Barrister Babu Episode Discussion Thread - Page 51

Originally posted by: ilovepyaar

This is going to turn into an essay 🤣

I have rewatched the whole Manorama track recently and I noticed so many nuances.

• In the beginning of the track, when he met Manorama for the first time... he had seen her in a lot of mirrors, at the same time in parallel Bondita was asking the village women prem mai paagal kaise hota hai? His paagalpan was shown towards Bondita in that track, not for Manorama. Manorama was just the tool to show this paagalpan about Bondita.

• When he made the outside washroom for Bondita, one of the villagers said wow you did this for your wife, you love her a lot! And Anirudh said no, she is just my zimmedari. The villager had said but zimmedari is also a form of love.
  
  This was Anirudh's dialogue: Mera maana hai ki dono mai antar hai, zimmedari hamein hamare laksh ki or lejate hai, niyantran mein rakhte hai humme... aur pyaar kabhi kisiko niyantran mein rehna deta hai kyan?
  
  He didn't stay in his niyantran because of Bondita. Not because of Mano. Again Manorama was just a tool.
  
  
• There was Kabir's poem who Anirudh misinterpreted badly, but the real meaning of the poem is about a DIVINE love between a God and their Devotee. ❤️ Again foreshadowing.

• When Ani fake married Manorama, he was in front of Durga Maa and crying, he said "Jab tak aap mujhe meri pehle wali Bondita nahi lota deti, mai Bondita se dur rehne ke zeher haste haste peeta rahunga" ... so it's zeher to stay away from Bondita.

• His meri Bondita and apni Bondita jaap was most frequent during the Mano track.

• In the Manorama track after the cliff scene, the way he used to be around Bondita was different. He stopped calling her his zimmedari. He would talk to Manorama and gush about Bondita to her. He used to feel just as hurt for breaking her heart.
  
  
• I have already posted about the cliff scene already, but it was the first time that it hit him that Bondita was not a mere zimmedari (even though he knew from way before but hadn't accepted it). That night the heartbeats background music was NOT a coincidence. He was about to do the greatest paagalpan for his love (i.e Bondita), which had been hinted at so many times in this track that love is paagalpan. The next day he fake-married Mano to bring her back on the right track.
  
  
• There were many moments in the post marriage Manorama track where he used to watch her and smile from a distance.
  
  
• One time when Bondita made a cake for the queen and Manorama took credit, while Ani supported Manorama, she went to her room and started throwing things 🤣Ani came there and was legitimately smiling watching her throw things around. He found her cute. 🤣
  
  
• Manorama had so many dialogues about Anirudh's feelings for Bondita too. After she got accepted to Dalhousie and Anirudh thought that she would leave the next day, he had literally gone crazy and was on the verge of breakdown.
  
  He told Manorama the sun might be there, but I won't feel its rays without her. He had said more things in this monologue but it's not coming to mind. But a huge monologue about how he will lose the purpose of his life without her. Oh yes he also said the road will be there, but there will be no destination. 😭
  
  
• Manorama's letter -- the way she praised their relationship, the understanding, and the devotion these two have was beautiful. She said that you two will be an example to all husbands-wives out there. ❤️ She said that her Pati Babu is only hers, and some other deep dialogues about his feelings for her.
  
  
• Oh yes in the anniversary episode, after he yelled at Bondita, in his introspection scene he was trying to distract himself that he loved Manorama. Why would he do that when he just yelled at Bondita? Doesn't he care how she feels? Actually, it's because he was avoiding this whole topic and it had become psychological for him. Manorama had been a psychological rebound. Otherwise the man who always put Bondita and her feelings first was running away from her because he was scared to confront his feelings about her.
  
  
• There are more instances but they're not coming to mind right now. 😭
  
  
• But yes, I believe that he was truly distracted by Manorama to divert his attention from Bondita because accepting Bondita like a wife was too much of a guilty process for him at that time, and he did feel that he was beginning to fall (again, in a completely pure way), so to overcome that guilt, he found a rebound in Manorama.
  
  
• However, when he almost lost her by the cliff it hit him like a tonne of bricks that she is his jeene ki vajah and he had lost his heart already. This has turned long but ... I'm sure there's more but I will cut it here for now.🤣

Nice analysis👏

I agree most of ur points , I want to add some of my also .

I feel hiramandi track is d turning point of their relationship coz thou ani send bon away still he was finding it difficult to cope up with her absence & reason by she dint told him complete truth which he keep asking himself.

