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Posted: 4 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: DivyaaaV

even I feel like Pallavi won't let Mandar put bangles on her


I agree that Pallavi will need to speak up, she will eventually she is already


but she won't immediately say no and be stern with him yet

she isn't as straightforward as raghav, she thinks with her emotions


she will come around, let's wait and see!

Yup iam sure they won't make Pallavi so much dumb..


Mandar will try to make pallavi wear bangles and I feel that will be the clue to Pallavi to know abt the bad creepy intensions of him..


I have strong feeling that it will be a no from Pallavi for wearing bangles


Even on humanity there is no scope for Pallavi to wear bangles by mandar


And yes she is not straight forward .


Only when she reach her saturation point and break she becomes straight forward.. Let's see how Pallavi handles herself

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Posted: 4 years ago
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One of the first things Pallavi did to solidify her forced marriage with Raghav was she asked him to put Shringaar items on her in front of the press and public- bangles, earrings etc. So clearly she understands the significance of this and I think believes in them. So I doubt she’d willingly allow Bandar to put bangles on her. He may tell Raghav she did, but he’d be lying through his teeth.

Originally posted by: DivyaaaV

even I feel like Pallavi won't let Mandar put bangles on her


I agree that Pallavi will need to speak up, she will eventually she is already


but she won't immediately say no and be stern with him yet

she isn't as straightforward as raghav, she thinks with her emotions


she will come around, let's wait and see!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Pallavi and raghav are poles apart. She won't behave like raghav do but she have her own way. She tried to get things better with VD but once she saw how they taking her goodness as advantage and treating her husband badly, she reached her saturation point and roared she is pallavi raghav Rao and she is happy, proud of it.

She will do the same way with mandar also once she knows his intentions. Yesterday itself she started to tell she is raghav wife and moved on , today also she didn't wait to acknowledge Mandy as ex and raghav as her husband. More D family try to claim or pull her back she will bounce back. She will come to know soon what is Mandy intentions, that day no one can be saved from her.

Pallavi unconditional love and trust is strength, her goodness and care of d family is weakness of raghav. Yes he will be hurt and insecured to the core but pallavi love will heal him. Loosing her is the biggest fear of him always and he is going to go through hell before it's going to get better but that's the marriage. Love and trust will be tested, they'll emerge out as strong couple. It's raghvi love story and Mandy is catalyst so we need to wait more to things get unfold.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Well said and as a girl we have inborn instinct to decipher about the counter person intention especially about Males ...As a girl my blood is boiling thinking that Pallavi all sense have been blocked or she is ingnoring the red flags intentionally ..

No matter how we respect somone or good nature we are as a human or a girl we can easily decipher about good or bad intention about a guy and Pallu being matured and married is behaving like a dumb ...😡

You expect her to say no ...she will never I atleast expected she will easily catch the guy intention regarding herself but na yeh ladki apna dimag Sabji mandi bech ayi hai ..

It's not about blaming victim it's about natural female instinct ...

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Mandar is trying slyly to play up Raghav's insecurities against him. The churi wala scene might have happened differently but Mandar is giving some other dimension to it . He is trying to make Raghav insecure. I am 100% sure this guy is fake because the sukha sukha expression he gave today seeing ayee and kaka confirms it. As for Pallavi, she already gave multiple clear hints since yesterday that Raghav is her husband not Mandar . She explicitly called Mandar her ex husband but that creep he lives in another delusional world. After getting clear hints also he is obsessed with her and the way he eats the sheera and said sheera bhi rakh leta hu aur Pallavi ko bhi and then eat the sheera saying it is very tasty. Disgusting!! smiley11 If Pallu is forced to stay in D house he will surely try to rape her. His intentions are evil. Loved Aai how she took Pallavi's side and immeadiately shut down VD saying it is not her house anymore and it ceased to be when he threw her out of the house. This probably gave Mandar the incentive to know everything about how Raghvi marriage happened and Raghav is into smughling business. She is doing this based on humanitarian ground and not on any feelings. Pallavi is innocent and good natured which people take advantage of. She from yesterday is giving multiple clear messages that Raghav is her husband but if creeps like Mandar do not take hint and lust after her . Is that also her fault?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kavila

Well said and as a girl we have inborn instinct to decipher about the counter person intention especially about Males ...As a girl my blood is boiling thinking that Pallavi all sense have been blocked or she is ingnoring the red flags intentionally ..

No matter how we respect somone or good nature we are as a human or a girl we can easily decipher about good or bad intention about a guy and Pallu being matured and married is behaving like a dumb ...😡

You expect her to say no ...she will never I atleast expected she will easily catch the guy intention regarding herself but na yeh ladki apna dimag Sabji mandi bech ayi hai ..

