Heartbreaking episode... neither Sai nor Virat is wrong... - Page 10

Originally posted by: Anonymous9

Loved your analysis. It’s really heart breaking to see both of them like that. I liked today’s episode. Let’s see how the makers take it from here. Just wish they don’t butcher Virat’s character. But I see it coming.

You know after today's episode, I actually have hope that Virat's character will not be butchered. Rather, we will understand where both of them are coming from... at least I will try to.

Sometimes I feel how come is not able to see Virat's feelings. She's not that young to not realise his true feelings. My daughter who's 16 was telling me that Sai is around 19 and when girls of 15 - 16 can understand why can't she?

Your daughter seeing it as third person she know his conversation with pakhi and with others about his feelings and also his monologue for his love but sai is second person her who knows only one side of coin.

Past impact in her is very strong about pakhi virat relationship. Recently also he used guardian and zimedari and she used deal he never corrected her it is not fir him so these word always hurt Sai deep and it uses again and again she don't want to see beyond that now if she think beyond these word she would hurt herself that is what she thinks because in past it happens. Anyway it is journey to realise his feelings Sai just started it. Virat started long back. Past action words impact us more on sai than Virat because virat said and done those things so let virat suffer little bit. He has done lots of damage he should know what impact he has done by his words and actions on Sai he never thinks about it except that day he said I should not say things on wedding day but after that lots of things is said and shows sai that how pakhi is more important to him so let him undo it. It would be interesting to see this journey to sai reject him to acknowledge him

I have also previously mentioned, the whole age and buddha thing is going to trigger his jealousy. Sai is being insensitive there.. Sai's habit of not letting him complete was bothering me today. ANd Virat's question on touching feet was also irrelevant because he was so ecstatic when she touched his feet..

Also agree Virat has not control on his words when he is upset/angry...like today he just because she celebrated few moments with her friends, which all members who are open minded in his family were find with, he told BK that he doesnt know what is between them and if she would want to be Ajinkya's wife, if there is more between them.. That was crass...And this is just the start..

Sai is stuck there because she has been rejected and has been rejected really bad.. Imagine the man you are marrying, vows to not give you the haq...the moment he sees his ex, while performing his pheras with you. If you have seen the first time he mentioned about or koi ummeed mat rakhna, doctor banne k baad chale jana, all she said was aap dubara soch lijiye..The very first time she accepted this to be a deal was , when he kept talking about it while performing the rituals .. Not just that he came back to clarify his marriage to the same woman, called her mistake and the other woman his pyaari cheez..

One might think that with the current things the girls needs to forget it, but unfortunately he has craved it on her heart and he will have to delete it. The fear of rejection makes Virat to not come with the exact words, the exact communication and Sai wants just that... They both are so stuck there..

The whole ring thing bothered me like crazy..Is she going to give him back now or later , not sure..And the rings is so atrocious looking that they did not even pan the camera on it...Sai cannot keep wearing that ring..

Neil's portrayal when he was feeling bad about her words on the ring was so so heart touching.. You could feel the pain, one gets, the pain that you feel in the chest because of keeping it in for a long long time..He was really good today. Barring the few dialogues, I really liked the episode today..

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I have also previously mentioned, the whole age and buddha thing is going to trigger his jealousy. Sai is being insensitive there.. Sai's habit of not letting him complete was bothering me today. ANd Virat's question on touching feet was also irrelevant because he was so ecstatic when she touched his feet..

Also agree Virat has not control on his words when he is upset/angry...like today he just because she celebrated few moments with her friends, which all members who are open minded in his family were find with, he told BK that he doesnt know what is between them and if she would want to be Ajinkya's wife, if there is more between them.. That was crass...And this is just the start..

Sai is stuck there because she has been rejected and has been rejected really bad.. Imagine the man you are marrying, vows to not give you the haq...the moment he sees his ex, while performing his pheras with you. If you have seen the first time he mentioned about or koi ummeed mat rakhna, doctor banne k baad chale jana, all she said was aap dubara soch lijiye..The very first time she accepted this to be a deal was , when he kept talking about it while performing the rituals .. Not just that he came back to clarify his marriage to the same woman, called her mistake and the other woman his pyaari cheez..

