The kind of love you relate to - Page 6

Originally posted by: barbieflora

Awww that's a beautiful name!❤️

Thank youuu🌸🌸

I like Kia too🖤

I relate to shivi (minus the forced marriage part obviously) the most & most of you already know because of all the ✨oversharing story time with sara✨ but for those of you who don't:

me & my guy went from being childhood ‘strangle you w my bare hands' enemies to all ‘can’t live w you, can’t murder you in the sleep’ kinda lovebirds (hence, my ETERNAL LOVE for ✨enemies to lovers✨)

I honestly don't know how we went from fighting fiercely with each other to fighting for each other

it didn't happen overnight & it sure as hell wasn't easy, but we were always enough lucky to find our way back to each other 🥺❤️

he's the love of my life & I'm goddamn lucky to have him :))

he's still my 🥰chaotic neutral dumbass🥰 & I'm still his 🥰satan's spawn🥰

so, I like to think we both won in life, me more than him (🍩 TELL HIM I SAID THAT)

Even though ShiVi is my favorite couple in the show because I love the enemies to lovers trope, I find them the most unrelatable because in life who married their enemy?😆

For me, DevTa is the most realistic couple for obvious reasons. Rishita is a typical insecure girl who feels like a misfit in her in laws and craves for her husbands attention.

GauRa I find relatable as well because just like them, my hubby is the oldest sibling in his family and he doesnt have a father so we have to take responsibility to look after the family just like GauRa.

Ok so

I am single and never been in relationship. So no idea how a relationship works.

But whatever I have seen that, one thing which is important to do is that if one's temper flying high the other needs to be quite and take the sensible seat. & Later when that person calms down then say what u wanna say.

I want the intensity of Shivi's relationship and the calmness Gaura's relationship have even after 10yrs.

Also seeing the stories of soo many people makes me soo happy thinking how many beautiful relationships r there.

To all who shared their stories, it was pretty cute and made me feel all soft.

I have always been a reader not actually read a love story but have read them. & We tend to want that time of character or story for us but they r imaginary.

But seeing soo many real relationship stories warms my heart and makes me super happy.

Originally posted by: Dorae

I can say my life went through all these process. As they say it takes time to know each other. You know it took half a decade to understand my husbands point of view.

Mutual understanding comes with time I think.

U r right..he does understand me better than before..I am more vocal about feelings than him..but he is not very vocal abt his feelings..and somewhere we both are very immature ..it has been 8years since our marrg..😆.I dnt know when we will get to gaura stage by this rate..our communication gap never seems to get better...but one good thing abt him that I respect is he always ask my opinion before making a decision.whether he accepts it or not is another story😆.anyways.. that is something dev hardly does..

Originally posted by: sunsaathiyaa

I relate to shivi (minus the forced marriage part obviously) the most & most of you already know because of all the ✨oversharing story time with sara✨ but for those of you who don't:

me & my guy went from being childhood ‘strangle you w my bare hands' enemies to all ‘can’t live w you, can’t murder you in the sleep’ kinda lovebirds (hence, my ETERNAL LOVE for ✨enemies to lovers✨)

I honestly don't know how we went from fighting fiercely with each other to fighting for each other

it didn't happen overnight & it sure as hell wasn't easy, but we were always enough lucky to find our way back to each other 🥺❤️

he's the love of my life & I'm goddamn lucky to have him :))

he's still my 🥰chaotic neutral dumbass🥰 & I'm still his 🥰satan's spawn🥰

so, I like to think we both won in life, me more than him (🍩 TELL HIM I SAID THAT)

Hehe. Sara story time is always special🖤

Originally posted by: Unique.Sheep

Even though ShiVi is my favorite couple in the show because I love the enemies to lovers trope, I find them the most unrelatable because in life who married their enemy?😆

For me, DevTa is the most realistic couple for obvious reasons. Rishita is a typical insecure girl who feels like a misfit in her in laws and craves for her husbands attention.

GauRa I find relatable as well because just like them, my hubby is the oldest sibling in his family and he doesnt have a father so we have to take responsibility to look after the family just like GauRa.

But were they enemies? They weren’t. They are childhood nemeses and yes I believe these kind do het married.

I married one such guy. Arranged marriage. We fought ceaselessly like our life would end if we stopped fighting. But then got engaged by our choice when parents asked and fought after engagement to such an extent that I wanted to end it all at one point. But it would effect not just me and him but fam as well so went ahead with marriage. Fought more and also bore stuff like Devta. Fought again. But there were no insecurities or hatred in our fights. They were usually due to different views on many topics.

But then we started adjusting. And love came later. I always say u grow in love u dont fall in it. Same happened with us.

So yes I can relate to that. 😆

Originally posted by: ShinyShine

Ok so

I am single and never been in relationship. So no idea how a relationship works.

But whatever I have seen that, one thing which is important to do is that if one's temper flying high the other needs to be quite and take the sensible seat. & Later when that person calms down then say what u wanna say.

I want the intensity of Shivi's relationship and the calmness Gaura's relationship have even after 10yrs.

Also seeing the stories of soo many people makes me soo happy thinking how many beautiful relationships r there.

To all who shared their stories, it was pretty cute and made me feel all soft.

I have always been a reader not actually read a love story but have read them. & We tend to want that time of character or story for us but they r imaginary.

But seeing soo many real relationship stories warms my heart and makes me super happy.

Then I wish u get warm intense and respectful relationship too Palak🖤🍁

Originally posted by: deeps07

U r right..he does understand me better than before..I am more vocal about feelings than him..but he is not very vocal abt his feelings..and somewhere we both are very immature ..it has been 8years since our marrg..😆.I dnt know when we will get to gaura stage by this rate..our communication gap never seems to get better...but one good thing abt him that I respect is he always ask my opinion before making a decision.whether he accepts it or not is another story😆.anyways.. that is something dev hardly does..

Talk a lot with ua guy. Talking helps a lot. Just talk about ua feelings. And listen to him when he speaks too. Try to find a middle ground and also make some ground rules. I feel rules help in maintaining the initial phase a lot😆

ShiVi represent what I used to want as a teen 😆

GauRa is something I can only hope for the future

And DevTa is what I see all around me 😆