Appreciating Art = Cheating ? - Page 4

Originally posted by: Ashley.Tisdale

As long as you're admiring sans inappropriate thoughts its fine 😆

My married acquaintances are always swooning over some celeb dude. Doesn't mean they want something more.

I think there’s a difference.. like I can love, admire and be crazed fans of male actors.. find them attractive, hot and everything and it also includes their personality that’s attractive.. but it’s not like I imagine or dream of having “se*” with them. The thought of it is 🤢 . Especially if they are married. I’m not taking sexual gratification by staring at them most of time. I can even fan girl Taylor swift or Britney Spears (also admiring for their looks and work, minus the attraction part). It’s the connect we develop at times with celebs and how we look up to them.

I’m not sure if it’s social conditioning or men are wired that way biologically ; but most of the times when men ogle at women it’s for a different reason. Also, we don’t know in what sense he does it or is it just for fun; and what is his equation with his wife (sounds like they are super comfortable with each other and she may be dismissive about it for whatever reason.) But I think, the point someone raised here is what he should think about. What if SHE behaved the same way. How would he feel? I however do think, these stereotypes are steeped in patriarchy and how we are nurtured in the society - human beings do have a lot of autonomy on how they behave.

Also, does he do that with celebs only or does he stare or view other women around him the same way? This can get really creepy. It’s all fun and games when it’s just for humour, but in reality - not so much.

I think these are the questions only Maroony should think about and he will have an answer for himself. There’s a difference between admiring & being creepy.

This is interesting.😆

There is an SRK fan Zehreeli Kheer who is married but calls SRK "my man".

Can we call that..."cheating"?😆

BTW I'm not judging you Zehreeli Kheer if you come across this post.

I'm asking others to do it.😆

Originally posted by: MujheMaarjaneDo

This is a complex issue and should be between husband and wife.

Sorry TheBest, but what you are doing here is called moral policing.

Of course it varies from person to person; but I guess maroony is asking for everyone’s opinions here.. probably to retrospect and everyone has different set of values.. while her point of view may be valid or not.. I think it will give him some perspective on how things can be seen from different angles it least.. I think many women would find this behaviour despicable and unwelcome.

Mods, close this thread.

Originally posted by: AwaamKiJaan

This is interesting.😆

There is an SRK fan Zehreeli Kheer who is married but calls SRK "my man".

Can we call that..."cheating"?😆

BTW I'm not judging you Zehreeli Kheer if you come across this post.

I'm asking others to do it.😆

You are right 😆

But like I said, many people just do it for fun/ humour and don’t literally mean it. I think Maroony too is one of them 😆

Originally posted by: Autumn_Rose

You are right 😆

But like I said, many people just do it for fun/ humour and don’t literally mean it. I think Maroony too is one of them 😆

Someone even said in that thread that a man getting an erection with someone other than his wife is also cheating and I was like.

That was more ridiculous because a guy getting an erection is involuntary, same way a woman feeling wet.😆

I don’t equate having celebrity crushes to cheating, unless you’re engaged in a physical/emotional relationship with them (which Marooney can only dream 😆).

In fact, he is more likely to get acknowledged by Sonu Nigam rather than any of his celebrity crushes. Good on both of you guys for having enough trust, comfort, and security to not make something as trifle as this an issue.

God forbid if I were married and my husband does not crush on Aishwarya like me, then we’re gonna have problems 😂

Originally posted by: FingerFetish

I don’t equate having celebrity crushes to cheating, unless you’re engaged in a physical/emotional relationship with them (which Marooney can only dream 😆).

In fact, he is more likely to get acknowledged by Sonu Nigam rather than any of his celebrity crushes. Good on both of you guys for having enough trust, comfort, and security to not make something as trifle as this an issue.

God forbid if I were married and my husband does not crush on Aishwarya like me, then we’re gonna have problems 😂

I hope your future partner is a Abhishek Bachchan fan😉

Originally posted by: MujheMaarjaneDo

I hope your future partner is a Abhishek Bachchan fan😉

Impossible. There’s no such thing 🤗

Originally posted by: FingerFetish

I don’t equate having celebrity crushes to cheating, unless you’re engaged in a physical/emotional relationship with them (which Marooney can only dream 😆).

In fact, he is more likely to get acknowledged by Sonu Nigam rather than any of his celebrity crushes. Good on both of you guys for having enough trust, comfort, and security to not make something as trifle as this an issue.

God forbid if I were married and my husband does not crush on Aishwarya like me, then we’re gonna have problems 😂

Well, I think you're confusing Maroony with Arsalan. 😆