One might think that with the current things the girls needs to forget it, but unfortunately he has craved it on her heart and he will have to delete it. The fear of rejection makes Virat to not come with the exact words, the exact communication and Sai wants just that... They both are so stuck there..

The whole ring thing bothered me like crazy..Is she going to give him back now or later , not sure..And the rings is so atrocious looking that they did not even pan the camera on it...Sai cannot keep wearing that ring..

Neil's portrayal when he was feeling bad about her words on the ring was so so heart touching.. You could feel the pain, one gets, the pain that you feel in the chest because of keeping it in for a long long time..He was really good today. Barring the few dialogues, I really liked the episode today..

You have written this so beautifully. I second everything ❤️

Originally posted by: SonuRani

Sometimes I feel how come is not able to see Virat's feelings. She's not that young to not realise his true feelings. My daughter who's 16 was telling me that Sai is around 19 and when girls of 15 - 16 can understand why can't she?

Your daughter seeing it as third person she know his conversation with pakhi and with others about his feelings and also his monologue for his love but sai is second person her who knows only one side of coin.

Past impact in her is very strong about pakhi virat relationship. Recently also he used guardian and zimedari and she used deal he never corrected her it is not fir him so these word always hurt Sai deep and it uses again and again she don't want to see beyond that now if she think beyond these word she would hurt herself that is what she thinks because in past it happens. Anyway it is journey to realise his feelings Sai just started it. Virat started long back. Past action words impact us more on sai than Virat because virat said and done those things so let virat suffer little bit. He has done lots of damage he should know what impact he has done by his words and actions on Sai he never thinks about it except that day he said I should not say things on wedding day but after that lots of things is said and shows sai that how pakhi is more important to him so let him undo it. It would be interesting to see this journey to sai reject him to acknowledge him

I agree from Sai's perspective, she knows Virat is honest towards this relationship, will keep a distance from Pakhi because she feels bad about it, the way she asked him just after he stops her from leaving. From Sai's perspective he is also someone who would go out of his way to make people happy, people in his family..And he considers her his family. She sees everything as care , concern and Virat being a good man here. She does not see it as love.. the love that a man and woman shared.. Remember while taking the 7 vachans he was talking about his vaada and his life long commitment to someone else, the moment he sees that commitment..Whether we want to hold it important or not, it remains, it remains forever...

She knows Virat will not get involved with Pakhi , but will love her , whether she/Samrat are in picture or not. She had forgotten it all after the hospital episode, but that conversation was rude awakening for her. And hence she has yet again convinced herself that this is never going to be permanent. When that happened, we did discuss that this time the wall is going to be of steel around her heart.... She wants to appear unaffected, because she thinks she will led go off her pride when she comes out as needy for the love of the man, who is anway going to reject it. Long back I mentioned, the vaada has stuck on her more than Virat.. Sai took them as eternal lovers... and some instances after her marriage, made her belief strong and stronger. She needs to be told in clear words, as clearly the words during their marriage about not keeping hopes on the marriage. Only that, she will be able to register.

There’s so much happening in ghum, kudos to you for trying to put it in words. I agree with you, the episode was heartbreaking but very well executed. This is the dilemma which is keeping us hooked, much as I would love for them to say their true feelings to each other, the problem in a daily soap is what happens after that.

So far, apart from the night after Devkit wedding, Virat hasn’t been unreasonable. Let’s hope they keep him the same through the upcoming track and don’t drag it too much with the family drama. Sairat scenes are the best even when accompanied by a peeping Pakhi.

Sai needs a friend like Sunny who can help her understand her emotions. I was as heartbroken for Virat today as I was for Sai when she broke the glass and cleaned it up at Harini’s birthday. They both experience the same emotions and break our hearts with them 😭

Sai today seemed almost harsh. And her bringing in Pakhi shows how much what Pakhi says affects her. Sai knows Virat is fond of her. But she believes he is resigned to his fate.