After he brought her back he somewhere he accepted her as his wife/companion in true sense so he dint objected people referring them husband wife during this time phrase his feelings for her gradually developing but when TRC forced him to consummate with bon who was a child at that time he got a major jolt of his feelings & reality , is u remember he visualise bon as his bride in his room which irk him so much that he ask bon not to enter his room not do anything for him, he realised him seeing bon as his bride means somewhere he is falling for her, which was against his principles that he can love bon coz she was same kid whom he saved from d society & working 4 her betterment , so he start fighting his those feelings .

If u see after getting drugged by TRC & thakur still ani was somewhere fighting with his own feelings when he entered d SR room he was mumbering No bondita no nondita it was like he was trying to control his feelings when he was sitting on d chair in his semi consious state & bon was talking to him about their new life u can see his feelings for her in his eyes , he even smirk on starting a new life .

He found mano's mission like his only only difference mano was contributing in country's independence & he was working on bon's independence, he used mano think to divert his mind from bon , by this not only bon can be brought back on correct path but he himself will be keep himself in control.

After mano track when TRC said that while bringing bon back to right path u pushed her away from urself & today ur both hands r empty as mano 2 left , for him it was like did bon really went far away from him which made him break down.

In annulment track he stopped hiding his feelings .

I don't agree on only one thing that is pyar paagalpan hota , pyar definitely paagalpan nhi hota , pyar ka matalab dena hota vo bhi selflessly jo ani ne bon ko diya or bon ne usse .

Originally posted by: GinniAARAFAN

pata tha mujhe tum dekhti hogi par tum itani asani se thodi nazuk kali ko chod dogi tab sab log itana Gussa hogaye the na bahut logi ne If chod diya show bhi chod diya 👍🏼

use time Anirudh ne galati ki thi par Bondita bhi to zidi thi naa woh anirudh ko samjh rahi thi na anirudh use Agar use Samay Anirudh aisa nahi karta to Bondita aam Bondita ban Jati Ab woh Khas Bondita ban gaye BB ban gaye par yeh baat sab nahi samhe 😲

Tum to hamesa se samjhdar thi or Jis Tarah se Tum Anirudh ka Poiny Up tum rakhti ho utana acha Pure IF mein koi nahi Rakhta ... Tum Bhut badi Deewani ho Nazuk Kali Ki 😆❤️🤗

Deewani nahi hu... Humdard hu... Mere andar bhi ek Nazuk Kali hai... Isiliye uska gussa samajhme aata tha humesha.

Originally posted by: Ashley_m

Ani's intentions were good then, Bon's intentions are good now, but makers have never shied away from showing that wrong actions for the right reasons still deserve punishment.

In that track, Ani put pressure on Bon to make her shine. But by the end of the track, he himself realised, through an intensely emotional scene, that his methods were wrong, and that they were not what worked. What worked was something that could have been done without the fake marriage also. In fact, if he had successfully sent Bon to Dalhousie that day, he would have caused her possibly irreparable damage.

Similarly, Bon is also putting pressure on Ani now. But even her methods are not right, and I feel that she may also push Ani to the verge of irreparable damage as well.

Yes, I agree the methods were wrong. Even Bon had made many mistakes in that track. But ultimately, this fitoor they have for each other is what may burn them, but what'll also enlighten them. ❤️

Originally posted by: Ashley_m

Ani's intentions were good then, Bon's intentions are good now, but makers have never shied away from showing that wrong actions for the right reasons still deserve punishment.

In that track, Ani put pressure on Bon to make her shine. But by the end of the track, he himself realised, through an intensely emotional scene, that his methods were wrong, and that they were not what worked. What worked was something that could have been done without the fake marriage also. In fact, if he had successfully sent Bon to Dalhousie that day, he would have caused her possibly irreparable damage.

Similarly, Bon is also putting pressure on Ani now. But even her methods are not right, and I feel that she may also push Ani to the verge of irreparable damage as well.

Can u eloborate which irreparable damage u r hinting to ani ?

Ye Ani 7 baar pyaar NAHI bola aur 8 th time Haan bola 😆

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Nice analysis👏

I agree most of ur points , I want to add some of my also .

I feel hiramandi track is d turning point of their relationship coz thou ani send bon away still he was finding it difficult to cope up with her absence & reason by she dint told him complete truth which he keep asking himself.

