Shivangi Khedkar {Pallavi} AT #21| Real Queens Fix Each Others' Crowns - Page 10

Originally posted by: Inese_20

Exactly! Had Mandaar been a bit less obvious in front of her, Pallavi behaving like this would have worked. Yahan pr toh uske saamne time and again he’s crossing the limits and we just get to see Pallavi with a shocked face? Nothing else? Not convincing enough. Even if Pallavi amply sympathises with him, for his own good, she would let him know to not expect much out of this just because she can’t ever come back. Straight facts. So that this guy who’s already going through so much won’t harbour false hope.

I'm so disappointed right now.

I was damn confident about the writers and makers. Aaj Tak they gave us a tigress and she suddenly turned into a bheegi billi. It's not acceptable. I'm so pissed at them. Women can catch vibes instantly, our sense works faster than men under such circumstances, bass we get confused to tackle the situation.

If Raghav and Pallavi didn't share their insecurities, I would have been fine with this track but damn it. This is the most important thing to be shared. Jiss cheez ko share karna chahiye usse kiya hi nehi.

This is straight a huge black mark for those who supported Pallavi. 😑

Originally posted by: PSharada

I am angry that Pallavi totally lapped up Mandar's fake story. She knows the accident happened at night in downpour - you really believe that Mandar stepped out to get wedding gift? That was plain ridiculous.

Exactly!

She is the same woman who refused to believe that Raghav was the culprit. She is the same woman who went to the root of that problem and solved it all by herself. And suddenly her brain stops working?

Originally posted by: Inese_20

Yes this is the another thing grossly lacking. Make people fall in love with Pallavi na. Show her flashbacks, her emotions, her breakdowns, what all she had to go through, what was it about Mandaar that makes her ignore these signs right now? How nice was Mandaar that Pallavi feels obliged to be extremely nice to him at present, and ignore her basic instincts? What’s causing her to give him a benefit of doubt? Where are those flashbacks of aayi’s sufferings that make Pallavi behave sympathetic towards M because she won’t want to even see aayi baba suffering like that again. This is a part of the kind of build up this track required.

Exactly they didn't build back story but want audience to understand everything but how ?? People like to actually see stuff rather than told in shows. No matter how much they talk about their suffering after Mandar's death its not gonna work.

I don't know why they want people to bash Pallavi. Why can't they show her backstory so viewers can relate to her

SM gonna explode on her calling her dumb, 2 timer etc.😡

Originally posted by: Inese_20

Exactly! Had Mandaar been a bit less obvious in front of her, Pallavi behaving like this would have worked. Yahan pr toh uske saamne time and again he’s crossing the limits and we just get to see Pallavi with a shocked face? Nothing else? Not convincing enough. Even if Pallavi amply sympathises with him, for his own good, she would let him know to not expect much out of this just because she can’t ever come back. Straight facts. So that this guy who’s already going through so much won’t harbour false hope.

@bold this is what i've been saying too.

If they had shown Pallavi be her happy go lucky oblivious self (not an insult) like she is being with Raghav right now - her complete ignorance of Mandar's true intentions/manipulations would've all made a LOT of sense!

But the fact is, they are showing her

1) verbally say no at first,

2) feel uncomfortable around Mandar,

3) openly admit it was awkard,

4)openly admit she felt relieved at not having to stay at D house to do more (at puja time).

If she felt all of that, why is she not listening to her feelings? Why not take Amruta, Krishna, Farhad, Aayi, with her on these Mandar escapades? Why not tell Mandar, let's go home first and maybe Aayi can go with you as she lives with you and she needs to understand your condition. Aayi hasn't even met the Dr thats been taking care of her son for the past 2+ years!

Good night everyone. If anything good comes please tag me. Hoping Sickand gets the feedback from today's episode and corrects his writing and screenplay

Originally posted by: Inese_20

Areh sama , stay here. Aaj toh even we are not able to convince ourselves about Pallavi’s actions.

