Equating Sai/AJ equation with Virakhi is baseless!

There is a HUGE difference between Pakhi and Ajinkya. Sai never called Ajinkya her pyari cheez or didn't say that her heart belongs to Ajinkya FOREVER and will never be able to give it to Viat. So Sai asking his current status of forever love for Pakhi is not same as Virat getting jealous when Sai only calls him friend and Sai actually hugged Virat in front of entire college and proudly called him her husband. Virat literally has no basis to question Sai. Sai's definition of friendship isn't same as of Virat's having romantic feelings for Pakhi & hiding it under the term of a pure bond such as friendship.

PS - In today's episode Sai herself again cleared it out to Virat that Ajinkya is nothing but just a normal college friend not even best friend or special friend. And she did imply Virat is special to her. And him obsessing over her male friends is heights of toxic masculinity, epitome of problematic behaviour, asking their numbers, it's creepy & stalker-ish, always insinuating something grave between them only shows his narrow-minded patriarchal mentality just like he told Sai that every wife & she has to adjust with her abusive in-laws. It's sick! It's not CUTE or romantic at all. It's toxic obsession at this point, it shouldn't be romanticized or normalised at all. It's unhealthy possessiveness. Also, in the precap he entered the room like a raging bull because it's his instinct that Sai might be upto something with him (and I won't buy the BS he was worried that Ajinkya would harm her. Firstly he'd not dare trying doing that in presence of so many people in the house that too at even hours or Sai ain't fool to be upto something with him, when all family members aren't sleeping or cheat on him in daylight) shows how much he trusts her. I hated the BGM & tone of the scene which they played in today's episode of the kitchen scene of Sai & Virat. There's no love without trust.

Virat is definitely insecure because he is older and not closer to Sai in age. Sai is clear in her intentions and has declared Virat as her husband in front of her college. In this regard, Virat or KBA has no right to say anything about Sai. I personally don't trust Ajinkya but Sai knows her limits.

I have no clue in which world can the two be equated..

In a few words there's no reason that Virat is getting that jealous overacting this is the word I'm using to describe him.

SAI has to accept everything from the ex of her husband being in the same house to being called & labelled as zimmedari but Virat rattles up at Sai even speaking to a guy

Yeh kya hai !!

I dont know how can these two be compared. We all know and have seen Virat n Pakhi since the initial episodes. What do we know about Ajinkya? He is just a friend of Sai. As nothing is aired yet about what exactly happened, I cant comment on it.

Like many others in the forum, even I have analysed Virat so I can understand most of his actions. It doesnt mean I'm ok with them. Anyways, I cant term his thinking as a patriarchal mindset, for many other reasons. Since we are talking about jealous and possessiveness, I just want to share the below points-

- Over possessiveness is never a sign of healthy relationship. I dont understand how come being possessive is romantic. A partner is a human being, not a thing.

- Being jealous is ok, but doing anything out of that jealousy is not.

- Trust is a must in any relationship, I believe that love alone is not enough without trust.

- Giving space in relationship is necessary. Prioritising your happiness is not wrong. Neither partner nor the family have any right to question/guilt trip.

- My favorite one, a couple should work as a unit. No third person in between.

Having said that, I feel half of the things are just being dragged here. Instead, if Sai and Virat sit and actually communicate, things can be far better.

There is actually no comparison. Plotting and presenting a certain picture cannot draw parallels. Virat and Pakhi have a past and Pakhi still nurtures those feelings. Ajinkya and Sai are friends and it is just how someone perceives it, that is wrong there. I agree that for an orthodox family, friends coming over at night, hugging and all may have not gone down well. But infidelity is something different. Though it hasn’t been shown, but even Pakhi and Virat may have friends of opposite gender. And things are different when you are in college. All i feel is that they are pushing really hard to present a certain picture and sequence that will add up to justify why Virat did what he will do, what created that level of jealousy and insecurity to react in such a way.

I think his jealousy and insecurity are not completely unreasonable because Virat is not sure if Sai can reciprocate his feelings. But there is a thin line he is treading on. Hope they font butcher him. but yes there is NO comparison between virat-pp and Sai-Ajinkya. Virat pp did have "an infatuation", "romantic feelings" etc....it may not have ever been anything big but no one knows that. Both Virat n pp have at different pounts made Sai feel like theirs was some sort of "eternal love story" and so Sai questioning their relationship is entirely justified because its not a figment of imagination. Whereas Sai Ajinkya are just normal friends. Sai is comfortable with his "touch" as evidenced by dancing with him and hugging him on her birthday but that doesn't imply anything! So if Virat chooses to go bonkers because he is insecure it is in NO way the same as Sai losing her cool about pp-virat. I've been coming across pov's of people talking about - "Sai sitting too close to Ajinkya", "Sai should not be in bedroom with him", "Sai is ok with him touching her, its a little more "friendly" than just normal friends "etc etc and i am appalled that people are trying to find such random things to say. I was so upset to see such comments that I've not bothered to honor such statements with a reply also.

Virat-pp are not friends, they are "ex-lovers" so virat even standing an inch too close to pp IS A PROBLEM. When he holds her hand, its a problem..so yes it is different rules because it's different context n situations.

Theres a zameem asmaan difference between both.

And Sai maybe young but she is smart. She knows her limits. She is clear about her relationship with Ajinkya. She is not leading anyone along or confused about her feelings. So to mistrust her will be a grave mistake. I hope theres some deviation from KD and its not done in a crass way here....

Ajinkya and Sai shared hardly any screen space together. Their dynamics even as a friends was never explored. So how can I compare them with Virat and Pakhi??Where as Pakhi and Virat both had a past together even if for two days they shared a romantic feelings for each other. Ajinkya is like any other college buddy. When they hugged didn't noticed any sexual tension or discomfort between the two. Where as every time there is a close proximity between the two Pakhi completely looses her sense. The kind of frankness both pakhi and Virat shares isn't so pleasent in the eye given the relationship they both share now 🤢

Originally posted by: Dvanshi123

SAI has to accept everything from the ex of her husband being in the same house to being called & labelled as zimmedari but Virat rattles up at Sai even speaking to a guy

Yeh kya hai !!

Why he's not trusting Sai when Pakhi keeps inviting him for an extra marital affair, the woman who wants to swing between two men two brothers under one roof.