Originally posted by: ilovepyaar
I get what you mean, but just because he remembers a memory doesn't mean that he will see her as a child to this level 😆 Even after their love story and romance begins, he won't erase these memories. They will still be a very important part of their journey, and I feel he would still laugh the same way he laughed today even after he feels a romantic inclination for Bon.
The pee thing repeated with VJ as Bon doesn't feel like a childish thing to me. In fact, it's very intimate in my opinion as it shows a close connection... after marriage, all couples have to deal with every side of their partners, especially once they go through things like childbirth, sicknesses, etc.
So I personally didn't see it as him remembering that she's a child. It was just a memory of their past that he remembered and laughed at... I don't think makers even planned to make it as deep as we are making it about whether Ani sees her as a child or woman.
I agree with the fact that even after their love begins, it will not erase the past or the memories they had when she was a child because that built the foundation and it's a beautiful one.
But, I have to disagree with certain things here. I know many couples go through various circumstances later on in life, they need to witness childbirth, later in old age, they have to even see their partners pee or poo everywhere, there can be so many instances of bodily functions or embarrassing aspects being completely openly displayed among partners.
The place my disagreement comes is that all this happens when they are adults, they are both of same age but in Rudhita's case, she was a child when this happened and this is a memory of her being a child. If I was Anirudh and this happened, then that girl will remain a child for me, even if she grows up and comes to me, I'll see her as the little girl.
This is a very difficult place to be and I am quite interested to know how the makers will change this view because picking this moment as the vital one really hammers in the point that she is a just a child for him. It does for me, I know others can have a different view and that's understandable too.