Originally posted by: Flora_Fauna
Yeh toh Malini beginning se karti aayee hai1. aap PD jaa rahein hain mera ek friend aise hi documentary banane gaya aur gaon mein kisi ladki se Pyaar karke settle ho gaya aap bhi aisa karenge toh nahi2. hearing Imlie's voice on phone Yeh Ladki kaun hai and why is she with you3. suhag Raat par aap hamare Saath hamesha rahenge kabhi Saath nahi chodenge4. vishwas kaa rang white hota hai aap kabhi hamara vishwas nahi todenge5. one kurta gifted to imlie taunted imlie lovingly that one more person fallen in love with u ie Adi aise koi bolta hai apne pati ke baare mein6. meine aapko maaf kar diya7. using Jealousy as a measure of love8. using physical intimacy as ameasure of loveI can go on and on... lists never ending
MC even after 7 years with Adi needed constant reassurance that they will be together (you listed a few above). If she took the time to check with herself, she would have known her insecurity is partly because Adi did not reciprocate her feelings and she didn’t want to accept that.
She strongly resists the truth when it doesn’t fit her picture of reality in her mind. Her reaction to being told she has a sister was a classic example..
Who knows if she was totally honest with herself she would have realized that Adi didn’t check off all her criteria on her list of an ideal partner. She knew Adi wasn’t in love with her, he had his doubts, so why choose to marry a man who didn’t love her if his love was what she wanted most in her life?
She molded herself to match Adi’s interests/likes and dislikes and believed that made them compatible partners. Within days of living under the same roof even while treating Imli rudely he was feeling suffocated being around her.
She has created an alternate reality in her mind that supports her belief that she can be happy by snatching the happiness of another. She is confused and easily led astray. As she once said “when you are confused you easily look to others for giving solutions”. This time it’s AC who’s behind the wheel calling the shots and she’s willingly along for the ride,
AC once bragged with a chip on her shoulder.” hum shareef log jhoot nahi bolte” after Imli lied that she came to Cs house when it was Adi who had dropped her off.
Now MC is lying, doing underhanded stuff to steal her sister’s husband. Is that any way to build a future with a man who clearly stated he never was in love with her even after 7 yrs? Yet her little sister won his heart just being who she was.
A person’s age doesn’t guarantee mental maturity. Of the three central characters, Malini is the most immature. She’s so messed up in her mind she’d be better off figuring out who she is first without being AC’s pampered puppet before sharing her life with a man. She needs a man who will call her out to face reality. KC did that for her.