Exactly.. ..the fact that she never bothered abt a proposal frm dev or neither did she propose dev directly shows that all her plan was directed to becoming pandya family member..and shiva was like a magnet which either repelled her or attracted her.. and similarly shiva too was beyond reasonably affected by raavis presence...the way gombi says he is always thinking abt raavi when he asks if she created any prblm...these two really need to introspect about their relationship from childhood..