Originally posted by: .Rinnie.
I mean that Anirudh is an amazing man, to be her first love and the first man she ever felt anything for, he has pretty much raised the standards very high for her thus it isn't exactly hard to see why she is so lost in love.
She was possessive because she considered herself his wife. Once that title went off, she kind of mellowed down and stopped being so possessive about him, she made herself understand that he is her friend and nothing more. Bondita can be mature and understanding too if she gets the right indication that he does reciprocate her feelings in the same manner then I feel she will back off.
She isn't Mini to force it on him. She thinks that if he realizes his feelings then he will be happy and able to overcome this darkness... but once she realizes that he does not love her in that manner, she will back off and accept that she merely wants his happiness more than reciprocation of her feelings.
She considers him her bhagwan... I really doubt she will ever try to hurt him for not loving her back.