Dhara Ma Ka Ladla Bigad Gaya-Shiva|Dhara|Gaumbi - Page 2

Dhara-Shiva ❤️❤️❤️

The caps are hilarious

I also loved the throwback to the coconut water scene 😆 Dhara and chotu Shiva are the best

Piu, beautiful post on Shiva and Dhara (ShiRa). We all definitely know about your obsession on ShiRa's relationship.

Dhara's relationship with each one is different and the one with Shiva takes the cake as he has always seen her as his mother more than Bhabi and she too sees him as her child. Just before Shiva came home drunk, Dhara was praising Shiva to Gaumbi and listing all his good qualities and proudly declared that he is one of a kind. So when Shiva came home drunk, I could relate to Dhara's concern, fear and her motherly instinct immediately took over and she wanted to get to the bottom of it right away because she has never seen Shiva indulge anything like this before. Gaumbi convinced her to let it go at that time and told her to talk to him in the morning.

Now coming to the dream scene, first of all I have to declare that I thoroughly enjoyed it. As a mother myself, when we go to bed thinking about the kids and most of my dreams revolve around them. Shiva's inebriated state has really affected her so much that she saw him drinking in her dreams. I liked the way the scene was enacted both by Shiny and KD. Dhara's fear, worry and her change of expressions every time when Shiva drunk in the honor of his brothers seemed natural to me. It finally led to her pouring water on Shiva to bring him out of intoxicated state which is a the normal thing to do but since it was all in her head/dream, Gaumbi paid the price for it😆 Gaumbi being the level headed thinking guy had to tell Dhara to come out of her dreams and took control of the situation. I can't even think what would have happened if she again knocked on ShiVi's room to get him to talk at that time😆

Finally all this led to Krish begging them to go to sleep and he is losing it all with these 2 and can't bear their torture😆

I can't wait to see how Dhara handles the situation in the morning with SHiva. The one and the only thing I don't want her to do is to beat him up again with a danda😕

Also you reference to Dhara sprinkling coconut water on Shiva during Gaumbi's Baraat was to tell us members where her extra concern. care for SHiva stems from and how there is a pattern😃

Thank you for tagging! 🤗

I love Shiva-Dhara scenes always.. the only time I don't like them is when Dhara raises her hand on Shiva.. otherwise the two of them are love.. a very precious and rare bond so unlike most devar-bhabhi bonds on ITV ❤️

Dhara's expression seeing Shiva Seth sitting and drinking were hilarious! 🤣

You gave great descriptions of each drink Shiva had for each of his brothers and himself 😆

Vanila Dev 🤣

Gaumbi is definitely the third wheel between Shiva-Dhara! And Raavi too 😆

Piu!! I love this!! you know my feelings for Dhara and Shiva bond!! We're in the same boat!! Going to read it aaram se again and will add my thoughts here 🤗

Off late , there have been a lot of complaints about Dhara and her constant interference in Shivi. 🥴

Thank you so much everyone for contributing your bits to this thread. We couldn’t agree more with each other. Despite the fact of Shiva’s Bhabhi Bhakti being annoying at some points, I still believe Shiva-Dhara are just meant to be there with each other ❤️

Thank you so much again for such words of encouragement and love for Shiva & Dhara ❤️

Off late , there have been a lot of complaints about Dhara and her constant interference in Shivi. 🥴

Thank you so much everyone for contributing your bits to this thread. We couldn’t agree more with each other. Despite the fact of Shiva’s Bhabhi Bhakti being annoying at some points, I still believe Shiva-Dhara are just meant to be there with each other

Thank you so much again for such words of encouragement and love for Shiva & Dhara ❤️

Originally posted by: Transference

Off late , there have been a lot of complaints about Dhara and her constant interference in Shivi. 🥴

Thank you so much everyone for contributing your bits to this thread. We couldn’t agree more with each other. Despite the fact of Shiva’s Bhabhi Bhakti being annoying at some points, I still believe Shiva-Dhara are just meant to be there with each other ❤️

Thank you so much again for such words of encouragement and love for Shiva & Dhara ❤️

I agree 😃 Somedays I feel there is unwanted Dhara bashing. That said, I hated the mandir scene. And yes, there are a lot of things Dhara gets wrong.

I try to pitch in when I feel there is undue bashing 🙈 I feel after the Haveli track, Dhara has done a pretty good job of not interfering with the brother's lives. Even in the current track, GauRa can clearly see that ShiVi are facing issues but they are not junping in. They only speak up when the boys do something stupid, like Dev losing it on Rishitha or Shiva coming home drunk.

But you do a better job of showing the beauty of Dhara Shiva bond ❤️

== Rant begins

As for the Bhabhi jaap, I don't feel it is too out of place, except for the Mandir scene 😕 Every family is different- and sometimes guys are attached to their moms 🤷‍♀️ It is not something so out of thos world.

--- Anecdote Alert 🚨

Personal experience: My 30+ year old husband becomes a rowdy teenager when his mom comes over. Waking up in the morning is nothing 😆 He behaves like a kid and jumps about. ahe clearly loves his mom a lot and misses her. To his due, he has never compared me to her, but yes he would often phone home and say he misses her food.

Do I get annoyed- yes. I am most like Rishitha on many days, ofcourse minus the Pattrani behavior 😆

But I do understand that it is how he loves his mom. I might not love my mom the same way or with the same level of excitement, but that is ok. That is who he is- his crazy way of loving his family makes him the man I love 🤷‍♀️

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Dhara is important to each of the boys- the reason may not be justified in anyone else's eyes- but it is for them. And people need to respect that.

And people who are thinking that plucking Dhara out of the equation and stoppong the Bhabhi jaap will magically make ShiVi or DevTa closer to each other, are kind of kidding themselves. Shiva and Dev are just bad husbands, even without their love for Dhara 😕 They have a lot of growing up to do.

The solution for the girls(RishVi) is not to displace Dhara but to make their own space in theor brothers heart. This is not a competition with first second and third place spots. Shiva and Dev can both learn to love their wifes while still madly loving Dhara AND the rest of the family

== Rant ends

Originally posted by: Transference

Off late , there have been a lot of complaints about Dhara and her constant interference in Shivi. 🥴

Thank you so much everyone for contributing your bits to this thread. We couldn’t agree more with each other. Despite the fact of Shiva’s Bhabhi Bhakti being annoying at some points, I still believe Shiva-Dhara are just meant to be there with each other ❤️

Thank you so much again for such words of encouragement and love for Shiva & Dhara ❤️

I love Shiva and Dhara! Yes both of them have had their low points (Shiva considering her a goddess, and she brutally thrashing him with a danda), but having said that, their relationship is still one of the purest and the most beautiful ones in the show! I will always enjoy watching them together, and your posts do a great job of bringing out the beauty in their bond! ❤️

Originally posted by: Transference

Off late , there have been a lot of complaints about Dhara and her constant interference in Shivi. 🥴

Thank you so much everyone for contributing your bits to this thread. We couldn’t agree more with each other. Despite the fact of Shiva’s Bhabhi Bhakti being annoying at some points, I still believe Shiva-Dhara are just meant to be there with each other

Thank you so much again for such words of encouragement and love for Shiva & Dhara ❤️

Thank you Momziii for these posts. Dhara Shiva will always be my favourite bond on the show. It is pure and they both are each other's world. I know off late we are having a low point. But I guess we can wade through this phase by reading these posts and re watching the old scenes of them. Shiva Dhara bond has given us so much and it's difficult for me to completely detach from it just because we are getting some cringy scenes.