Pandya Store|Episode Discussion#75|Shiva Ka Dard (RED ALERT) - Page 89

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

I think this was an indirect reference to the pushing incident 😆 Dhara probably expected Raavi to be furious and sulk away in the corner(you know, like normal human beings).

Also that GauRa conversation on Shiva 😕 That was all they had to say 😐 Today more than ever I missed Danda pandya- Shiva got trashed for pranking Rishitha but nothing at all for manhandling his wife And dobi Raavi being all chirpy in the morning did not help at all When she itself is ok why would anyone else make a big deal 😐

Rishitha is so right.. the whole family needs counseling...everyone's emotional responses are so out of order. 🤪

By the way..did u guys see krish's reaction when raavi and the calender friends did that weird hand gesture saying bye..🤣

Gaura convo about raavi made no sense it applies more to rishita Coz raavi has always accepted this family. They were right it's shiva who is the bigger problem but instead of talking to him they are crying over broken pots lol as for raavi appearing happy why can't she why should she let shiva suck out all the happiness or positivity she has inside her just because he wants to act like a soar bear all the time. She cries and appears sad and nearly every convo btwn them leads to him pushing her away how much can she take. Her trying to be positive and helpful for the Yatra stuff and being happy meeting her friends after months doesn't negate how miserable she is due to shiva either. But does that mean she needs to walk around 24/7 with a sad face and teary eyes. Even when talking to those guys she went back to stressed out raavi when they mentioned shiva and meeting him. First thought was he would be angry or react badly to meeting her friends Coz of his mood not because she is ashamed. This is what shiva has made Raavi think. Still when talking about him she is telling the truth about his personality etc but of course shiva in his inferiority complex thinks the wrong thing and hears only what he wants to. Just coz things are horrible in one's life doesn't mean we have to feel miserable all the time and as for not understanding what's happening maybe if shiva tried to tell her instead or repeating his tape recorder or tel masala and they aren't meant to be and have a proper convo maybe she might start to get him better.

Originally posted by: deeps07

Rishitha is so right.. the whole family needs counseling...everyone's emotional responses are so out of order. 🤪

Yes, Group therapy- coz they are broke 🤪

Or even better, Dhara should buy the "Talking Pillow" 🤣 Breaking Bad fans know what I am talking about

Originally posted by: Scarysea

She has got it 😆 Actually I replied while doing hw saw later that somebody had already clarified

Yupp piu ne subha hi bta diya tha usse

Originally posted by: manny136

Gaura convo about raavi made no sense it applies more to rishita Coz raavi has always accepted this family. They were right it's shiva who is the bigger problem but instead of talking to him they are crying over broken pots lol as for raavi appearing happy why can't she why should she let shiva suck out all the happiness or positivity she has inside her just because he wants to act like a soar bear all the time. She cries and appears sad and nearly every convo btwn them leads to him pushing her away how much can she take. Her trying to be positive and helpful for the Yatra stuff and being happy meeting her friends after months doesn't negate how miserable she is due to shiva either. But does that mean she needs to walk around 24/7 with a sad face and teary eyes. Even when talking to those guys she went back to stressed out raavi when they mentioned shiva and meeting him. First thought was he would be angry or react badly to meeting her friends Coz of his mood not because she is ashamed. This is what shiva has made Raavi think. Still when talking about him she is telling the truth about his personality etc but of course shiva in his inferiority complex thinks the wrong thing and hears only what he wants to. Just coz things are horrible in one's life doesn't mean we have to feel miserable all the time and as for not understanding what's happening maybe if shiva tried to tell her instead or repeating his tape recorder or tel masala and they aren't meant to be and have a proper convo maybe she might start to get him better.

U r right.. ..its just that its getting more and more difficult to relate with this behaviour..

I dnt think she needs to be miserable..but her being bubbly the next morning after being shoved off in public got me off guard...yes..for her to understand shiva, shiva will have to speak with her properly..but it's not abt her lack of understanding shiva that's bothering..both of them dnt understand each other as of now..but the problem is, she doesn't seem to care much abt herself even..dnt she want to know why so much troubles with shiva lately...anyone in her position would be fed up with this attitude of his...they will either confront or minimum counter with an equalant angst...but she is like nill..she is neither reacting..nor trying...if not leaving...thats what makes me loose it..

Well..I understand everyone has their own way of dealing with stress..maybe raavi has always been like this..

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Originally posted by: deeps07

U r right.. ..its just that its getting more and more difficult to relate with this behaviour..

I dnt think she needs to be miserable..but her being bubbly the next morning after being shoved off in public got me off guard...yes..for her to understand shiva, shiva will have to speak with her properly..but it's not abt her lack of understanding shiva that's bothering..both of them dnt understand each other as of now..but the problem is, she doesn't seem to care much abt herself even..dnt she want to know why so much troubles with shiva lately...anyone in her position would be fed up with this attitude of his...they will either confront or minimum counter with an equalant angst...but she is like nill..she is neither reacting..nor trying...if not leaving...thats what makes me loose it..

Well..I understand everyone has their own way of dealing with stress..maybe raavi has always been like this..

💯 This is exactly how I feel.

If she had screamed at Shiva that night, and told him that he can be however he wants, she is going to choose to be happy, then it might have been more palatable for me. Because that would be her looking at the situation from a position of strength. Now she seems to be just going with the flow 😕

Shiva is angry, but how is no one else seeing his pain? It seems pretty obvious that something is bothering him. Ok the other members are caught up in their own problems ans drama. But why is Raavi so oblivious? Is she not seeing the hurt? Because she only keeps crying about Bhootnath's anger. I think a lot of us are irritated with her because she is just refusing to evaluate beyond Shiva's anger- in her mind Shiva has only two modes- Happiness or Anger, nothing in between 😐

Both Raavi and Shiva are idiots. But for some reason Raavi irks me more. 🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

Actually the lack of continuity and abrupt end to scenes irritates me.

They didn't have a single convo after the pushing incident?

Where did shiva sleep yesterday when he left the room?

Should I assume that he slept in the aangan and just left Early morning? If it's soo, shouldn't raavi be upset in the morning than happily shopping ?🤕🤕

But mujhe yeh bhi pata hai that one good scene and I will go gaggaa again 🤣🤣🤣

@bold: we're too easy to please, and makers are taking full advantage of this 🤣

The lack of continuity bothers me too. I wanted a proper night scene where they talk the night he pushed her, but we didn't get it

I assumed he slept outside in the aangan and left for the shop

Despite shiva's anger, hot and cold behavior, violence and tel masala taunts, nothing seems to make a dent in raavi's happiness and bubblyness! It looks like she doesn't really care about her marriage in general.. as long as she is with Shiva in the same house playing happy families she is fine 😆

Originally posted by: deeps07

@bold...exactly.. I was rewatching that scene I was finding it irritatingly weird why she was so happy to see some decoration items..🤪..and then came the cat calling calender friends.🤔. her excitement matched with a kid in a toy factory .😕..ok..I am happy that ravi is all bubbly when happy...but is she not really getting it...why is she happy..she is like a millimeter away frm getting her marrg ruined..is she not getting that vibe ..shiva is like a fuming volcano now..anyone who sees him can get that it's soon going to explode.

This is also my main issue with her! Is her marriage so unimportant that she doesn't care how it's on the verge of destruction? The writers have written her extremely poorly, with no consistency 😕