I know it’s the flawed writing, but for the sake of going with the show- let’s say that Pallavi is being very naive right now and Raghav is hurting bad. Whatever is happening and going to happen in near future, He’s going to be even more hurt. Not entirely Pallavi’s fault but she has a role to play here. And Raghav will have to gather all the love he has for Pallavi to move on from this after they sort everything out. Which I know he has. He loves her a lot. But yes, he’s hurting. Not a good feeling at all. I can relate to Raghav today. Everything, why is he not speaking up, why is he not acting out. I can explain. Pallavi needs to be more sensitive.

Let’s say Pallavi k flaws nikl kr bahar aa rhe hain and she will learn.

@bold- I want her to make mistakes. Par oblivious bann ke nehi. I cannot take it. This not the kind of Pallavi we have seen until now. It is disappointing.

Originally posted by: fria319

This is was my biggest gripe with her actions in the entire episode because...

1) she saw her husband ask her about why she was wearing the bangles with several concerned looks towards them

2) from my understanding (i'm desi, but not indian), bangles are really significant gift of jewelry, or can be?

3) regardless of the type of jewelry, its jewelry. Often a more intimate gift. I don't even ask jewelry from my guy cousins (like on a wishlist) bc I think its awkward.

4) they were given to her by a man who told her he wants her in his home as his wife, told her husband he wants her in his home as his wife

5) this was from her ex

6) her husband does not like the guy that gave it to her

7) it was an ex's wedding present to her that he planned to give her on the night of their wedding

Am I missing anything else? Does any other wife need anymore reasons to remove the item in question?

I hope she loses them and forgets all about them and when Mandar asks she's like, "oh, yeah, sorry idk where they went my bad." lol. Just bc I feel like being petty right now.

Loses them? I hope she throws them off right away!

Honestly Idc if jewellery is more of an intimate gift or it has some significance to it. Even if it had been a very insignificant and professional kind of gift. The thing is it’s hurting Raghav. She can’t be oblivious to it. Someone she loves and someone who loves her back so much, is hurting bad. That alone is the reason enough for her to not have those bangles on anymore. Husband or no husband- Idc even if they were not married to each other. They love each other. There’s no other reason needed here!

Originally posted by: PSharada

Good night everyone. If anything good comes please tag me. Hoping Sickand gets the feedback from today's episode and corrects his writing and screenplay

This is a grave mistake.

If they have the guts to make this mistake, they should make the plot even more eventful for us to accept in the end. Otherwise we will not buy this at all!

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

Yaar it's not our job to make sense of characters, that's the show's responsibility. I know you've been trying to keep a super positive outlook to stuff, and honestly I've been trying as well, but less effectively than you, but something has been very off for a while. We've had good episodes beech mein but it's so inconsistent. You're right, they're not making me feel anything right now because it's all just eh.

It’s just how much I love Raghvi, Ash! By evening I will yet again convince myself and move on from this somehow. But extremely flawed story telling.

Originally posted by: Inese_20

Loses them? I hope she throws them off right away!

Honestly Idc if jewellery is more of an intimate gift or it has some significance to it. Even if it had been a very insignificant and professional kind of gift. The thing is it’s hurting Raghav. She can’t be oblivious to it. Someone she loves and someone who loves her back so much, is hurting bad. That alone is the reason enough for her to not have those bangles on anymore. Husband or no husband- Idc even if they were not married to each other. They love each other. There’s no other reason needed here!

I say lose because I want her to show him how little regard or impact or place he has in her life.

Throwing away is like she actively thought about the bangles and him and what they meant and he may even interpret (if he ever found out) that they were a threat - like they felt threatened by his gift. (Am I making any sense lol - I gotta go to bed).

Not caring where they went? That signifies more of a nonchalant attitude, a disregard for Mandar.

It's that whole thing of love v. hate v. indifference.

@ bold:

facts.

Most important reason of all. Raghav didn't like it and it would've been clearly evident (as it was to us) if she had just paid attention and didn't write it off as "Oh he's angry bc my phone was off" which it feels like she did? I don't even think she associated him being upset with the bangles at all.

I tell ya, any lesser of a man, and he would've thought she was cheating on him.