Pandya Store|Episode Discussion#79|Shaadi Ka Galat Faisla (GREEN) - Page 15

Originally posted by: Namita-M

Bottom up for me is Akshay, Alice, Simran, Mohit, Shiny then the two amazing guys Kanwar and Kinshuk.

I find Simran better than Mohit in many places, otherwise I agree.

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

@bold: 💯 you said it! she considers herself superior to Shiva. To her he is not an equal. And until she thinks this way, there is no future for their relationship. Shiva does not deserve such a marriage. And neither will it make Raavi happy.

Am I missing on something..why do u guys feel she has a superiority complex..I never felt so..I only thought it was her dobiness😆

Originally posted by: ForeverForU

We might just get a surprise😆Raavi cares for Shiva..the way she said "Shiva Tu thik hai na" before checking her own self..She just needs to realise her own feelings..and we need Separation for that

but I guess the scene afterwards showed the difference between care and liking

she cares for him sure - she did so before they were married as well but she doesn't like him at all - that's clear now

Originally posted by: ShinyShine

I don't think it will happen, this week only Alice posted a story and it looked like she is in Pandya house and now PS aren't shooting 15 days ahead. So we will get it next week itself.

So I don't think it will be long ulta I feel Suman or Dhara r gonna bring back Raavi. & Nothing will again happen in Shivi's relationship.

I hope so😔

@Bolf true. Usi ka darr hai.

Originally posted by: deeps07

But shiva has both inferiority complex and insecurities..as u said..one led to other..

I agree ravis friends are BS people.. one needs to clear cut be away frm them as much as possible..but what if she was the kind of girl who was popular in college and was friendly and social with everyone in the college....these guys are behaving over friendly with her becz of her nature of being very open and social when none of them were even worthy enough to be invited by her for her wedding..

I do agree she is thinking she knows it all abt shiva..but that she needs to work on..this separation will be for that...hopefully.

Raavi knows nothing about Shiva’s inner feelings, he is also not the kind to share. She only knows the facade he puts on that he hates her because she is MKBKB😕

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

I'm probably in the minority here, but I actually wish they have a serious, full month separation track. Today's episode was enough to tell me that they had a toxic relationship, and that Raavi is perhaps the most confusing character in this entire show. Saying she wants to move on, but not willing to address Shiva's baggage. She wants a perfect husband... and I don't think a one week separation will really make her realize that "perfect" is hard to achieve.

Meanwhile, Shiva's insecurities is causing his anger to become uncontrolled, he needs time by himself, he needs to distance himself from Raavi (and the issues that cause him to feel insecure) so he can introspect healthily. The tree scene where he is all by himself (which is upcoming) will be the first step, but he also needs some time at home where he can be Shiva and not Shiva, Raavi's husband.

Marriage was pushed on both of them when they least expected it. They didn't have the time to process. They didn't have the time to talk about their expectations. It reminds me of Alice's recent story where she says it is important to talk about preferences, wishes, expectations, and Shiva and Raavi have done none of that. They really need time to heal, because every time they were together, they refused to talk, open up, and understand each other. They need to understand that communication, respect, and trust are all important things in a relationship.

And maybe I am a little sadistic, but even if Raavi comes back home, I do wish Shiva and Raavi secretly proceed with a divorce track. Their blow up was intense, and as an audience we might wish for them to be together, but if I was either Shiva or Raavi's friend, I would say they need a marriage counselor, and if that doesn't work, a divorce where they can find the perfect spouse.

Couldn’t agree more ❤️

Originally posted by: SlytherInMe.

I am so freaking proud of her but I agree as well, Raavi does think too highly of herself and her friends - especially about the education and the so called manners that they have received

where were her friends' manners when they were joking about Rohan taking Raaiv along with him and running away 🤢

I hope Raavi realizes that one her friends are good for nothing and two the things she prides herself in don't matter in the long run if you can't be there for your partner

Raavi dint hear them, did she?? The inferiority complex part was wrong but she was angry..also she was already near her breaking point due to Shiva..I saw this outburst coming..she made some correct points and said some ugly things too..Shiva will also go one step ahead tomorrow..bring it on I say🔥

I'm sure she will come around..Raavi cannot stay angry for long..I hope she stays angry and angsty this time though

Originally posted by: Raingoddess

I’m not to be honest. I made a post about this the other day. It’s because she has such friends that no one ever pointed out what was wrong with her fairytale world and dreams about Dev. And explains why she has no other goal in life except to be Pandya Bahu. One shouldn’t be judged by their friends but the people you attract and build relationships, esp friendships with say a lot about you. I don’t think Raavi was much different from them in college… except she actually has a kind heart.

Raavi reminds me of Poo from K3G - someone who will go above and beyond for her family and will love them fiercely, but when it comes to things such as looks, education, expectations from a life partner - her wants are superficial and surface level - she is more concerned about her partner's image and how that affects her image as well

Originally posted by: mpks1

Raavi knows nothing about Shiva’s inner feelings, he is also not the kind to share. She only knows the facade he puts on that he hates her because she is MKBKB😕

Yea .I agree totally on this..she doesn't knw shiva from heart..she just knws what he is showing outside...

ps..Mkbkb?😆

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

Would you guys call this a green episode?

We had amazing ShiVi scene and I liked Rishita's hug scene with her mom. It was beautiful ❤️. She finally got the love and care she deserved.

And I loved inspite of how everyone, including Dev treats her, she said that she's very happy and everyone loves her so much ! ❤️

It was green for me! I liked the episode.. the only thing I did not like was that we lost our original Shiva after he fell for Raavi. I just want him to be back.