Pandya Store|Episode Discussion#76|Bairag Aur Shringar Ka Mel (GREEN) - Page 43

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

Mahi since KDICe shot rain sequence today while others were shooting with the little girl in diff outfit, maybe there could be some sort of resolution.

Based on today's episode and the way Raavi was talking to the matkas that "many people come to you with mannats in this month. If he has time, can he listen to her small wish of removing all the fights between her and Shiva," I wonder if she has kept her own mannat without telling others and for that mannat to fulfill there will be something that will happen and they have their own seperate rain sequence.

It would be so beautiful if Raavi actually had her own mannat for her marriage along with the brothers' mannat!

Being the pure-hearted soul she is, her mannat would definitely be fulfilled ❤️

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

I do think she kept her own mannat... maybe he will hear her prayers where she speaks about how she wants to be with him, how she wants to be the wife he can feel proud about, and how he is already the husband she can accept... maybe that will change his mind since there will be no one except Bholenath to hear those words... he'll know that she's not pretending in the slightest

This will be so amazing

But will the writers really be this meherbaan on us? 😆

Originally posted by: Transference

I am deficient today after watching the episode despite it being Shivi centric.

There's a veil -symbolic as well as literal between both of them.

I thought Shiva always understood her pain-he did, but I get why he doesn't understand her anymore. Shiva had built a sandcastle of hope, Giddiness and love. When such sandcastles break, it shakes the core of any human being.

Shiva wants to be in a love that consummate love- a heady cocktail of intimacy, passion and commitment, while Raavi is stuck only at the dedication.

What a sad state!

I am coming to Dev! I agree that Raavi & Dev can't be awkward their whole life, and I am okay with Raavi trying to find solace in the words of anyone who can comfort her at this point. My biggest pet peeve is with Dev, who should have the sanity to cut chords with Raavi. Comfort and camaraderie are different, but discussing the marital woes of a childhood friend with whom you already took some pheras is NOT okay!

Dev-Raavi are pals-I get it! But, Dev being the older brother, maybe should understand the delicate relationship between Shiva and Raavi. He should try to stay away from their matters.

Shiva hasn't changed; he had always wanted Dev to stay out of his equation with Raavi, but sadly, neither Raavi nor Dev has understood him yet.

I wish the CV’s don't dump their rich childhood history. The last thing I want to see is this tamed Sindoor Suhaag Drama!

Esha, Sri and Avi! You have said it all!

Very well said Piu!

@Bold1 Couldn’t agree more. Just to play devil’s advocate, I’ll say he does it out of habit. I believe it’s a habit he desperately needs to grow out of but I do think it stems from there.

Like Raavi said, “this time even you can’t fix anything.” Dev has always been the mediator between Shiva and Raavi. But given how much things have changed, Dev should no longer be taking that role. No one should get involved (outside of a professional if they choose to take that route). It’s strictly personal (something Shiva pointed out, albeit rudely) and he has no business being there. Habits are hard to break, especially childhood ones.

In that moment, the three of them fell into their childhood roles without realizing the repercussions on their interpersonal relationships, on Shiva-Raavi’s marriage and Shiva’s feelings. I hope Dev breaks that habit before it’s too late.

@Bold2 The day they do this officially, I’ll be done with this show. For me, the childhood history holds so much importance and intrigue. Without that, ShiVi aren’t ShiVi. With all due respect to viewers of the OG, ShiVi are not KM. I haven’t watched the OG nor am I interested in watching that kind of love story (at least not right now). I’m sure it’s amazing in its own way but it’s not what I signup up for.

I want the passion and angst. I prefer rich and intense love stories. GauRa are a rare exception to that rule. If ShiVi become similar to KM, they will lose their essence. The first step in that happening will be letting go of their childhood history. It’ll be such a shame if that happens.

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

Aalu can we name the EDT "Bairag aur Shringar ka mel"? Seemed very poetic to me for some reason

yes please 🥺

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

Aalu can we name the EDT "Bairag aur Shringar ka mel"? Seemed very poetic to me for some reason

I loved that line!!

"Bairaag aur Shringaar ka mel toh kisso mei bhi nahi hota hai!"

Buddhu Shiva forgot about his own lord, Mahadev who's bairaag matched with Parvati's Shringaar!!❤️

Originally posted by: mahajanaish

Uski koi galti nahi , we hate him because he said he will get Filmfare yesterday and then mistook himself for shaheer Sheikh 🤣🤣

🤣🤣🤣

I hate him because he drove Raavi to suicide though🤣

Originally posted by: sunsaathiyaa

it's one idea per brother 🤣

& surprise, surprise! they all end in kaands 😆

shiva got the land for kangan idea - kangan & jeera kaand 🤦‍♀️

dev got room idea - cement, baccha & well kaand 🤡

krish got mannat idea - we're gonna have to wait to find out 🤪

And Gaumbi's ideas have all been for SRs and chamakti tara.. we all know how well that's going 🤣🤣

Originally posted by: deeps07

Who doesn't as long as its for shivi..but I can't bare to watch anyone else's anymore..

Of course I want it for Shivi (Raavi actually😆)

Originally posted by: mpks1

Krish is made that part of quintessential SP bahu who thinks about everybody’s welfare. He has a tough competition inside their own house- Dhara Devi😕

Every Pandya brother is taking turns to be the SP bahu of Pandya parivaar 🤣🤪

A word On the apology on behalf of his brother to HIS BROTHER’S WIFE!

Imagine roles are reversed, and Raavi apologises to Gaumbi or Dev for Dhara or Rishita’s lousy behaviour.

Honestly, Dev saying Shiva to sorry bolega Nahi, to uski Taraf se main sorry bol deta hun!

That was the lamest thing I have ever heard in my life.

Dude. Stop trying to be the emotional husband of Raavi.

I know it sounds crass, but that's what Dev is trying to do. Sometimes, distance helps in friendships too. A wise man once told me NOT to try being crutches to anyone going through emotional turmoil. There are other ways of supporting a friend.