Rishta nibhane ke liye saath rehna padhta hai - Page 23

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Looks like Adi is hell bent on thundering to the world that Imlie is his wife. Kisi ko sunna ho ya na ho😆

And that is why AKT is what he is! He is released from the captivity of a lie that he was having such a hard time living with. He is not the compromising one. Every step he is taking is being instigated by his own family at this point. AKT loves Imlie and this truth. If someone keeps saying words like chakkar and najayaz and naukrani..repeatedly I expect no less reaction that what AKT is showing right now. It is the tyranny of T's and society that he is fighting, loud and clear! Just so good to watch a hero..oh well being a hero!

Originally posted by: Book-Worm

Thanks Aps for tagging me. Finally read all the reviews today. Busy with work so could not able to reply. But loved all ur analysis. Keep it up guys.

Want to ask one question? Did u guys really find KunMun friendship genuine? For me it looks like forced. I know u guys don't like to talk abt DIDI but makers gave 10 minutes of didi in today's episode so I could not FF n watched the scene fully. Any thoughts??

I don't trust Malini, so honestly I can't say anything on that. It sometimes for me just looks like she is a creeper who found another support to latch on, that's it.

One thing I like about KC is that he is atleast hitting DD with the right questions that we and Adi have been trying to ask her since a long time. But wahaan pe bhi uske saamne kuch aur hai and she will still do the opposite after, so no point to that as well.

Originally posted by: Midnight_moon

No never. Aparna’s path is not right. Can’t predict what she can do.. I never thought they again start reconcile process of Adhini in early morning after table broke wedding.

Exactly..what are they even thinking 🤔 agree they gave problems for Adilie marriage but they just can't force M to him to discard Imlie..he is not a kid for God sake that you are giving him different toy of your preference and distract him!! 😕

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Tu finally aa gayi. I was wondering where you were😆

I still don't get why u still believe that Malini can change. After all this time. Have I not taught you anything😆.

The minute she promised KC I was like yeh to pakka flip karegi, coz I knew that woh blue saree mein aane wali hai in the function. Aur next scene mein I was proved right.

Dev ka toh pata tha aayega, glad he came at this juncture and completely removed any guilt for Imlie for choosing Adi. His aasan raah just spurred her to tell him exactly what she thought if him and his penchant to take the aasaan raah. The years of frustration and anger just came out to cut him to size and make him take his offer and shove it.

Was waiting to hear your opinion on the jr v/s sr courtroom battle and loved that your views match exactly to mine. That is exactly what I thought when I saw that scene. Every logical argument was countered very lamely, because they could not find any logical point for their anger towards Imlie, other than the factors which are not in her control.

Even in today's SBS segment, Aparna says that because of you we have to listen to taunts from the society which we never had to all this time. She said that Imlie must be used to hearing all this her entire life as she is naajayaz. So Aparna's issue is that her son's choice is something she has to defend, which she would never have to had he stuck to Malini. The other T's are also following suit, as they feel betrayed and lashing out at her is the easiest way for them to deal with their hurt.

By the looks of it, Malini is not there in the best bahu competition (thank god for small mercies) but looks like we have her mother there to jeetao Imlie and keep Malini away from the T house.

yaar unki samajh mein kuch aa hi nahi ra hai.. ek taraf pyaar for imlie and current equation is not letting it flow and other side. naam khoon khandaan.. saare log aaj hi inhe judge karenge.. and tripathis are so annoying in saying hum in sab chijo ki adat nahi nahi hai.. toh anu kya taane shakkar mein gholke pilati thi...

they just have to take one step towards imlie and she will no let them regret it but that one step is so difficult cos of Samaaj kya kahega 😵

for best bahu there shud not be cooking competition there should be quiz about ur saas 😆 aur maja aayega 🤣

malini yaar mein kya kahu.. see i believe she is not worthy of hate.. she is a very shallow character through and through but there is a chance for them to make her good.. i am sure people will like strong malini with better life decisions.. lekin iska kuch karna hi nahi hai..

Aparna kept calling her najayaz.. what did didi do? u fodoed the bomb right then make then accept her as ur sister and DCs daughter.. lekin yeh khadi ho gayi pretend karne aditya ki biwi hu.. why??? ow many times a guy has to tell u that o take a hike i dont love u.. i mean i would have taken the hint in first try then why cant she.. whats with obsession? and if u have that then say that.. fight for the love of ur life lekin nahi.. u want people to take those decisions for u.. why on earth would u want to manipulate people like this? i so want her to be a good example of woman supporting woman lekin nahi yeh bas apni bechaargi leke aa jaati hai and then i feel like an idiot for believing her.. 😵

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Aapko lagta hai Adi will allow her in his room, jab he can't stand her in the house😆

Yeah, nahi hone wala. Adi boriya bistar and Imlie saket will go out if Aparna asks Malini to stay back😆

Didi ki aane ki wajah se adi ko panic attack hoega aur ee phir neeche khambe ki tarah girega😆. Same result due to shock of why didi came😆

Originally posted by: MERARAI

A healthy marriage is one where the two complement each other. Malini is a pampered princess who has had what she wanted handed to her. Her parents gave her plenty materially but starved her emotionally in understanding that life is a changing course and you learn to journey together with your spouse. There will be bumps along the way. To her Adi and she selecting the same pair of shoes puts them on the same mental wavelength.

