Captain Obvious Kareena - Page 2

Originally posted by: tweetie19

We should be grateful that her highness, the great dumbola, is ready to share her pearls of wisdom with mere mortals like us.. She will also explain in detail how she dealt with her mood swings during pregnancy.. This gif is exclusively to help common ladies understand what happens when there is a sudden surge in those pesky pregnancy hormones..🤡

Wait. Is her book only about her pregnancy? Does she outline how one even conceives to begin with? Please tell me she mentioned this.

Please tell me that she also talks about how a bit of this can also happen when she’s not in the mood.

Okay I’m done and going to hell for this

🤣

Originally posted by: FingerFetish

Mother India should have also shared another pearl of wisdom. This move of hers can help induce labour. If this doesn’t have you popping out three kids at once, then she’s happy to give you a refund.

🤣That gif

Originally posted by: FingerFetish

Mother India should have also shared another pearl of wisdom. This move of hers can help induce labour. If this doesn’t have you popping out three kids at once, then she’s happy to give you a refund.

It’s sad seeing people making fun of this gif. She is clearly drying her dupatta with that action and teaching women how to stop depending on washing machines and become self reliant instead. Such and insult to the inspirational woman revolutionising clothes washing and drying.

She is extraordinary. What an inspiration.

Originally posted by: TrollikaDevi

I'm sick of this pregnancy is an emotional journey crap. Well yes it is but stop fetishising it...it's not all about emotions. Not after the first trimester anyway. It's VERY physical. There can be great deal of physical discomfort . And labour pain can be awful. Your womb is not in your mind so stop acting like it.

Each woman experiences pregnancy differently. And even the same woman will have a different experience with each child. Many women do experience an emotional roller coaster during pregnancy. Some women do struggle with depression and anxiety more than physical discomfort. Postpartum depression where women struggle to bond with their child can be very alienating especially when society hypes motherhood.

I do think it's important for women to open up about their emotional journies and don't find it fetishizing at all.

Originally posted by: TrollikaDevi

And couples need to stop saying WE are pregnant. No you're not. She is pregnant ,not you. Unless you're ready to push an apple out of your penis don't give us the "I experience the same emotions as her" BS.

I've gone back and forth on this. I tend to agree with you. I do agree fathers should be part of the journey and equally invested in the child. But for the father to say we are pregnant is going too far. It is diminishing of the physical and emotional turmoil the pregnant woman and her body are going through.

But if the pregnant woman prefers saying "we're pregnant" I'm not going to disagree.

Although, in my experience, many couples start off saying "we're pregnant" because it feels modern and inclusive but by the end, the woman is like "that's bullshit, you're not even going through a fraction of what I'm going through, don't you dare pretend like you're in on it."

Originally posted by: Mahisa_22

I appreciate couples saying "We are pregnant. " It's a way to include the man in the tumultuous journey that pregnancy is, and also shows that the man empathizes with his partner's struggles.

On one hand yes it does. I agree. But it also downplays what the woman goes through all by herself. Like I said it's not all about emotions and there's only so much empathy can do. When the we are pregnant thing becomes a fad, ( like it has) it seems like the man is squeezing himself into a space where there's no room for him. You can 'be there ' for your wife just the same without pretending you experience pregnancy almost as much as she does,coz you don't. You don't experience morning sickness as a man ,she does. You don't feel giddy or have flashes or have weird cravings out of nowhere..she does. Your body doesn't bloat ,hers does. You don't have to get new clothes and eat for two she does . You don't feel like you haven't peed yet. You don't feel mind numbing pain during labour or end up pooping on the table ,she does. There's a stitch on her vagina not yours . The kid latches on to her tits while she could also be dealing with post partum depression, not yours. After a certain point biology takes over . So no Weeeeee are not pregnant.

I get your point of view,I can appreciate that but some couples can go overboard with this.

Originally posted by: FingerFetish

Wait. Is her book only about her pregnancy? Does she outline how one even conceives to begin with? Please tell me she mentioned this.

Please tell me that she also talks about how a bit of this can also happen when she’s not in the mood.

Okay I’m done and going to hell for this

🤣

I think she loves blowjobs. Don't know why I feel it, but I do.

Also, she does say in her book that she 'lost her sex drive' when she was pregnant.

Originally posted by: Mahisa_22

I think she loves blowjobs. Don't know why I feel it, but I do.

Also, she does say in her book that she 'lost her sex drive' when she was pregnant.

I kinda see what you mean with that intuition. Most of her expressions that I’m googling gives me the same vibe too 😆

Originally posted by: FingerFetish

I kinda see what you mean with that intuition. Most of her expressions that I’m googling gives me the same vibe too 😆

Her mouth is perpetually twisted into a sucking expression.

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

Each woman experiences pregnancy differently. And even the same woman will have a different experience with each child. Many women do experience an emotional roller coaster during pregnancy. Some women do struggle with depression and anxiety more than physical discomfort. Postpartum depression where women struggle to bond with their child can be very alienating especially when society hypes motherhood.

I do think it's important for women to open up about their emotional journies and don't find it fetishizing at all.

I've gone back and forth on this. I tend to agree with you. I do agree fathers should be part of the journey and equally invested in the child. But for the father to say we are pregnant is going too far. It is diminishing of the physical and emotional turmoil the pregnant woman and her body are going through.

But if the pregnant woman prefers saying "we're pregnant" I'm not going to disagree.

Although, in my experience, many couples start off saying "we're pregnant" because it feels modern and inclusive but by the end, the woman is like "that's bullshit, you're not even going through a fraction of what I'm going through, don't you dare pretend like you're in on it."

Ofcourse it can be very overwhelming emotionally. That goes without saying But what I m getting at is that there's this tendency to focus more on the emotional side of it and I feel it comes from the burden placed on women to feel intensely maternal and in a certain way. There's a tendency to romanticise pregnancy,we see it everywhere ...rituals, ads, paintings. And they all focus on the 'feeling'. A balanced way of talking about it would be great.

Yeah with the 'we' thing it's probably about sounding modern on metro sexual or woke or whatever . It's as absurd as the woman saying " We scratched our balls today ".