Shiva Raavi - Alternate Universe DT #4 - Page 84

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

@bold, lol, the pankhas will continue to give us entertainment in other ways 🤣. In the future it will be "marry karlo" "have a baby" "name the baby after me, you're biggest fan please 😭!"

Lol they already do the former😂😂😂. Inka bas chalta toh Kal Shiny ke mandap pe hi unki Shaadi Kara dete😂😂

Originally posted by: Sparklesparkle

HeyyCan u guys help me out here? Those of you that are married and are in relationships espWhat qs should we ask in an arranged marriage set up? Esp when its in its initial stages and youre getting to know the personI completely blank out each time, its so embarrassing

I'm not married not am I in a relationship, but a few of my friends who've attended arranged marriage set ups or are currently in a relationship have told me the following advice:

1. Though you are nervous, remember to be yourself and to trust your instinct. If someone says something that doesn't sit well with you, trust your gut. Don't fake your personality to please that person.

Example) My friend, who was 23/24 at the time, messaged someone (as this was during the height of the pandemic) who treated her like a child (he was 31). She initially tried to make herself sound more mature, but she slowly started to hate speaking to him.

2. Ask questions you might normally ask when you get to know a friend. These questions can be:

—What is your favorite food?

—What are your hobbies?

—What is your job/school life like?

—Do you like to travel?

Or you could ask more personal questions relevant to them if you know anything at all (i.e., if they love cricket, you could ask when they started playing, if they love Chinese food, you could ask what dish they specifically like)

They might seem awkward to ask at first, but once they respond, you can lead the conversation in a comfortable way.

Example) Same friend from before, met her current boyfriend via the following online conversation (based on what she told me)

Her: So, I heard you like sweatshirts?

Him: Yes, I love sweatshirts!

Her: What will it take for me to get a sweatshirt?

Him: Well, first you'll have to marry me 😉

Her: Woah, buddy, before marriage, don't you think we need to know each other a little more?

Him: Haha, yes. If that's the case, my name is ____

My friend's closet is now filled with multiple sweatshirts (too many to count) 🤣. And now the rest of her family are building up a sweatshirt collection too.

Just remember the best of conversations happen when the other person is willing to make the effort as well. So, if they don't respond as enthusiastically, know that it is fine. You both probably wouldn't have connected anyway, and now you've saved yourself your valuable time.

3. Though this is somewhat strange, practice really makes perfect. The more you talk to others, the more comfortable you become. Questions that used to sound awkward begin to sound normal.

4. Always know that your happiness comes first. If you don't feel happy, feel free to end the conversation.

That's the advice that I can offer you. Sorry, if this is not what you are looking for. Ask me in another 5 years and I should be married by then 🤣

Originally posted by: raindropsroses

🤣🤣 Plastic KD? Noooo, You’ll get me beaten up 🤣

At least they get some form of shiva, they should be happy 🤣🤣 you can’t be picky in this situation 🤣

Originally posted by: MeeraWrites

This is ❤️.

The song made it more beautiful.

P.S - For a moment I thought this would be Anita's reel. 🤣

Hahaha me tooo, was so scared to click on the linkt! But then I thought nooo Swastii isn’t like that 🤣🤣

Yeh mein kaha se shuru karoon🤣

I feel I like am doomed🤪

Originally posted by: ItsmePriya

Yeh mein kaha se shuru karoon🤣

I feel I like am doomed🤪

Good morning Pri🤣 🤗kahi se bhi chalu kar end me conclusion ye hai ki apni ship strongly sail ho rahi hai🤣 AK, KD ke friends ke saath time spend kar rahi hai uske ghar pe

Originally posted by: Nups_mish

Good morning Pri🤣 🤗kahi se bhi chalu kar end me conclusion ye hai ki apni ship strongly sail ho rahi hai🤣 AK, KD ke friends ke saath time spend kar rahi hai uske ghar pe

Arey wah gar chale gaye dono

Chalo I will start HW after I complete my experience write up😆

Originally posted by: Nups_mish

Here you go:

Shaili : God bless you both love @alicekaushikofficial and @Kanwardhillon_

Alice : love you baby girl ♥️♥️

Siddhantika ; My ♥️ with her ♥️

Shaili : 💯 💯 💯 Meri Jaan. She is reserved for US😬

Siddhantika : Same goes for you ♥️♥️♥️ #Mine

Shaili : Forever ♾ 😘♥️

Haha ye tha pura conversation!! I am soooo happy for KDice!!!🥳

Are these comments for the wedding pic??

Wowwww am dancing happily here🥳

Originally posted by: ItsmePriya

Are these comments for the wedding pic??

Wowwww am dancing happily here🥳

Yes yes Pri!! Wedding pic ke comments hai ❤️ plus AK ki aur ek friend Malvika ne Kanwar ki latest post pe comment kiya hai “Putting kaala teeka” 😋♥️ And Alice replied with heart emojis! Mai level 1 stalker ban gayi hu😎

Originally posted by: Nups_mish

Yes yes Pri!! Wedding pics ke comments hai ❤️

I am not able to find it...I guess I need to follow her friends's account to see the comments😆

But thanks to you Nups....tune poora conversation yaha paste kardi....Friends have been commenting a lot since yesterday...Am so so so happy for KD and Alice