All over the place! - Page 3

what I didn't like a little more in today's episode was when virat says however much I let you down you won't remove the ring to sai, and sai says that you always do! To be honest sai never includes him in her plans in the first place and treats him like an outsider, even in Devi's case or buying Ninad a gift in the upcoming episode.. so when virat gets upset about it and reacts sai has a problem, I just find it being a little unfair to virat.

Originally posted by: Nja91

Today's episode was all over the place in terms of dialogues for both Sai and Virat, but mainly Sai, except for a few parts

So virats jealousy- ok understood

Virat asking why you didn't hug and why you touched feet and Sai saying- I did in excitement- but you didnt hug me back- umm...ye kab hua?! We got only one hug with BD where both hugged each other. Did editors cut this hug?! 😡

Sai teasing him about being buzurg- understood.

But after that the episode is all over the place. I understand both their confusions and hesitancy but out loud both of them are contradicting their own statements.

Sai's sui is stuck on leaving. She is now clearly seeing virat behaving like a husband and having expectations of one. I'd understand if she doesn't feel ready to be in a marriage with him because she is still really young, and coming to terms with the fact that he had a past and she isnt his first choice, but that should reflect in her words too. So I wish she had got dislogues to exhibit what her problem truly is. and if she is not in a position to truly feel husband-wifey with virat then she should neither accept the ruby pendant nor the diamond ring. Because unlike other things like balloons, cakes n candy floss and decoration, these are very extravagant gifts that only someone like a husband gifts to a wife. So even if intention is birthday, the gift cannot be accepted. And it doesn't make sense to that Virat cant come clean in clear words. Pasand karne laga hoon, thoda pasand- but not the words pyaar. But he has come very far. He said that Sai is very special and important.

But the issue is that Viray needs to first tell Sai marriage is NOT a deal before love confession. Because at this point Sai is guarding herself from accepting him as a lover n husband because she doubts the sincerity of it. She doesn't foubt his righteousness n sincerity as a person, police officer- but as a "husband/lover" she doesn't trust him. Thats the problem. Because she will always feel like pp was his first choice....i wish Sai got dialogues to demonstrate her insecurity....

So with Virat's words, Sai is not sure if she should feel that he is affectionate or that he loves her. And if he loves her, is that genuine, is that forever or is it just affection/habituation mistaken for love.... But for virat- even if its Sai's refusal thats the problem, is it worth all the confusion/regret and heartache of not confessing his own feelings in clear words. Although if he had confessed, I'm not sure Sai would accept it right now but it'd force her to reply one way or another. And if she rejected his proposal she would be kinda forced to explain why and in the process maybe she'd let slip her insecurities more clearly...

Sai was getting visibly upset at virat suggesting something between her n ajinkya- but then she was saying she cant take gift, but still let him pehnao the ring anyway, saying she will leave but she cant hear him talk about dying, it breaks her. She talks about wanting to be in touch with him even if she leaves CN, but in her mind voice- she is asking herself why she said out loud what she did- it all shows the utter confusion in the inner workings of Sai's mind. The war between her mind and heart in a sense. I guess a 19 yo teenager is going to be all over the place but i don't know how much of the confusion of a young girl like Sai which came through in this episode is deliberate and how much its a product of dialogue writing being problematic with original dialogues and KD dialogues not syncing together....

It was notable that virat finally said at least one thing clearly- i dont believe in looking at my past. But is him saying that enough for Sai to believe it? Because after saying this, he cannot be shown getting instigated and manipulated by pp....if he is then Sai will never believe him saying pp is his past.

But Today Sai was an utter mess unlike her usually more rational self. Her emotions are all over the place. She contradicted her own words and actions several times in the same scene and Virat also didnt ask for clarifications in those moments. Rather He seems to have decided that whatever he can get from her, he will take and be satisfied.... He seems content that love confession nahi hua toh bhi atleast she liked the ring, agreed to wear it and he makes her promise that no matter what happens she wont take it off. And that if she gave him the ring back, it'd be the end of their relationship. And Sai very confidently says that their relationship wont end so easily which makes him smile.

I'm really hoping that after introducing this insecurity track in a way that is slightly different from KD , they dont ruin it by lifting KD scenes.

Bappa, bass please suicide track na ho! 🙏

P.S. my fav line today was Shivani telling bk- aapke khud ke toh koi dost nahi. Lol. Savage AF!

