Originally posted by: nethraa_99
I thought lack of trust too ...but according to Pooja (@tptwi) and @sadiltl in KD also there was no lack of trust as such...it's more his insecurity - although his words will suggest otherwise. I think I can make sense of this contradiction....but it's a little tricky.
I can understand his insecurity, can understand his emotions or even his outburst but actions speaks louder than words. For me, the minute he overreacted when he came to know that Ajinkya was in their room showed how much trust he has in Sai. I am not saying he thinks her to be characterless but he should have so much trust in her to not to run to the room like that. See, when I say about trust even now, I am not saying he thinks she might be doing something with Ajinkya and hence he is running, I am not able to think that way too but is he not supposed to wait or not react and go to his room like normally? His insecurity can be seen in his restlessness, not by his inconsiderate behaviour. Sai wanted to join him and Pakhi to Ladakh, she didn’t like when Pakhi kept offering to pack his things, she felt restless when Pakhi was speaking all that crap and couldn’t hold herself that she replied to Pakhi and started talking to Pakhi. One could see how hurt she was as a wife. But even then, even after she has heard Pakhi asking for his clothes, even after Pakhi making fun of her asking her to study and they will go to Ladakh, even after Pakhi keeps claiming rights on Virat, even after she knows that Virat was committed to Pakhi and that’s why didn’t accept her as his wife when they got married, set conditions during their marriage, made it a deal one, she asked both of them to go to Ladakh when Pakhi made an issue after coming to know that Sai was also joining them. That shows the amount of trust Sai has on Virat. She saw Pakhi feeding Virat and moved out of the place. Sai has always thought that they have feelings for each other but she also had started to feel something to Virat, she has also felt jealousy, possessive, she is also feeling insecured but did that make her react this way, rushing to where the two are when they are alone?
When one says lack of trust, it means that if he had trust on Sai, he wouldn’t ask questions like what were you doing alone with Ajinkya in our room. That question was totally wrong. Whether or not he meant that she was doing something wrong, even asking such a question only means that he doesn’t have enough trust in Sai. He should be thinking that she would never think or move with any guy or have an affair with any guy when she is in a marital relationship with her. Let’s see how the scene plays out. If one has immense trust, even after seeing whatever he saw, they would only try to make themselves understand that Sai wouldn’t do anything like that. That would show the amount of confidence or trust in their partner. It is like thinking they would never do it, thinking he is probably misunderstanding the scenario. Not only did he misunderstand, he also started to beat that guy up as if he did something based on his assumption and asked her questions too. Let’s wait for the actual scene. Have said only based on what we have seen so far.
Edited by laksh - 4 years ago