But all these people forget Samrat. Sai too? Does she think Samrat will not come back..? What does she expect is going to happen with her out of the picture?? She's not thinking straight.

One thing though, she does come across as extremely lonely today. She can't discuss this with anyone. She not that close to anyone except Virat.

I wish we would get some more monologues from her. Virat's heart was broken....and her trying to be cheerful didn't seem convincing either.

Originally posted by: fj08

There’s so much happening in ghum, kudos to you for trying to put it in words. I agree with you, the episode was heartbreaking but very well executed. This is the dilemma which is keeping us hooked, much as I would love for them to say their true feelings to each other, the problem in a daily soap is what happens after that.

So far, apart from the night after Devkit wedding, Virat hasn’t been unreasonable. Let’s hope they keep him the same through the upcoming track and don’t drag it too much with the family drama. Sairat scenes are the best even when accompanied by a peeping Pakhi.

Sai needs a friend like Sunny who can help her understand her emotions. I was as heartbroken for Virat today as I was for Sai when she broke the glass and cleaned it up at Harini’s birthday. They both experience the same emotions and break our hearts with them 😭

I would argue that Virat has acted unreasonably at multiple points, but I have always understood where he is coming from. Virat is an emotionally impulsive man who feels with his whole heart, so his reactions are a natural result of that. What I am more worried about is the family drama you have mentioned...and the family member I am scared about is Pakhi. They simply cannot show Virat getting instigated by Pakhi. That is my one and only request to the makers at this point. Virat has made it crystal clear that he knows how much Pakhi hates Sai better than anyone in the house. We have seen that he is completely over and sees right through her antics.

Originally posted by: scarlett22

Sai today seemed almost harsh. And her bringing in Pakhi shows how much what Pakhi says affects her. Sai knows Virat is fond of her. But she believes he is resigned to his fate.

But all these people forget Samrat. Sai too? Does she think Samrat will not come back..? What does she expect is going to happen with her out of the picture?? She's not thinking straight.

One thing though, she does come across as extremely lonely today. She can't discuss this with anyone. She not that close to anyone except Virat.

I wish we would get some more monologues from her. Virat's heart was broken....and her trying to be cheerful didn't seem convincing either.

I do think in her heart, Sai thinks that Virat is never going to stop loving Pakhi..Samrat or no Samrat..So she thinks if at all he gets something for someone out of love..in a hypothetical situation it would be for Pakhi always...

Sai today came across as insensitive, specially when she talked about not taking the ring as his wife. I also attribute it to Neil's acting ...he actually was really good with the whole insecurity part and also the part where she almost rejected him as a husband .. You see he is so good with various aspects of jealousy...There is the funny one, the cute one and today the sad almost a lost case one..

Sai sometimes , its difficult to understand her.. She might come across as giving mixed signals to Virat when one day she calls him her husband infront of the whole world and then retracts , as if they have always been ajnabees.. Sai clearly knows he does not like to talk about her leaving, she could be a bit sensitive there. I feel Sai after the whole confrontation of Pakhi and Virat have convinced herself that there is no place for her in Virat's live..He would love her like her...but not a woman.. She herself said, it was all a dream and she came out of it finally.

Also I believe she has not realised she loves Virat and hence runs away from the probability of him loving her.. Virat needs to stop making efforts for a while, for her to realise his importance. Again I believe its also her pride which comes in, when she discards any possibility of them being together.. She thinks she is sure to get rejected and she does not want to come across needy in wanting love from the one who has vowed his love to someone else..She does not want that vulnerability to come out in open, not even to herself. She is not ready to face it herself. The fact that she has no one, literally no one who could explain her otherwise, is something that adds to the whole denial .

Yup. She heard the conversation when Pakhi was screaming that they wanted to get married to each other. After that, there were 2 confrontations...one when she was questioned about Virat sleeping outside, second, the saree. It was after these situations that she started to become cool towards Virat.

But today it was not at all Virat's fault. Of course his question about Ajinkya was silly but I'll take it as a precursor of worse things to come. Otherwise today he definitely did not deserve her flippant behaviour even if love is taken out of the whole confusing equation.