I loved the episode even though it was heart-wrenching. More than Sai I felt very bad for Virat. This man is going out of his way to make his wife special but still nothing is going in her head. What I loved is Virat was able to tell her that she's very special to him and he's not someone who dwells in the past. And, Sai although said she wouldn't accept the ring if it's meant as a husband gifting the wife but was ready when he made her wear it. And, then Virat asked her never to remove it however much they fight or disappoints her. When Virat says even if he's no longer alive and before he could say anything further she stops him by keeping her finger. And, once again Sai starts her rant about leaving and this makes Virat angry. He does convey very clearly that he would never meet her because he doesn't believe in dwelling in the past. Right now Virat is content that she accepted the ring, agreed to wear it and even promised not to remove it even in most grave situation. And, he'll do anything for her to make her feel that this marriage is not a deal anymore. I just hope the makers deviate from KD track or if they don't then this track should make SaiRat bond stronger and not weak.

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

He can get hurt with that comment. No one saying it is wrong. But does that comment gives him right to say sai-ajinkya has a thing? Virat too used to call her bachi many times. Anyways no insecurity can justify him tarnishing his wife dignity. The wife whom he claims to love & respect. Today he did it by his comments on sai-ajinkya friendship & by his response to kaku.

My post is about Sai repeating the Buzurg thing yet again. I want her to learn where to stop otherwise the fun she is intending will lead to complexes galore.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

I did not support his comment. It is wrong on his part to tarnish his wife’s dignity.

My post is about Sai repeating the Buzurg thing yet again. I want her to learn where to stop otherwise the fun she is intending will lead to complexes galore.

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Firstly she doesn't intent to call him that. When he said does he look like buzurg she teased him saying yes just like how she tells he is not handsome in a funny way. For her such talks are part of their nok jok. She don't know now virat gets offended with it when the same man used to take it sportively. Emotions changed for virat but not for sai. And I too wish they don't repeat this buzurg dialogue again.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Sometimes jokes also fall flat depending upon moods. Yes. Sai didn’t mean to hurt him but still this age related issue may blow up and cause harm. That is why she should desist from such banter .

I have also previously mentioned, the whole age and buddha thing is going to trigger his jealousy. Sai is being insensitive there.. Sai's habit of not letting him complete was bothering me today. ANd Virat's question on touching feet was also irrelevant because he was so ecstatic when she touched his feet..

Also agree Virat has not control on his words when he is upset/angry...like today he just because she celebrated few moments with her friends, which all members who are open minded in his family were find with, he told BK that he doesnt know what is between them and if she would want to be Ajinkya's wife, if there is more between them.. That was crass...And this is just the start..

The whole ring thing bothered me like crazy..Is she going to give him back now or later , not sure..And the rings is so atrocious looking that they did not even pan the camera on it...Sai cannot keep wearing that ring..

Neil's portrayal when he was feeling bad about her words on the ring was so so heart touching.. You could feel the pain, one gets, the pain that you feel in the chest because of keeping it in for a long long time..He was really good today. Barring the few dialogues, I really liked the episode today..

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I have also previously mentioned, the whole age and buddha thing is going to trigger his jealousy. Sai is being insensitive there.. Sai's habit of not letting him complete was bothering me today. ANd Virat's question on touching feet was also irrelevant because he was so ecstatic when she touched his feet..

Also agree Virat has not control on his words when he is upset/angry...like today he just because she celebrated few moments with her friends, which all members who are open minded in his family were find with, he told BK that he doesnt know what is between them and if she would want to be Ajinkya's wife, if there is more between them.. That was crass...And this is just the start..

The whole ring thing bothered me like crazy..Is she going to give him back now or later , not sure..And the rings is so atrocious looking that they did not even pan the camera on it...Sai cannot keep wearing that ring..

Neil's portrayal when he was feeling bad about her words on the ring was so so heart touching.. You could feel the pain, one gets, the pain that you feel in the chest because of keeping it in for a long long time..He was really good today. Barring the few dialogues, I really liked the episode today..

Sai readily wore pendant then why not the ring?

Bold. Neil’s performance tugged the heart strings. His pain stayed with me and continue to melt me further.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Yes. The dialogues are written poorly but episode is good since both of them are yet to understand and trust each other .

Sai readily wore pendant then why not the ring?

Bold. Neil’s performance tugged the heart strings. His pain stayed with me and continue to melt me further.

Ring kind of becomes special..Sai always plays that reverse psychology there..when she mentioned are you doing it as my husband..is it related to expressing as a husband or just a gift.. pendant seemed like a gift she took it..ring kind of looks like a special thing for every woman.