Pandya Store|Episode Discussion#65|Masale Ki Mehek,Janu Ko Baja Dala - Page 86

Originally posted by: Nups_mish

Beautiful post Piu as always! ❤️❤️ Thats how I interpreted those scenes as well ! More than Dev its Raavi and her emotions that are affecting Shiva! He feels she will never be able to love him the way she used to love Dev. Thats what makes Shiva feel unwanted, neglected and somewhat jealous! Thats where all his insecurities are coming from!😔

Raavi needs to take the first step here and make him understand that is not the case! She needs to reassure Shiva that she is ready to give her heart and soul to this relationship. Thats when Shiva can come out of his inner turmoil! 😔

Nups 🤗 Well said!

I think more than the reassurance, Shiva needs Ravi to tell him that it has always been him. Her past is not really a problem with him. Its her sheer neglect of him over the years. He might have fallen in love explicitly and acknowledged it to himself very recently. But, it’s pretty evident that her words used to affect him ever since he was a child. I like this brooding Shiva a lot. If you go back to a few pages earlier, I had made a post about the series of things that has always been constant between them.

Originally posted by: Nups_mish

ML🤗 Bass kuch nahi aaj yaha bohot thanda hai lagta hai sab weekend mood me hai😆 Mai homework kar rahi thi😆

Kya lagta hai next week kya dikhaege PS me? I dont want them to focus on Anita 🤢 and they should bring Mama back! I only enjoy Maami’s scenes with Mama. Mami- Anita scenes are just 🤢

I am in the same boat with you. Monday about 7-8 minutes will be oily sneaking in the house, putting water in the cement, watching GauRa romance from terrace, and then sneaking out as Pandy family plays chor police. Then there will be family speculations and Rishita probably making some valid points about safety/security.

Then there will 4-5 minutes on bros learning about hardened cement and Gaumbi's threat and they may figure out some solution.

There will be 3-4 minutes with Suman's insecurities as she starts noticing Gaumbi's concern more for Dhara.

2-3 minute of Maagin -Oily scene. And we may have a blink and miss ShiVi scene.

I guess good chunk this week will be on Suman's insecurities. Oily's crap and then revelation of the bedroom.

Originally posted by: Nups_mish

Oh god!! These relatives! 😡They are least bothered about their lives! If they minded their own business the world would have been a much better place to live in!

I understand, many of my friends are going through the same problems! Parents/ relatives are forcing them to join matrimonial sites, meet random guys, try to find perfect matches for them! The other day my dad’s friend called me and asked me to look for Sikh girls in my office/ friend circle for his son and told me not to tell him! I am like your son doesn’t know that you are finding girls for him?? What if he has chosen someone already!

This is a vicious cycle! But don’t worry, you do whatever you want! You cannot live your life according to someone else. 🤗😵

In my case most of my relatives have their own lives sorted, no worries.. so their only business is to disturb other people's peace of mind..

Just few days after my father's passing, some of them began telling my mother, "iski shaadi kara do, you are spoiling her life"

They are all nut case. I I can't even begin to tell what my bua said at different occasions, nothing related to marriage but whatever she said was downright rude and cheap.. her children were the closest to papa amongst all my cousins, but her daughter has not even come once here or not even checked upon us, oh not even a proper condolence call.. but her mother acts like she's the only one who cares for us in the whole world. At the same time taunt my mother and I left right and center when we are not in a position to answer back.

Originally posted by: Nups_mish

Good morning Sakshu!!🤗❤️ Sunday ko itna jaldi uthi tu?

Haan I'm a good bachcha🤣

Early to bed early to rise🤣

Originally posted by: Transference

Thank you for sharing your wonderful stories, dear ladies. I love the era which we are in. Back when I was a younger girl, the society didn’t give us so many choices. I am lucky to have met you strong independent women who are writing their own rules, challenging life, questioning the age-old norms of patriarchy, and living life on their own terms. I love how unapologetic we areAbout the choices we make and the chances we take. Cheers to independent women.

Piu🤗 Inspite of the era you grew up in, you are also a perfect example of that. You likely have to and probably may still face people questioning your choices. People in your generation had to take such actions and have had to pave the initial way for us to continue to go down these paths.

Originally posted by: Sakmen

In my case most of my relatives have their own lives sorted, no worries.. so their only business is to disturb other people's peace of mind..

Just few days after my father's passing, some of them began telling my mother, "iski shaadi kara do, you are spoiling her life"

They are all nut case. I I can't even begin to tell what my bua said at different occasions, nothing related to marriage but whatever she said was downright rude and cheap.. her children were the closest to papa amongst all my cousins, but her daughter has not even come once here or not even checked upon us, oh not even a proper condolence call.. but her mother acts like she's the only one who cares for us in the whole world. At the same time taunt my mother and I left right and center when we are not in a position to answer back.

That's so appalling! I am so sorry for people to place you in this situation and not even allowing you to mourne in peace. I am angry for you!

As far as the cousins are concerned, isn't it great?! Why why waste your energy thinking about those who really don't care. It's better to cut these toxicity from your life. I have started with "busy with work" as an excuse to avoided meeting toxic relatives in my life. Not sure how hard/easy to do that in your situation though.

Originally posted by: Sakmen

In my case most of my relatives have their own lives sorted, no worries.. so their only business is to disturb other people's peace of mind..

Just few days after my father's passing, some of them began telling my mother, "iski shaadi kara do, you are spoiling her life"

They are all nut case. I I can't even begin to tell what my bua said at different occasions, nothing related to marriage but whatever she said was downright rude and cheap.. her children were the closest to papa amongst all my cousins, but her daughter has not even come once here or not even checked upon us, oh not even a proper condolence call.. but her mother acts like she's the only one who cares for us in the whole world. At the same time taunt my mother and I left right and center when we are not in a position to answer back.

Sakshi 🤗

The best way to deal with these constant vermin like behaviours is to shut down. Trust me; life is too short to wallow with petty stuff affecting you. In my mentoring & coaching sessions, I always tell people to strengthen their personal mental acumen rather than wasting energy on energy vampires 🤗

You are strong, callibrate yourself to be stronger!

We should all connect separately once the show is over! It would be lovely to have all you women in a close-knit group!

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

Piu🤗 Inspite of the era you grew up in, you are also a perfect example of that. You likely have to and probably may still face people questioning your choices. People in your generation had to take such actions and have had to pave the initial way for us to continue to go down these paths.

😈 I was one of the wicked, non-apologetic chudail 😆

Still trying to break the clutter and fight for women’s rights. Since it's a public forum with anonymous users, I am only giving out a few details! I do work with lots of women, gender issues and head a portfolio in this field. It's fascinating to see such wonderful women who are choosing to live their lives with dignity.

Coming back to PS, sometimes it's progressive, while in some issues, it's so blahhhh!!

Dhara and her biological clock are matters of drawing-room conversations!! I would have loved if she gave it back to everyone saying that you men have no right about what I do with my body!!

Chikki, I am loving these 🤗snippets and scenes! These are gorgeous!