After he brought her back he somewhere he accepted her as his wife/companion in true sense so he dint objected people referring them husband wife during this time phrase his feelings for her gradually developing but when TRC forced him to consummate with bon who was a child at that time he got a major jolt of his feelings & reality , is u remember he visualise bon as his bride in his room which irk him so much that he ask bon not to enter his room not do anything for him, he realised him seeing bon as his bride means somewhere he is falling for her, which was against his principles that he can love bon coz she was same kid whom he saved from d society & working 4 her betterment , so he start fighting his those feelings .

If u see after getting drugged by TRC & thakur still ani was somewhere fighting with his own feelings when he entered d SR room he was mumbering No bondita no nondita it was like he was trying to control his feelings when he was sitting on d chair in his semi consious state & bon was talking to him about their new life u can see his feelings for her in his eyes , he even smirk on starting a new life .

He found mano's mission like his only only difference mano was contributing in country's independence & he was working on bon's independence, he used mano think to divert his mind from bon , by this not only bon can be brought back on correct path but he himself will be keep himself in control.

After mano track when TRC said that while bringing bon back to right path u pushed her away from urself & today ur both hands r empty as mano 2 left , for him it was like did bon really went far away from him which made him break down.

In annulment track he stopped hiding his feelings .

I don't agree on only one thing that is pyar paagalpan hota , pyar definitely paagalpan nhi hota , pyar ka matalab dena hota vo bhi selflessly jo ani ne bon ko diya or bon ne usse .

Yes I agree with you. He had definitely begun to accept her as his wife way before and had fallen before that too, but I only brought up the points closer to when he began to understand what he was feeling.

It was the parivarik jeevan track that shined light over these things, and that's what scared him and caused him to rebound to zimmedari and Manorama. Otherwise, he was naturally progressing towards a happy married life with Bondita. If Kaka hadn't pushed that idea so soon, Ani would have naturally understood things with time.

The pyaar paagalpan hota hai dialogue is not by me, it's by the makers 😆 And in their case it's total paagalpan, even today. 😆 See how she's sacrificing her life for him? Only paagalpan can do that. ❤️ Of course their love for each other is totally selfless. That's why in everyone's eyes it looks like craziness and fitoor, but in their eyes it's completely selfless and pure love.

CC/TM constantly rolls their eyes at Anidita because they don't understand their love... it looks like insanity. But the truth is it isn't insanity. It's just them being pure and true to themselves and their feelings. ❤️

So yes pyaar paagalpan nahi hota, but the way it looks, it definitely looks like paagalpan, in Anirudh and Bondita's case. 😆 Back then too, and now too, they went through all kinds of fitoori things for each other.

Hi guys, purani DT itni jaldi khatam ho gayi? 🤣

I was gone for just one day and saw that DT was locked😆

Originally posted by: ilovepyaar

Yes, I agree the methods were wrong. Even Bon had made many mistakes in that track. But ultimately, this fitoor they have for each other is what may burn them, but what'll also enlighten them. ❤️

I hope they are enlightened soon... Because unlike Bon's instant forgiveness in the Mano track, Ani will take time to forgive Bon, primarily because of tab Ani hurt Bon, which Bon could forgive... But Ani will take some time to forgive Bon for hurting herself like this.

Also, I fear that Bon will only awaken when Ani faces the consequences of rebelling, similar to how Ani only woke up when he feared that Bon would be in danger because of her desperation to wear that koti, because of Ani creating insecurities in her mind.

Originally posted by: Ashley_m

I hope they are enlightened soon... Because unlike Bon's instant forgiveness in the Mano track, Ani will take time to forgive Bon, primarily because of tab Ani hurt Bon, which Bon could forgive... But Ani will take some time to forgive Bon for hurting herself like this.

Also, I fear that Bon will only awaken when Ani faces the consequences of rebelling, similar to how Ani only woke up when he feared that Bon would be in danger because of her desperation to wear that koti, because of Ani creating insecurities in her mind.

To be honest, I think he'll forgive her pretty easily, in fact he'll be impressed after he accepts that he loves her, that she did all this in her love. Remember his dialogue to VJ/Bon in his love confession? He admiringly said Bondita put her life at risk to save our pyaare rishta.😆 So I think he will see it from this perspective only.

Let's see, even if Ani faces any consequences, they're in it together. ❤️

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Can u eloborate which irreparable damage u r hinting to ani ?

Damage to Bon... Not to Ani... If Bon would have left that day thinking that Ani does not care for her anymore, it would have affected her mental health in a terrible way. Her insecurities would have consumed her, and there would have been no way that she would have been able to study properly. She would most likely have slipped into depression with time. In fact, it was the insecurity that Bon had due to being compared with Mano that caused her to unknowingly put her life in danger by swapping the Bomb vest...