Originally posted by: DivyaaaV
She understood Sunny’s vile attempts because she was thinking about Keerthi and Raghav
she can’t understand Mandar’s because she doesn’t think about herself, she never has, she put d-fam in priority before her wants and needs before as well
I hate it too but that’s the clear message, she isn’t thinking about how Mandar is going to break her and Raghav’s relationship
pallavi knows how to think for the world but not herself
Selflessness is good in moderation, depends on the situation she will have to learn that 👍🏼
Just be happy that Raghav will finally change his game, and Mandar will continue to think he’ll win, he was so confidently saying Raghvi’s love story endedAnd when Pallavi starts to doubt Mandar, she will remember raghav’s words, at least he told her about the challenge now
and also Farhad knows what’s happening too, he’ll support Anna and save his bhabhi from anything unwanted
oh but the positivity today was that Ayi doesn’t want Pallavi to come even for Mandar’s health, some people were thinking otherwise but Ayi doesn’t
if Pallavi still decides to be Mahaan and help Mandar then Ayi will play a role in knocking some sense into her
100000% spot on.
My frustration with Pallavi's actions throughout this whole track always stemmed from a place of not understanding why she couldn't give her own desires/needs (spending time with her husband, nurturing her relationship with her new family, her own private free time) any importance. I too understand helping others & being selfless but there's a limit. It's because Raghav understands her so well and is that willing to place her first, above his needs, that she is able to still sustain her marriage with him. I said this before, but any other guy wouldn't tolerate all of this, regardless of understanding her need to be humanitarian or not. Not that Raghav is making the right or smart moves either. But one can only tolerate so much of their spouse spending time with her ex. Even in a perfect marriage - that's a tough situation to accept.
She once again referred to Mandar as her farz this week, after being told even by Aayi that it was not the case. I really want Aayi to ask her why she thinks its her farz. I think the root of all of her feelings of farz is because of guilt from being happy with Raghav. And she needs to absolve herself before she can really move on. Whether Pallavi has realized this about herself or not, I'm not sure. But I hope CVs touch upon it.