Shivangi Khedkar {Pallavi} AT #21| Real Queens Fix Each Others' Crowns - Page 11

Originally posted by: -abz-

I'm honestly mad at Pallavi today.😑

Everyone is & Rightfully so😒 .

She's not a naive gullible 18yr girl who got married. She went to a college, she also stated 'Ussne clg mein ke 3 ladkon ko itna maara tha ki woh abhi tak Bachelors hain.'

She wore a saree all day cos she was the Widowed Daughter in Law of the house & yet she doesn't know how to draw a line with a guy who's going overboard in hinting her as his own.

Even if she couldn't remove the bangles cos she didn't get any time away from Mandaar (he was in the clinic, all the way to RR Mansion in the cab). He dropped her home & immediately Raghav arrived. She could have though removed the bangles when he walked in to the kitchen with her ( he stated infront of Mandaar only - why're you wearing it - she really should have. She can think about Mandaar cos he's sick but not about Raghav's hurt yet - even after making promises after so many times - and this is why I was pissed the 1st day - I knew they're gonna show her this way).

The only minute hope I see is - in the Precap - She shows some reaction to Mandaar's Apna dialogue. Get Alert already😒

Originally posted by: fria319

loll MF basically having similar if not same discussion as here it seems. I think this is the one time entire forum is almost on the same page / same reaction to the episode 🤣 Siku managed to unite all of us it seems 🤣🤣

Actually having such a reaction is justified you know. It’s part of what’s happening in the show and everyone is free to have a discussion on it,

But what we see out there on MF are extreme comments. Even if there’s one out of ten, it ends up spoiling your mood and your whole day. Is that worth it?

Saying that you are not liking how it’s going is discussion.

stating that Pallavi needs to suffer for this in form of sexual/physical assault is bashing.

saying that Pallavi is being so naive yaar, why is she doing all such things. What can be her reasons- that’s discussion.

but when you say she’s inviting the possible assault by M on her - that’s outright victim blaming which has huge real life implications.

I saw your post about discussing vs bashing- I think the only difference is your choice of words. Same things can be said in 100 different ways. As long as you choose to be polite and reasonable- it’s discussion. Beyond that it’s not.

Originally posted by: fria319

loll MF basically having similar if not same discussion as here it seems. I think this is the one time entire forum is almost on the same page / same reaction to the episode 🤣 Siku managed to unite all of us it seems 🤣🤣

Is it?

I thought by now Pallavi will be dumb, characterless and what not!

Dann siku did a great job then 😂😂

Originally posted by: SONIA441

Everyone is & Rightfully so😒 .

She's not a naive gullible 18yr girl who got married. She went to a college, she also stated 'Ussne clg mein ke 3 ladkon ko itna maara tha ki woh abhi tak Bachelors hain.'

She wore a saree all day cos she was the Widowed Daughter in Law of the house & yet she doesn't know how to draw a line with a guy who's going overboard in hinting her as his own.

Even if she couldn't remove the bangles cos she didn't get any time away from Mandaar (he was in the clinic, all the way to RR Mansion in the cab). He dropped her home & immediately Raghav arrived. She could have though removed the bangles when he walked in to the kitchen with her ( he stated infront of Mandaar only - why're you wearing it - she really should have. She can think about Mandaar cos he's sick but not about Raghav's hurt yet - even after making promises after so many times - and this is why I was pissed the 1st day - I knew they're gonna show her this way).

The only minute hope I see is - in the Precap - She shows some reaction to Mandaar's Apna dialogue. Get Alert already😒

That man is emanating creepiness from all directions. It is hurdling to take it anymore.

Originally posted by: -abz-

I'm so disappointed right now.

I was damn confident about the writers and makers. Aaj Tak they gave us a tigress and she suddenly turned into a bheegi billi. It's not acceptable. I'm so pissed at them. Women can catch vibes instantly, our sense works faster than men under such circumstances, bass we get confused to tackle the situation.

If Raghav and Pallavi didn't share their insecurities, I would have been fine with this track but damn it. This is the most important thing to be shared. Jiss cheez ko share karna chahiye usse kiya hi nehi.

This is straight a huge black mark for those who supported Pallavi. 😑

I know Abi. I am a bit disappointed too. Very inconsistent irresponsible writing.

Also what’s about the distribution of screen time. Why did I have to see a psychopath on my screen for good 20 mins?

Originally posted by: Inese_20

Actually having such a reaction is justified you know. It’s part of what’s happening in the show and everyone is free to have a discussion on it,

But what we see out there on MF are extreme comments. Even if there’s one out of ten, it ends up spoiling your mood and your whole day. Is that worth it?

Saying that you are not liking how it’s going is discussion.

stating that Pallavi needs to suffer for this in form of sexual/physical assault is bashing.

saying that Pallavi is being so naive yaar, why is she doing all such things. What can be her reasons- that’s discussion.

but when you say she’s inviting the possible assault by M on her - that’s outright victim blaming which has huge real life implications.

I saw your post about discussing vs bashing- I think the only difference is your choice of words. Same things can be said in 100 different ways. As long as you choose to be polite and reasonable- it’s discussion. Beyond that it’s not.

I completely agree!!