As per BTS If Mandar sneek in Raghvi room when she is in deep sleep and try to touch her or sleep Beside her and Raghav witnessing all this ..I will not blame Raghav at all because it's Pallu who self invited this after almost tsunami of RED FLAGS floating in front of her

No words for this girl 😡

What is up with this victim blaming in this forum? Is it allowed mods ?

How can one say girl herself invited creep?

And no tsunami of red flags isn’t infront of her but Raghav , Mandaar is acting like creep behind her back and infront of Raghav only. Raghav also didn’t tell Pallavi about this weird challenge , he should have warned her.


Getting creepy vibes is subjective thing, some people catch on early on , some later , you can’t outrightly mock her by saying she is intentionally ignoring those flags .


No will blame Raghav , shouldn’t blame Pallavi too. Point fingers at the one who’s actually wrong, Mandaar.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: meghumonu

Mandar is trying slyly to play up Raghav's insecurities against him. The churi wala scene might have happened differently but Mandar is giving some other dimension to it . He is trying to make Raghav insecure. I am 100% sure this guy is fake because the sukha sukha expression he gave today seeing ayee and kaka confirms it. As for Pallavi, she already gave multiple clear hints since yesterday that Raghav is her husband not Mandar . She explicitly called Mandar her ex husband but that creep he lives in another delusional world. After getting clear hints also he is obsessed with her and the way he eats the sheera and said sheera bhi rakh leta hu aur Pallavi ko bhi and then eat the sheera saying it is very tasty. Disgusting!! smiley11 If Pallu is forced to stay in D house he will surely try to rape her. His intentions are evil. Loved Aai how she took Pallavi's side and immeadiately shut down VD saying it is not her house anymore and it ceased to be when he threw her out of the house. This probably gave Mandar the incentive to know everything about how Raghvi marriage happened and Raghav is into smughling business. She is doing this based on humanitarian ground and not on any feelings. Pallavi is innocent and good natured which people take advantage of. She from yesterday is giving multiple clear messages that Raghav is her husband but if creeps like Mandar do not take hint and lust after her . Is that also her fault?


That Shera wala scene omg it was 🤢🤢🤢but Ashok was Fab 👏👏i got literally scared and start shaking seeing that part uff

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Not only judging Pallavi, but FORE-JUDGING Pallavi, yet again! Let the episode air. Let’s see what happens. Then you make this post.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Couch.Potato

What is up with this victim blaming in this forum? Is it allowed mods ?

How can one say girl herself invited creep?

And no tsunami of red flags isn’t infront of her but Raghav , Mandaar is acting like creep behind her back and infront of Raghav only. Raghav also didn’t tell Pallavi about this weird challenge , he should have warned her.


Getting creepy vibes is subjective thing, some people catch on early on , some later , you can’t outrightly mock her by saying she is intentionally ignoring those flags .


No will blame Raghav , shouldn’t blame Pallavi too. Point fingers at the one who’s actually wrong, Mandaar.


You are mistaken i didnt mean that sorry of my post is taken in some other way what I mean that Pallavi should firmly say to mandaar that tough you are my freind but please stay in your limits that is and loud and clear no about ...Raghav aur meri shadi Ajeeb halato me hui explaination

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: gayatherry88

Pallavi and raghav are poles apart. She won't behave like raghav do but she have her own way. She tried to get things better with VD but once she saw how they taking her goodness as advantage and treating her husband badly, she reached her saturation point and roared she is pallavi raghav Rao and she is happy, proud of it.

She will do the same way with mandar also once she knows his intentions. Yesterday itself she started to tell she is raghav wife and moved on , today also she didn't wait to acknowledge Mandy as ex and raghav as her husband. More D family try to claim or pull her back she will bounce back. She will come to know soon what is Mandy intentions, that day no one can be saved from her.

Pallavi unconditional love and trust is strength, her goodness and care of d family is weakness of raghav. Yes he will be hurt and insecured to the core but pallavi love will heal him. Loosing her is the biggest fear of him always and he is going to go through hell before it's going to get better but that's the marriage. Love and trust will be tested, they'll emerge out as strong couple. It's raghvi love story and Mandy is catalyst so we need to wait more to things get unfold.

so true.. Totally agree that Pallavi is taking stand for her feelings and her love but in her own style...


Pallavi unconditional love for her family is her strength in Raos and it becomes weakness when D family try to misuse it..


I really felt bad for RR yesterday.. When he asked tum mujase pyaar karthi hoo na to Pallavi

Pallavi needs to take care of Insecurities of Raghav and Raghav should be support of her by trusting her believing her.....

As it should be give and take between them ...


When this two exchanges happens between RaghVi they will win over the storm

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