Unsaid, unspoken feelings

Many of us are saying, Bondita concluded Anirudh loves her by the word Par... But did she concluded or she understood of unspoken words, feelings, lonliness of Anirudh ???????

He mentions his feelings in his letters. He says I need you, I feel lonely without you, it has become imp to keep this enmity even when I don’t want to, I have everyone here, but still I miss you, you have become a barrister today, I couldn’t come to see you, else I would have not been able to control my emotions, we can never unite, we will never meet again but…. He says we have to stay away from each other, but….. He says I know I have to end this relation and erase your name from my life, but…. the entire village will be against us, we have to change everything between us, one thing that won’t change will be our enmity, I will not meet you, I will not even see you, I will not say a word to barrister Babu, but…..

Have u ever come across someone in your life, Who is living false life like ghut ghut ke jeena. I don't knw abt u but i m a observer, i observe a lot, and i saw many people, who are living like this. Some are in a relationship where they r not happy but becoz of society pressure they have to live like this, some people who r confused abt their sexuality or i say afraid to except who really they r, they r so afraid that they never accept this thing to themselves even in private. Just like Ved in tamasha. Tamasha is one of my favt movie and Tara played by deepika Padukone is my favt character. Ved is so afraid to accept his real personality, he even broke up with tara when she pointed out that ved "Yeh tum nhi ho".

Anirudh bhi kuch aise hi zindagi jee raha h, and Bondita is Tara of his life. Usne kuch conclude nhi kiya h, woh Anirudh ke unkahe feelings, akelapan samjh gai h, woh yeh samjh gai h ki Anirudh ko uski zaroorat hai. Jab 8 saal pahle Bondita ko uski zarrorat thi to Anirudh ne sab kuch chod ke uski zarrorate pure ki, jo log bol rahe h Bondita mein self respect nhi h woh sirf pyaar pyaar kar rhi h, same cheez Anirudh ne bhi ki thi, Roopa ban ke being a barrister, being a zamindar woh TM ke ghar ka naukar ban gaya tha just because of Bondita. Leap ke baad log Bondita ko social work karte hue dekhna chahte h. Par charity begins from home, abhi uske khud ke gahr mein sab uljha hua h, sab nafrat ki aag mein jal rahe h, jisse woh akele nhi bhooja sakti, she need Anirudh help aur uske liye ,she has to bring out old Anirudh.

Now come to Anirudh, yes he needs Bondita, uski ab tak ki life sirf Bondita ke around hi rhi h, now he is used to it, but hum logon ki tarah shayad Anirudh ko bhi apne yeh feeling Bondita ke liye galat lag rhi h, isliy woh letter mein bhi pura nhi kar paya ki par..... Par Bondita apne barristera babu ko ache se samjhti h woh unki zindagi ki Tara h jo apne asli sakha babu ko wapas la ke rahe gi, agar ek baar Anirudh apne mann ki feelings accept kar lega, khud ko accept kar lega then only he can start living again.

Jab hum khud ko samjh lete h tab koi aur humare bare mein kya sochta h fark nhi padta.....

Please share ur views, if i m wrong then pls correct me.

Peace ✌️

Very nicely said. I agree with you!

Anirudh knew he needed Bondita to fulfill his dreams of bringing change to society. He couldn't do it alone.

Bondita also knows she needs Anirudh. She can't do it alone.

Together, they can be stronger, than if they are alone.

Not to forget that Anirudh is so depressed, and basically suicidal (who else will say I will shoot myself if you come in front of me?)... it seems he is only living because he can't bring more pain to his family. Otherwise, the guy would have just killed himself the way he is behaving now. See his expressions carefully. How he panics and clutches his heart. It isn't just normal sadness. He is heavily depressed and has lost every will to live, and this pains me to say. 😭

Bondita, as even the best friend she is, won't she go there, care for him, bring his old self back and give him the support he needs?

She hasn't forgotten THEIR dream. Remember, it was never her dream. He inspired her to have this dream. He is her Guru, her inspiration, her God, her everything.

And she knows him best. He was raw and real with her when she was just 12. She knew him like a best friend... they were partners in every aspect. So won't she know the hidden meaning of his 'par'? She isn't delusional. Anirudh needs her, he needs his best friend, and Bondita can go to any extent for him, just like pre-leap he did EVERYTHING for her. He went to every extent for her.

Now when he needs her, how can she not give her 100% for him?

RuDi relationship can't be described by just few words like pyaar, self respect, marriage.. It's beyond that.. One is part of another's soul..

Bondu ka Ani ke piche bhagna bilkul galat nehi hain.. A man who has given her wings, sky to fly, a strong ground to stand, the man who has given her life, how can she foget him!!?? She could forget herself but not him.. Similarly Ani is now forgot his true self, but not her.. He's lying to her, to everyone, even to himself.. Iss dushmani ne uske andar ke sari ujala mita diya hain.. Jab bondu ko society ke evilness ne gher liya tha, tab Aniruddh ujala ban ke aya.. Ab Bondu ki baari hain..❤️

Yes than you for understanding, People r bashing Bondita's character even in IF too, like yeh kya h pyaar pyaar, Bondita is a girl jo uske mann h woh uske zuban par, usse Anirudh se pyaar h aur yeh baat bolne mein usse koi sharam nhi. Abhi woh sirf Anirudh aur apne rishtey par focus kar rhi h, because they have to be together, woh dono akele kuch nhi kar sakte. Aur agar usse lagta h Anirudh has feelings for her and she wanted him to confess that to it's not wrong, it's her right to knw that.