleast from his side.. and he was always worthy...the moment he decided to support her despite his own feelings against her , when she was at her weakest , when dev ditched her, he showed us that he was always the better person..he doesn't have to prove anything..but he really has to understand it himself that he has always been worthy frm the beginning..

I am not able to support one over the other here..shiva needs support..so does raavi..both are two broken people who has a lot of flaws and who hardly understands each other.. but along with all this..both are love...they r pure from heart .and they deserve so much for who they are...so I like to support both of them at times like this..😆

@Bold: I agree to what u said.

Honestly they r both amazing people who needs support and someone to understand them.

But again both r going wrong. They r just not trying to understand that like this way they can't move forward.

I want my happy babies back. But I know it will take a long time.

But whatever it is I don't want either of them getting insulted in public. We may bash one and other some other time.

But we love them and seeing them hurt and upset makes me sad.

Doubt: Did Raavi know that Shiva had an "inferiority complex" for a while now? If yes, then why not confront him or have a talk about it when she understood this, one of the many times Shiva kept repeating his tel-masala dialogues? Why keep saying "compromise" over and over again? 😕

Or did she get a sudden epiphany about this during their fight?

My fav line from today-

Ae Ghochu, Mere hote huye Tu usko ghar chodega??😡

🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

I'm probably in the minority here, but I actually wish they have a serious, full month separation track. Today's episode was enough to tell me that they had a toxic relationship, and that Raavi is perhaps the most confusing character in this entire show. Saying she wants to move on, but not willing to address Shiva's baggage. She wants a perfect husband... and I don't think a one week separation will really make her realize that "perfect" is hard to achieve.

Meanwhile, Shiva's insecurities is causing his anger to become uncontrolled, he needs time by himself, he needs to distance himself from Raavi (and the issues that cause him to feel insecure) so he can introspect healthily. The tree scene where he is all by himself (which is upcoming) will be the first step, but he also needs some time at home where he can be Shiva and not Shiva, Raavi's husband.

Marriage was pushed on both of them when they least expected it. They didn't have the time to process. They didn't have the time to talk about their expectations. It reminds me of Alice's recent story where she says it is important to talk about preferences, wishes, expectations, and Shiva and Raavi have done none of that. They really need time to heal, because every time they were together, they refused to talk, open up, and understand each other. They need to understand that communication, respect, and trust are all important things in a relationship.

And maybe I am a little sadistic, but even if Raavi comes back home, I do wish Shiva and Raavi secretly proceed with a divorce track. Their blow up was intense, and as an audience we might wish for them to be together, but if I was either Shiva or Raavi's friend, I would say they need a marriage counselor, and if that doesn't work, a divorce where they can find the perfect spouse.

I am totally with you behen ❤️ Every word rings true for me 👍🏼

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

This is very interesting. I didn't know what it meant either. But in English, Savage usually has a positive connotation. E.g. "Your comment was savage." Whereas going by this show, Jhahil has negative connotation.

Languages and translations are interesting. No wonder things gets lost in translation.

Savage had a positive impact for urban connotations.

Originally posted by: ForeverForU

I'm in team ShiVi..Both are wrong and both need introspection😒

Waise bhi dono ek hi team mein hai..inke liye Kya ladna😆

Muah! Haha I am loving to see how many people are on this team. Lol I genuinely thought team Shiva would win!

Piu & ML!🤗

Seeing you both after long!❤️❤️

How are you?😍

Finally!

They talked. It was much needed.dono ne apni bhadaas nikal di.away from the family. Though it happened in the middle of the road🤕🤕

Raavi just reinforced Shiva's thoughts .raavi too thinks that shiva would have never got a girl like her had it not been for their circumstances.she had hinted this in the haveli episode too when she calls shiva a gawar for wearing tie with jeans.she has just accepted this marriage and adjusting because of the family.its important that she stays away from him and realises his value.does she feel anything for him apart from the fact that he is a good person?

Shiva's outburst had to come.he had been bursting within and raavi's friends didn't help.his behavior is not justified, but atleast it will lead to an outcome.he needs time to think and Introspect.he has not given any reason to raavi to like him.the separation will also cool him down and His anger will be replaced by hurt and regret.

The best part about their fight? They both are wrong somewhere.they both are right somewhere.shivi have to fight this through.

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

Ok I have thought about this and we have had this discussion before in the EDT

We have seen Shiva over 100 episodes and in different stages of undress 🤣 So we have grown to loke him.

I never found KD overly hot before this. Ashu herself has said that pitting Shiva against Dev just visually, she would not have picked Shiva.

Is it too much of a stretch that Shiva might not have impressed by looks for people seeing him maybe the first time?

And I have a suspicion that Junglee Jaahil Gawar somehow refers to the fact that he is always surly and does not mingle with anyone. Otherwise as everyone has mentioned- he is wearing decent clothes and is very intensity. But intensity without context comes across as agresssion.

If today was the first day you were meeting this under confident explosive Shiva, would you really find him attractive? 😐 Lack of confidence and self pity seeps into your body language and the air around you. A terrible looking confident person is always more attractive than a unconfident beautiful person

funbuns ye kya boldia 😭 I would never ever say that I would pick Dev over Shiva, oh god no - the day I pick constipated over anyone, throw me off a cliff 🤢 but yes I did say, that if it weren't for KD's acting I wouldn't have noticed him right off the bat 😆

So I can see what you're saying and kind of agree with your points as well - but I would have agreed more if it was a normal shiva scene - then I would have been like okay yea maybe they don't see the appeal

the way he looked yesterday and today (and I truly say this in an unbiased manner) - if I saw him for the first time, I would have been absolutely floored 100%

this is one of his hottest moments - so that's why I find it weird that they don't see the appeal

on top of that he was wearing normal clothes, and barely interacted with her friends - so where were they getting all these ideas from like stfu