Shivangi Khedkar {Pallavi} AT #25| Flawed and (Still) Worthy - Page 72

Finally I watched the episode or I should say last part of phone conversation otherwise I skipped through whole episode😆 Second episode I skipped in a week Sicku are you listening?? Ye episode ek baar nhi dekha jaata TV pr dobara kaise bardaasht hoga🤣

Thank you Parul for this ❤️

IMO-

• Pallavi is not being able to take a stand against Deshmukhs for them right now. Do I expect her to? Ideally, Yes. Do I blame her for not being able to do so? No. Because she’s a totally different person than I am. I would have, doesn’t mean everybody can.
• Raghav acted irrationally out of insecurity. He was impulsive. He was scared. Do I expect him to act smart? Ideally, yes. Do I blame him for not being rational at the moment? No. Because he has his own demons and that’s where this all is coming from.

I am sure the growth will be beautiful as and when they come out of this mess. Also as I have said earlier, other illogical things happening around them don’t matter to me- I just focus on them and what they are feeling. Don’t care what lead to what. The fact is they are in a mess, and they will have to get out of it. That’s what matters. ❤️

Originally posted by: Mysterie_girl

But Mandar ka logic kya tha behind drugging Raghav's kheer

I don't even getting it

Behen tumhe iss poore track mein logic kahaan mil gaya jo yahaan dhoondh rahi ho? Ghatiya writing hai, sense dhoondha chhodo, aur mujhe roast team mein join karo, yahaan bade maze aate hain 😎

Originally posted by: Niaaa10

Finally I watched the episode or I should say last part of phone conversation otherwise I skipped through whole episode😆 Second episode I skipped in a week Sicku are you listening?? Ye episode ek baar nhi dekha jaata TV pr dobara kaise bardaasht hoga🤣

Thank you Parul for this ❤️

The conversation is beautiful, and these small little Raghvi scenes are what I watch the show for. Who cares about what the world (people around them) has to say 😎

Originally posted by: SexyPotato

Who are these many fans? Don't tell me it's tt wale, tt wale bacchas are part of online janta they don't make any contribution to trp.

Nahi its in MF and from India so they are definitely Trp audience 😆

Originally posted by: Inese_20

IMO-

• Pallavi is not being able to take a stand against Deshmukhs for them right now. Do I expect her to? Ideally, Yes. Do I blame her for not being able to do so? No. Because she’s a totally different person than I am. I would have, doesn’t mean everybody can.
• Raghav acted irrationally out of insecurity. He was impulsive. He was scared. Do I expect him to act smart? Ideally, yes. Do I blame him for not being rational at the moment? No. Because he has his own demons and that’s where this all is coming from.

I am sure the growth will be beautiful as and when they come out of this mess. Also as I have said earlier, other illogical things happening around them don’t matter to me- I just focus on them and what they are feeling. Don’t care what lead to what. The fact is they are in a mess, and they will have to get out of it. That’s what matters. ❤️

Okay I really like your perspective❤️ and it helps in only focusing on Raghvi and hawa mein filter other things and people around them👍🏼

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

Behen tumhe iss poore track mein logic kahaan mil gaya jo yahaan dhoondh rahi ho? Ghatiya writing hai, sense dhoondha chhodo, aur mujhe roast team mein join karo, yahaan bade maze aate hain 😎

Always up for roasting 😆😆

Why I was not aware of this

Anyways better late then never 🤗

Originally posted by: fria319

@ bold: I disagree about Raghav being primarily responsible but I agree with everything else you said for your #2 point. This may be an unpopular opinion here, and I'm willing to discuss with others about it & be open minded, but in general, I'm tired of everyone acting as if Pallavi isn't an adult who can't make her own decisions and doesn't have her own free will and agency.

Whether it's the characters deciding things for her (i.e. SKB & Raghav deciding if Pallavi should or should not go to D house - like what in the world was that. She was standing RIGHT THERE) or people on this forum saying she's being emotionally manipulated and thus shouldn't be "blamed" for her actions, I wish everyone would recognize that Pallavi is an adult woman who is capable of deciding things for herself.