Most men like women who challenge them to grow. Even a Deadbeat Dad like DC stuck it with AC all these years after cheating on her and Meethi. Malini has poor role models for healthy relationships. DC has skeletons in his closet, AC is resentful of DC’s cheating and has not forgiven him after two decades. Instead she lashes out on those who remind her of her hurt and pain.

Meltdown Malini’s reaction to a lack of phone calls from Adi seemed a bit over the top. She dragged the T family into her insecure world and made life right after the wedding all lack of attention and phone calls from Adi. When Adi left town she starved herself and cried a river ever so often, packed her bags and rushed off to her unhealthy environment at Cs house to feed her insecurity and have a nervous breakdown. She behaved like a spoiled brat and complained to her in-laws about Adi ignoring her. They played along as enablers and censured Adi for it.

Wonder if she has ever been told NO to about something significant in life. Easy going life with everything handed to her has make her weak that she can’t cope with the hard knocks of reality.

Malini’s character comes across as a shallow person without the depth of life’s experiences. Adi on the other hand chose to shed light on things that matter in society.

Imli has had nothing but hard knocks but she visualized a better future for herself even as she dealt with the punches life dealt her.

Imli is a far better match for Adi as they both challenge each other to grow. Adi realized as he guarded the lamp in PD that Imli challenged his thinking and logic like never before.

KC is a better guy for Malini because he challenges to snap out of her delusions around Adi. He calls a spade a spade and doesn’t let Malini off the hook with her excuses and half truths.

+100 to everything you said. Malini has always been the perfect princess, so now that Adi has said no to her, it is becoming difficult to accept it. She now realized that no matter how much tantrums she puts, he is not going to be hers and that bothers her a lot, which she then puts on KC as an outlet to let out those feelings, confusing him in the process as well. I feel while he is falling for Malini, she us using KC as a rebound to latch in to him the same way she did for Adi. Again she will become too attached and the same cycle will repeat here as well I think.

Imlie and Aditya challenge each other yet have always given each other the space to grow. For them the other does not always need to be there, saath for them is more mental and emotional than physically being present. Imlie gives Adi a different perspective, while Adi gives Imlie the confidence and wings to fly and reach her goals. That is why they are sajhedars or partners - they actually fill each other's empty space so that they together are a complete whole.

Originally posted by: Book-Worm

Thanks Aps for tagging me. Finally read all the reviews today. Busy with work so could not able to reply. But loved all ur analysis. Keep it up guys.

Want to ask one question? Did u guys really find KunMun friendship genuine? For me it looks like forced. I know u guys don't like to talk abt DIDI but makers gave 10 minutes of didi in today's episode so I could not FF n watched the scene fully. Any thoughts??

malini is using Kunal for her gain an soon AC will start doing the same and this might tick of kunal to leave malini and move away.. this is just what will happen is my guess

but they can change and make then look little bit more relatable that wuld be great!

Originally posted by: Whatever765

And that is why AKT is what he is! He is released from the captivity of a lie that he was having such a hard time living with. He is not the compromising one. Every step he is taking is being instigated by his own family at this point. AKT loves Imlie and this truth. If someone keeps saying words like chakkar and najayaz and naukrani..repeatedly I expect no less reaction that what AKT is showing right now. It is the tyranny of T's and society that he is fighting, loud and clear! Just so good to watch a hero..oh well being a hero!

I know right. Love that this hero is doing rather than preaching. This guy is all action first, think later, which is now working wonders as he does not acre about the consequences as long as Imlie is by his side and he can call her his wife. This is working in this situation, as they mentality he is fighting needs this kind of reaction.

Originally posted by: Panchhi1

Exactly..what are they even thinking 🤔 agree they gave problems for Adilie marriage but they just can't force M to him to discard Imlie..he is not a kid for God sake that you are giving him different toy of your preference and distract him!! 😕

They are still trying to treat him like one when they say he is being led astray. I mean he is old enough to give you kids, stop treating him as one

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Haina. I could really see it today with his each of them were willing to bargain with her to get her to reverse everything back to status quo. See if they really hate her, they would never say that if you leave Adi we will go back to loving you. It would just be that leave him as we cannot accept you, simple. But the fact that they want to go back to the earlier equation with her, but just ignore the elephant in the room says a lot on the amount of turmoil all of them are facing internally.

true the bargain is now making sense.. also BK did take two big gulps of chai before throwing it.. 😆

matlab unka bhi gussa nahi hai 🤣