Kissing a sleeping person - Page 3

It was not a kiss, but a small peck out of his emotions. You can see he barely touched his lips and Sai reacted and woke up. So he won't go further without asking her. His intentions at that moment wasn't bad. It was not also a romantic one, but just a small peck out of adoration.

As for Pakhi, her intentions are bad. Even if she touches Virat in his full consciousness, it'll be considered wrong as her intentions are bad.

Originally posted by: Amor_fati

I have handled many sexual harassment cases in work place.. even looking at person in certain ways and speaking in certain way is harassment, leave kissing..

But here she is not clear on what she wants.. he is not clear on what he can give and why he denied it in the first place.. so it is a big Jalebi now..

Yes exactly..what Pakhi does to Virat is certainly harassment..sexual as well under some office rules..

Sai aur Virat ka only issue is Pakhi..Consent is not an issue... If you look at it what has he actually cleared to her..

1) He asked her to get trained by her .

2) Asked her to behave with her.

3) Called her his pyaari cheez.

4) Called her his pyaar then Dost.

5) Got back to call her Dost and then asking Sai to befriend her...just before holi and kidnapping.

6)And now Sai sees him sometimes getting angry and irritated with her.

7) Witnesses waada talk.

8) He tells her he is not committed to her. Nothing about the love and vaada.

9) She is always outside the door and still taunts Sai..sometimes questions Virat for breaking her heart.

What as per Sai has changed between them ??

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

You know she knows what she wants..She wants Virat..but also only if he wants her back, not as a result of some zimmedaari...some waada...guilt or sacrifice...or for that matter even a compromise..

Yes.. I meant that she made must express on what she expects.First off, he should first make clear of his past.. and then the circumstances surrounding the stupid waada.. but as far as the constant reminder Didi.. Hope Sammy returning will put her in place…I think Virat should avoid speaking to Didi in future, in public or private.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Aur waise bhi that was hardly a kiss...He just put his lips on her cheeks for micro miniest second😆

Haaan.. It was barely peck on the cheek.. AKA platonic kiss🤣

Originally posted by: tptwi

Yaar in all seriousness, the point of the kiss wasn’t to be a long and intense one na. It was gentle and soft for a reason. He got carried away in his emotions, saying he loves Sai out loud for the first time to her even if she was asleep. It was the purest indication of his love. He did not want to wake her…he just wanted to take in this moment and remember it forever. I thought it was perfect for the moment…he is patient and gentle with her…

Exactly .. he had complete confidence that she would consent.. it was a moment of absolute bliss for him.. past few days have been overwhelming and he wanted to express his love and excitement by a tender peck on the cheek.

@bold - true..he also could have confessed, cleared all the apprehensions in her mind and both could have shared a kiss and made this moment perfect together.. but CVS won’t let that happen any soon.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Haan wo toh hai..but then we also have her monologue cum conversation with Virat Pakhi..that she got distracted and forgot certain things..but she is back to reality now... So then again she is back to the deal that way 😆

She needs to set her boundaries here.. no means no.. everybody can understand that..

but look at her reactions

6 kiss attempts so far

Holi kiss- both intoxicated, I am discounting it

Ladoo kiss - she was upset when he didn’t kiss

Gift kiss - she didn’t know let us discount

Forehead kiss - almost kiss and she was eager again just saved by alarm

Forehead kiss - kiss after hospital, she was willing

Cheek kiss - she was asleep..

😆 Boundaries are always set 😆 touch...kiss..without permission is a big no 👎🏼Sai ko pata hi nahi to ham kaise bole ki use problem nahi hogi 😵 ab she doesn't know itself is 🤢

Originally posted by: Sudharies

Word😆 No one in arranged marriages thinks about the consent. The marriage ritual itself is like a licence to intimacy, and people take it like that only, especially in India.

And Virat toh went with the flow after a year, seriously can't blame the banda🤣

Wo to isliye ki marital rape ka concept hai hi nahi 🤔 India me we don't have it but sabko pata hai na ki ye wrong hai fir kaise blame nahi kar sakte? 😅

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Yes exactly..what Pakhi does to Virat is certainly harassment..sexual as well under some office rules..

Sai aur Virat ka only issue is Pakhi..Consent is not an issue... If you look at it what has he actually cleared to her..

1) He asked her to get trained by her .

2) Asked her to behave with her.

3) Called her his pyaari cheez.

4) Called her his pyaar then Dost.

5) Got back to call her Dost and then asking Sai to befriend her...just before holi and kidnapping.

6)And now Sai sees him sometimes getting angry and irritated with her.

7) Witnesses waada talk.

8) He tells her he is not committed to her. Nothing about the love and vaada.

9) She is always outside the door and still taunts Sai..sometimes questions Virat for breaking her heart.

What as per Sai has changed between them ??

Sai should ask these questions one by one to Virat. bande ko akal ayega. Itna confusions daal ke rakha hain biwi ke dimag mein.

I guess it depends on the way it is accepted and taken. Simple😆

Seeing the scenario, if we are speaking is it ethically wrong to kiss a person without his/her consent, then yes it is. But, that is for a more unknown realtion I guess.

Well, here both realise what they are for each other. And seeing both have strong moral basement, I don't think either of then will attempt this without consent.

The only problem here why we feel so is, (though I don't feel so🤣 Just reasoning) , they haven't verbally accepted or expressed husband wife realtion, that's it. But both her happily living the roles of husband and wife and somewhere have accepted it by heart.

As recently as well, Virat willingly kissed her forehead (succesful attempt), and she didn't have a problem. So, it becomes general that she is open for such simple sweet gestures by her husband. ❤️ So, it's just that context, what was beautiful was the love that poured, and the way Sai's conscience reacts to that love even in subconscious state

Toh in this case, saath kiss maaf🤣