You and only you can decide how you react to other people's actions & statements. You have to know yourself really well and be cognizant of the situation to really stop yourself from being manipulated. And even then, often as humans we let ourselves be emotionally manipulated by those we love because we give them that power over us, it's pretty natural. But just because someone is emotionally manipulated doesn't mean they're not responsible for their actions. We all have our own brains that we can use to think and decide whats best for ourselves.

I'm not saying its 100% her fault for thinking what she's thinking, but I'm also saying she has her own choices she can make and she chose what she chose. We can't "blame" that on anyone or anything but her.

I've been emotionally manipulated before, I know how it feels, I understand how it can happen without you realizing it. I looked back at myself and asked myself how I could have ever let that happen. My own family had asked me how I could ever let that happen because they would've never thought a woman who was educated, smart and successful (LOL NOT tooting my own horn but I hope the point makes sense) would ever let that happen to her. They would've never guessed in a million years that I would let someone who I was ready to marry do that to me. So I get that part of it. Of not recognizing when or how it started. But it never absolved me from the decisions I made during that time. And it could never, because in the end I still consciously made those decisions.

It doesn't of course mean she's not unforgivable or should be written off as a lost cause. Or should be bashed and trashed and dragged. But IMO, we need to hold characters responsible for their own decisions.

Yes Raghav was wrong to take it as far as he did in that moment, but Pallavi can choose to react that way or not. We get to decide for ourselves what we let affect us and influence our decisions. And even then, I get why she left at that moment. I don't even really blame her for that. A lot of it was her anger speaking. What really upset me was her accepting SKB vachan as if her mother was not also saying at the same time, you don't have to do this.

One of the main reasons I said Raghav is primarily(not solely) responsible for this situation is because he has not acted smartly from the beginning.. He should have warned Pallavi about Mandhar, the day he got to know his true face and what he was really upto. He even got a text message from him that he should've shown her. The reason for him to hide all that from her was very absurd which is just bad writing.. He said she wouldn't believe him which has no basis..besides the text message is a solid proof which he still hasn't shown her.. I don't know about other forum members but I have never hesitated to call out Pallavi whenever I found her wrong.. For instance, the day they went to Vikarabad, I was quite upset with her for not informing Raghav and not even checking her phone the entire time.. She was abolutely at fault there..Emotional manipulation made her agree to his wishes but that doesn't justify her being so irresponsible and callous.. Again today, I mentioned in my post that I am finding her hurt a lil exaggerated.. I can understand her being pissed at him because he did a stupid thing but that doesn't amount for the kind of hurt they are showing her to have.. she knows he trusts her..Its Mandhar he doesn't trust. It would've made much more sense had they shown her angry for not sharing the details with her earlier and for putting the tracker in her bag without her knowledge.. but I can't understand the basis of the hurt.. But again, the point is if he had shared everything he knows about Mandhar, especially the 7day challenge and the text message, maybe things wouldn't have gone this far..

The other reason for me saying he is primarily responsible is the way Raghav acted today.. That does not mean that Pallavi was not responsible.. I found it very odd ..the way she was all sympathetic towards Vijay Deshmukh even before hearing what he was there for.. this sudden shift in attitude from breaking her ties with him to being all emotional..calling him baba..Didn't feel right.. But the reason I'm saying Raghav is primarily responsible is because he is not using the information and evidence in hand to the best effect, instead acting on impulse stemming from his insecurities to push Pallavi away.. like today..she was already pissed at him and he goes'' Pallavi kahin nahi jayega'' and then the insults he threw at Vijay.. If he had countered Vijay's move with patience, leaving it to Pallavi to take the call, then Im sure she would've been in two minds ..maybe even talked to Amma and Raghav and then he could've presented the facts and evidences in a logical way..so she is careful even if she decides to move in D house.

Originally posted by: SexyPotato

Stress mein koi coma mein hat a toh main med college se aj tak 3634 bar coma mein chali jati.

I would be in a coma right now 🤣

Originally posted by: Inese_20

The conversation is beautiful, and these small little Raghvi scenes are what I watch the show for. Who cares about what the world (people around them) has to say 😎

🤗🤗

Parul you literally uplifting our mood

More power to you our positivity Queen ❤️