Who is right and who wrong?

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Saw some tweets, some posts regarding sona, soha, dev, ishwari, and judgements. Here's what I feel about them

Sona- Won't deny that she's in one way ignoring her ayush, but there are reasons for that. She knows how ishwari is, even dev knows, but he is her son, and attached to her, so he ignores that, natural h, sona knows ishwari is over possessive, and obsessed with a male heir, she is concerned about soha, and her being neglected by ishwari specially, and its not wrong, a reason why she's centering her attention towards soha, and unknowingly ignoring ayush, moreover sona is much more attached to soha than anyone else, she was with her in the 7 most difficult years of her life, she was her reason for living in a way

Dev- He showers love towards his son ayush because he trusts that nothing will change, he trusts everything will remain as sunshine and flowers as now, his daughter, and both sons living with him happily, and without any complications, in one way because of his attachment towards his mother, subconsciously he ignores his mother's shortcomings

Suhana- Saw some tweets mentioning soha as a brat, nd sorry was not really comfortable with it, she's just a child, not to blame for anything like this, its all the upbringing and the difference in the upbringing she was provided. While with sona, she was quite mature, actually way too mature for her tender age of 7, she lived with a single mother, saw her struggles and maybe adapted to them, here in dixit house, she was pampered more, by ishwari specially, being a mother isn't really about pampering, you have to be balanced, sona was that, but here she was pampered thus affecting her upbringing.

The solution? I have an instinct that ishwari and her issues will be a reason for differences between devakshi again, as the promo indicates, sona complaining about dev not being able to understand her unspoken words, I guess its only communication, the key to problem solving, both of them need to sit with each other, vent out their insecurities to the other, understand each other's pov, and its then they can find the best solution to their problems

You have penned down so beautifully ❤️

I love how the basic nature of the characters haven't changed through three seasons. Bcoz that is how humans are...we evolve and learn through time and experiences...but some basic nature remains the same.

Dev is an extremely loving and caring man. He always has been. He wears his heart on his sleeves. Like he loved his mom and Sona both in season 1 he loves both Ayush and Soha. And like the optimist he is he hopes things will get better with time. He often doesn't notice the subtle changes around him like his mother shaking off Soha's arm to go to Ayush. He doesn't see Soha starting to get insecure the way Sona notices. He is still impulsive. He could have given it some time before bringing Ayush home. Ayush might have been able to grieve better around his grandparents who he knew all his life. Sona could have got through to him gently. But Dev at the moment just wants to support Ayush through his tough time. His heart is in the right place as always. But last time it had cost him Sona and his marriage. Hope he doesn't end up losing Sona and Soha.

Ishwari is one character we have all loved to hate at some point. She is not the overdressed loud vamp plotting against her DIL yet she becomes the villain in the story. Her character has mellowed through the previous seasons, she has realised she cannot be her son's world. He needs Sona and his children to be happy and she has accepted it. She loves them all. But she too has never changed her basic nature - loving her son and everything connected to him a little too much for their own good. She has accepted that Sona is very different from her as a mother or wide but she still doesn't understand her. Remember the moment she met Soha. She loved her Dev's daughter and wanted her home immediately. She couldn't bear to be away from her. She would win over Soha with her love but she never thought how overwhelming it could be for the girl. Thankfully Dev stepped in and they gave Soha her space. Now after Knowing about Ayush she is doing the same. But the situation is more complex. Ayush is already going through a lot. The last thing he needs right now is more and more relations he didn't know about. Her excessive love for the boy is overwhelming for him and perhaps driving Sona away from him. Not to mention how this will affect Soha. Her favourite person...her daadi...caring for someone more than her is not gonna go down well with her. Ishwari knew how Neha felt about her love for Dev and that will be repeated if this goes on unchecked. Ayush just needs someone to be there for him like Dev is right now.

Sona is my favourite character. She is a strong clearheaded and intelligent woman. She is observant. Unlike Dev she has always been able to see the subtle changes in people. Like Ishwati's reluctance to share her son. She takes her time to assess and accept things. Even through her vulnerable moments she has always tried to keep everyone happy. Unlike Dev she gives things time. She loves her daughter a lot. The girl was her reason to live through the toughest times of her life and it doesn't matter to her whether she is her biological mother or not. She is yet to feel that bond towards Ayush as she is still processing it. She needs her time to sort out her feelings and decide how to go forward with minimal damage to both the children. Unlike ishwari she cannot transfer her love and attention to Ayush in a day. I love how she is trying to keep everything together.

Loved your analysis.

Nice thread!

Communication does seem to be the key. It is way too soon now. It is unreal for Ishwari to be so blind to the conflict Ayush is facing. He has just lost his father, has grandparents who according to him don't want him anymore, some person shows up to claim to be his new father. So much to process even for an adult. Ishwari seems to have left all her empathy behind. Next, she will sulk if he doesn't eat halwa as proof of his lineage.

Hello 😊 Welcome to the forum 🤗

Loved your analysis but my suggestion would be don't get bothered by tweets. Try to tweet what you are feeling but don't get bothered by what others are saying. Dealing with Twitter fandom is a tough task 😆

Originally posted by: Brule

Nice thread!

Communication does seem to be the key. It is way too soon now. It is unreal for Ishwari to be so blind to the conflict Ayush is facing. He has just lost his father, has grandparents who according to him don't want him anymore, some person shows up to claim to be his new father. So much to process even for an adult. Ishwari seems to have left all her empathy behind. Next, she will sulk if he doesn't eat halwa as proof of his lineage.

Ishwari is blind to all these because in her la la land these things don't exist. The moment she heard Ayush is her pota.... toh bas he is her pota & Dev's son. Rohit & his family don't even exist for her. She doesn't understand emotion much, unless its her own. Since Ayush is her pota the possibility that Ayush might be missing Rohit or his family is unreal to her. If you ask her, she'll probably reply with something like....arey Rohit ko kyun miss karega? Mera Dev hai uska baap!

That's how relations & emotions work in her world.

I still remember some of her golden dialogues when Dev was trying to win over Suhana --

Dixit hai woh. Main use Suhana Bose se Suhana Dixit banaungi.

Dev apni beti se milna chahta hai. Isme Sonakshi kahan se aa gayi?

etc etc etc .....😂😂😂