I am fine if people discuss on Pallavi's decision in a certain healthy way. Talking about how writers are degrading it or you know writing it in some way.

But if they comment on how she deserves the creepiness from Mandaar because she is herself inviting it. And how she should now learn the hard way when Mandaar will try taking advantage of her or assault hai. That's where we draw the line.

Originally posted by: Wilddreams

Exactly they didn't build back story but want audience to understand everything but how ?? People like to actually see stuff rather than told in shows. No matter how much they talk about their suffering after Mandar's death its not gonna work.

I don't know why they want people to bash Pallavi. Why can't they show her backstory so viewers can relate to her

SM gonna explode on her calling her dumb, 2 timer etc.😡

Bashing k baare me toh mai kya hi bolun. Why do we need to be rude? Whatever you are feeling, state it in more responsibile words na.

Originally posted by: Inese_20

Actually having such a reaction is justified you know. It’s part of what’s happening in the show and everyone is free to have a discussion on it,

But what we see out there on MF are extreme comments. Even if there’s one out of ten, it ends up spoiling your mood and your whole day. Is that worth it?

Saying that you are not liking how it’s going is discussion.

stating that Pallavi needs to suffer for this in form of sexual/physical assault is bashing.

saying that Pallavi is being so naive yaar, why is she doing all such things. What can be her reasons- that’s discussion.

but when you say she’s inviting the possible assault by M on her - that’s outright victim blaming which has huge real life implications.

I saw your post about discussing vs bashing- I think the only difference is your choice of words. Same things can be said in 100 different ways. As long as you choose to be polite and reasonable- it’s discussion. Beyond that it’s not.

Yeah I totally get it the hesitancy of being on MF.

I personally haven't come across comments like that but I read from others that some people were saying it and it just blew my mind that people would take it that far.

@bold: facts. Everyone and anyone can disagree about anything, dislike anything, like and defend anything. It's just about how you do it.

I personally look at those people who comment like that as people who maybe have a few screws loose lol, that's as nice as I can put it haha. It's often the people who can't separate reel from real and get ultra invested. Idk how and why all fandoms across all genres and mediums have these types of fans, but it blows my mind every time I come across them.

I bet some of these people are the same people who are harassing Sai on sm. 🤔

Originally posted by: Inese_20

Actually having such a reaction is justified you know. It’s part of what’s happening in the show and everyone is free to have a discussion on it,

But what we see out there on MF are extreme comments. Even if there’s one out of ten, it ends up spoiling your mood and your whole day. Is that worth it?

Saying that you are not liking how it’s going is discussion.

stating that Pallavi needs to suffer for this in form of sexual/physical assault is bashing.

saying that Pallavi is being so naive yaar, why is she doing all such things. What can be her reasons- that’s discussion.

but when you say she’s inviting the possible assault by M on her - that’s outright victim blaming which has huge real life implications.

I saw your post about discussing vs bashing- I think the only difference is your choice of words. Same things can be said in 100 different ways. As long as you choose to be polite and reasonable- it’s discussion. Beyond that it’s not.

Yup, that's my biggest issue with MF these days. I think anyone is well within their rights to hold whatever opinion on Pallavi, disagree with and criticise her actions if they want. To me, till today, she's not really warranted it but today she was dumb. That's just my opinion. For others, maybe she was being dumb since way back. For others still, maybe today is justified too. Whatever, to each their own.

However, no matter how dumb a woman is being, there are certain lines, the crossing of which makes me uncomfortable. No matter what she does, she's not 'asking for it'. Physical/sexual assault is not a way to 'teach her a lesson'. And so much more has been said here and there under the guise of 'jokes' and 'people taking it too seriously', but these aren't joking matters- just look at the world around us!

I'm irritated at her being portrayed as dumb and naive, but stupidity isn't a crime to warrant 'punishment'- and even if it were, assault and harassment aren't punitive measures to be prescribed to women we disagree with.

Plus, I may be annoyed at Pallavi and criticizing her, but doesn't mean I love her any less. I've loved her for almost 150 episodes now, that's not going to go away with 2-3 episodes of stupidity on her part, so seeing excessively vile and hateful language used for her is upsetting. So yeah, it's easier to stay here, where we know that we can discuss and critique her actions constructively, but won't be exposed to troubling language.

Originally posted by: Inese_20

I know Abi. I am a bit disappointed too. Very inconsistent irresponsible writing.

Also what’s about the distribution of screen time. Why did I have to see a psychopath on my screen for good 20 mins?

@bold- exactly i did not sign up for this

To be honest i saw a few clipping of today's episode on ig. Rather than making me mad or hurt ut was more of funny at how dumb things were going on.

A tea stall which was supposedly so close to D house according to the direction Mandaar gave to Raghav, took soo long to be reached even when the latter was in a car. How?

Second thing : let's say Raghav arrived 10-15 mins late to the desired location, so as soon as he got to know that they were going to Vikarabad. He should have met them somewhere in the middle of the way. Because i trust his driving that much at least. I mean his god damn wife was in that car and he was chasing.

But no he was still on his way when he called the Dr. And guess what Mandaar and Pallavi, came, had a conversation, all the drama and left and what was our hero doing. He was still driving to the location 😂😂