Shiva Raavi - Alternate Universe DT #4 - Page 90

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

So forgetting whatever I said few days ago and now that I've missed on this ship, I am becoming greedy. Haha now I want similar dose of AU ShiVi today as well. Haha😂

We have become both greedy and addicted 😆

Originally posted by: anshika5103

We should 😂😂 I don't want them to announce yaar .. wrna shuru hone se pehle apni dukaan band ho jayegi

Do u think KD rok payega apne app ko announce na krne se !! Banda already dropping hints and upr se Itna overexcited Banda hai ki i doubt he would be able to stop himself from announcing!!🤣🤪

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

We have become both greedy and addicted 😆

Hum toh thhe hi Tum bhi banjao lalchi !! 🤣

Originally posted by: Swastika34

Do u think KD rok payega apne app ko announce na krne se !! Banda already dropping hints and upr se Itna overexcited Banda hai ki i doubt he would be able to stop himself from announcing!!🤣🤪

KD toh overexcited hai hi, but for me it is Alice who has been dropping the real solid hints, not him 😆

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

KD toh overexcited hai hi, but for me it is Alice who has been dropping the real solid hints, not him 😆

Sangat ka asar !! 🤣

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

I'm not married not am I in a relationship, but a few of my friends who've attended arranged marriage set ups or are currently in a relationship have told me the following advice:

1. Though you are nervous, remember to be yourself and to trust your instinct. If someone says something that doesn't sit well with you, trust your gut. Don't fake your personality to please that person.

Example) My friend, who was 23/24 at the time, messaged someone (as this was during the height of the pandemic) who treated her like a child (he was 31). She initially tried to make herself sound more mature, but she slowly started to hate speaking to him.

2. Ask questions you might normally ask when you get to know a friend. These questions can be:

—What is your favorite food?

—What are your hobbies?

—What is your job/school life like?

—Do you like to travel?

Or you could ask more personal questions relevant to them if you know anything at all (i.e., if they love cricket, you could ask when they started playing, if they love Chinese food, you could ask what dish they specifically like)

They might seem awkward to ask at first, but once they respond, you can lead the conversation in a comfortable way.

Example) Same friend from before, met her current boyfriend via the following online conversation (based on what she told me)

Her: So, I heard you like sweatshirts?

Him: Yes, I love sweatshirts!

Her: What will it take for me to get a sweatshirt?

Him: Well, first you'll have to marry me 😉

Her: Woah, buddy, before marriage, don't you think we need to know each other a little more?

Him: Haha, yes. If that's the case, my name is ____

My friend's closet is now filled with multiple sweatshirts (too many to count) 🤣. And now the rest of her family are building up a sweatshirt collection too.

Just remember the best of conversations happen when the other person is willing to make the effort as well. So, if they don't respond as enthusiastically, know that it is fine. You both probably wouldn't have connected anyway, and now you've saved yourself your valuable time.

3. Though this is somewhat strange, practice really makes perfect. The more you talk to others, the more comfortable you become. Questions that used to sound awkward begin to sound normal.

4. Always know that your happiness comes first. If you don't feel happy, feel free to end the conversation.

That's the advice that I can offer you. Sorry, if this is not what you are looking for. Ask me in another 5 years and I should be married by then 🤣

Thank youuu thisss is reallyy helpfull. The age difference is the same here too. I’ve only talked to him once over the phone and over texts. Both of us are shy, and i find it incredibly hard to make any convo w him at all. This entire process gives me so much anxiety

Originally posted by: anshika5103

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Alice is having sheesha too it seems 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 KD ka asar 😭😭😭😭😭

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

Everyone is a silent reader here.. this place and KDice are too addictive 😆

So toh hai

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🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Sparklesparkle

Thank youuu thisss is reallyy helpfull. The age difference is the same here too. I’ve only talked to him once over the phone and over texts. Both of us are shy, and i find it incredibly hard to make any convo w him at all. This entire process gives me so much anxiety

All the very best! I hope everything works out well for you 🤗