Talking to your kids about sex. - Page 2

Originally posted by: Mahisa_22

Not necessarily. Infatuation is a very, very natural thing. People should be free to explore their feelings. What's wrong with puppy love? Not every love needs to end in marriage.

https://amodrn.com/why-infatuation-is-a-dangerous-drug-and-how-to-differentiate-it-from-love/

In simple words, it is an illusion, treat yourself, love yourself and respect yourself enough to realize you deserve something real and not just an illusion.

My daughter is almost 4 and I explained good touch, Bad touch to her when she was around 3.

Now she has lot of questions about night, day and planets. Also babies.
S: where does Babies come from?

M: Bhagvan ke Ghar se. (Come on, you gotta do what your parents did to you. It’s fun. 😆)

S: where is Bhagvan ka Ghar?
M: nobody knows.
S: Mumaaaa. You are silly.

Yes we have had such conversations.

Jokes apart, She is young now but based on her explorations, I plan to explain her about consent and intimacy and sex. Mumma will know the right time. 😃

Originally posted by: Lalakhun1

https://amodrn.com/why-infatuation-is-a-dangerous-drug-and-how-to-differentiate-it-from-love/

In simple words, it is an illusion, treat yourself, love yourself and respect yourself enough to realize you deserve something real and not just an illusion.

I don't need that link. 😆Everyone knows that infatuation is not love. But people sometimes date simply out of mutual attraction and infatuation. It happens with adults too. Nothing wrong in it.

Originally posted by: Mahisa_22

I don't need that link. 😆Everyone knows that infatuation is not love. But people sometimes date simply out of mutual attraction and infatuation. It happens with adults too. Nothing wrong in it.

there is nothing wrong in going on date at Mcd too girl, but there is a difference between the girl whom the guys treat at an expansive restaurant vs Mcd and there is huge difference between the girl who think she deserve Mcd vs expansive restaurant. 😆

When my kid is of age I’ll show him this thread 😆

Originally posted by: Lalakhun1

there is nothing wrong in going on date at Mcd too girl, but there is a difference between the girl whom the guys treat at an expansive restaurant vs Mcd and there is huge difference between the girl who think she deserve Mcd vs expansive restaurant. 😆

So let the girl decide what she wants. At teenage, people are immature. With time, they become more mature and have more serious relationships. But that doesn't mean teenage dating is wrong.

Btw people in mature relationships go to McD as well. 😆Love has nothing to do with 'expensive' gifts.

Originally posted by: Mahisa_22

So let the girl decide what she wants. At teenage, people are immature. With time, they become more mature and have more serious relationships. But that doesn't mean teenage dating is wrong.

Btw people in mature relationships go to McD as well. 😆Love has nothing to do with 'expensive' gifts.

Second this. Sometimes wrong relationships can teach you a lot about life too! Varied experiences help in the growth of a person.

Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

When my kid is of age I’ll show him this thread 😆

Originally posted by: Mahisa_22

So let the girl decide what she wants. At teenage, people are immature. With time, they become more mature and have more serious relationships. But that doesn't mean teenage dating is wrong.

Btw people in mature relationships go to McD as well. 😆Love has nothing to do with 'expensive' gifts.

how are you sure they would heal from an immature relationship ? Maybe he / she would have trust issue and can never trust another ? Then what, oh yea, this person is toxic ? Maybe they became one because of how they were treated in their last relationship and how it ended.

Mature people can go anywhere they want, I wasnt even making that point. It is not about money it is how much they are willing to impress you. It is same thing as serving proper foods vs heating last night food for your date.

Anyway as I have mention, my house my rules.

Today's kids are more advanced than you imagine. They can teach you about sex. P. is available at hand thanks to internet. If you don't give mobile they will arrange a mobile from classmates and search p. and masturbate while watching it.

You should say, dear son, s.ex is very natural thing about life. You know, how you were born. Your parents had s.ex to bring you in the world. You will know more about it once you grow up. Do not watch p. It is not real. It's fantasy. They are actors who earn money by acting.

Give him idea how biology works. How seeds are planted in soil and then it becomes tree. How parents make s.ex to conceive a baby is similar. It's just biology. If we stop doing s.ex at right age our world will cease. We will loss humankind and other animals from the kingdom. So safe s.ex is important but off course at right time with right person.