Shivangi Khedkar {Pallavi} AT #14 | Rise Like The Break Of Dawn - Page 88

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

That's what, he's doing the right things, my issue is not ki he believed her or not. No one in their right mind would believe her, it sounds insane- in fact, if he had believed her immediately, I'd have judged his intellect. My issue is, she looked visibly distressed, she could barely hold herself up. Irrespective of who she saw, she was obviously shaken- and if she's hallucinating and on the verge of a panic attack, yelling at her and storming off because, what, a date was ruined? I'd have much preferred if he helped her calm down and then sulked or picked a fight with her, as Parul also said.

@bold:- Real life main aisa hi hota hain. Very rarely do husbands at the first instance will understand the other parties point of view. Don't know why - The only good explanation I have read about this is because the emotional range scale differs from a Man to Woman and the explanation was given really good in the book Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus.

Raghav walking off is very very realistic based on my experience.

Originally posted by: PSharada

@bold:- Real life main aisa hi hota hain. Very rarely do husbands at the first instance will understand the other parties point of view. Don't know why - The only good explanation I have read about this is because the emotional range scale differs from a Man to Woman and the explanation was given really good in the book Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus.

Raghav walking off is very very realistic based on my experience.

Lol..my hubby does storm off when he is really upset, but comes back in 5 min to tell me that I need to calm down and talk with him nicely 🤣🤪

Originally posted by: Inese_20

And we can’t brush it off like it’s in Raghav’s character. Is it really? Or it just suits the narrative? The Raghav I know isn’t like that, don’t know if someone feels differently. He’s so very perceptive!

All these things combined couldn’t let me enjoy the episode.

I get it. I found it out of character too. While the episode as a whole didn't bother me at all, this one scene did...also, Raghav ka kar kya rahe hain? It rubbed me so wrong in light of the 'prank'- they can't keep making him be this way? Are they trying to convince me that the consideration was born of guilt, and without the guilt he'll be inconsiderate? I don't buy that at all!

Originally posted by: RainbowUnicorm

Oh my god Sharda🤣...he could have called you or you should have gps on...but I understand totally.

Raghav is now like the kid jiske muh la laddoo cheen liya kisine.....laddoo ke bajay mirchi mil rahi hain....so its going to take him sometime.

This was in 2007- 2008 time frame. At that time the cell network was still sketchy especially in a driving car. Oh man my kids were scared bunnies sitting in a room and my husband was pacing in the hallway frustrated and angry and what not. I still can't forget the epic silent treatment he gave me for the next 1 week. Toh I was dealing with my escalation, plus this angry hurt tiger at home. Dang - kabhi kabhi lagta tha kaha phaas gayi yaar. Finally after a week we had a talk and he told me that he was totally scarred with the What if scenarios and he just couldn't entertain those scenarios.

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

Amma was the one I was most thrown by TBH, She was saying the right things, but it felt so off?

Yes, something was very fishy about Amma. She gave a good advice, but the warmth she had for Pallavi every time she has given such suggestions to Raghav before, was missing.

It came off like I am very disappointed in Pallavi too, but let her do whatever she likes and realise it herself. Like she said for Kirti to Pallavi. So here Amma probably feels that Pallavi is not doing the right thing going behind her ex/late husband.

Originally posted by: PSharada

@bold:- Real life main aisa hi hota hain. Very rarely do husbands at the first instance will understand the other parties point of view. Don't know why - The only good explanation I have read about this is because the emotional range scale differs from a Man to Woman and the explanation was given really good in the book Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus.

Raghav walking off is very very realistic based on my experience.

I understand what you're saying completely...I'm just not able to get myself to agree on this one. I would fully agree in the case of a fight, but this wasn't that na? This was visibly a health issue, so I am not able to write it off as not understanding her point of view. Ladai ke beech mein him storming off, absolutely. But they weren't fighting, he was literally having to hold her upright a moment ago. Woh sab baad mein ho jaata, abhi uski well being pe dhyaan dena is what I'd have expected from the character.

But I respect your take on it too- I guess we'll agree to disagree!

Originally posted by: RainbowUnicorm

🤗 Inese.😇

Koi nahi guys..epi was nice if you don't overanalyze it and we have to lower expectations till Mandar is around. There was good amount of progress and movement. Raghav was being nibba🤣

Do watch the epi on TV guys .its worthy and dramatic enough.

Haan yaar, aise toh acha hai episode. My expectation bar was probably very high after yesterday’s episode. 😆It’s the first time I am ranting like this, otherwise I am usually the one on the other side- trying to calm everyone down 🤣

Dekho sabhi please, on TV! 🤗

Originally posted by: Inese_20

Yes, something was very fishy about Amma. She gave a good advice, but the warmth she had for Pallavi every time she has given such suggestions to Raghav before, was missing.

It came off like I am very disappointed in Pallavi too, but let her do whatever she likes and realise it herself. Like she said for Kirti to Pallavi. So here Amma probably feels that Pallavi is not doing the right thing going behind her ex/late husband.

Even the look she gave while watching from her door after the little fight Raghav and Pallavi had...it was so cold? Please no Veena Sippy, not again. JaVi was such a beautiful relationship, here's hoping it's preserved 😭

I am glad the writing took a dig at the decor I couldn't even imagine them having a date there, I was so bothered abt it 😆

Frankly that entire thing was just 5 mins , I wish it had lasted longer - how much drama do they throw both into

10 min of peaceful conversations ,I wishh

Raghav being disappointed I can understand , he himself is in denial of such a fate coming true

But I think once it's clear he is alive , he would start understanding .

N why do raghav and mandaar involve themselves in a fist fight ?

Originally posted by: PSharada

This was in 2007- 2008 time frame. At that time the cell network was still sketchy especially in a driving car. Oh man my kids were scared bunnies sitting in a room and my husband was pacing in the hallway frustrated and angry and what not. I still can't forget the epic silent treatment he gave me for the next 1 week. Toh I was dealing with my escalation, plus this angry hurt tiger at home. Dang - kabhi kabhi lagta tha kaha phaas gayi yaar. Finally after a week we had a talk and he told me that he was totally scarred with the What if scenarios and he just couldn't entertain those scenarios.

Yes ma..I would have done the same if my hubby went missing for whole evening. I almost got a panic attack once when he went out of town and didnt lift phone for straight 20 hours...I didnt know how to reach him..nor if he is safe.his phone had issues..kids asking to speak to him, i cannot tell them I cannot locate daddy ..crazy day...

After that I gave him such a hard time I lived in different bedroom ..and no talking.until he apologized. ..now he calls 3 time a day when out of town. And he enables his gps for me 👍🏼