Bhool jao mere Adi ko - Page 16

Aise dadi is also in function 😲..

Atleast vo imlie ke side ho warna ye cs ka sare family is 🤢

As per sbs bits Adhithya introduced himself as imlie husband at college .

I am thinking of Malini… will she get to see that declaration , if so it’s so nice to watch that

Originally posted by: Midnight_moon

As per sbs bits Adhithya introduced himself as imlie husband at college .

I am thinking of Malini… will she get to see that declaration , if so it’s so nice to watch that

Originally posted by: anikal

Aise dadi is also in function 😲..

Atleast vo imlie ke side ho warna ye cs ka sare family is 🤢

Dadi is as useless as DC😕

C's will never take Imlie's side if they have to choose between Imlie and M even if Imlie is right😕

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Reposting my thoughts on this from the other thread:

Aparna right now is extremely conflicted I feel. She genuinely loves Imlie (even now andar hi andar) but cannot look beyond the years of conditioning on her that her bahu is supposed to be someone like Imlie. She feels it to be easier to negate all of Imlie's qualities and just focus on the negatives to be able to justify her bias. Like how Adi in the beginning used to insult & show Imlie her "place" as a defense mechanism to avoid recognizing the PD shaadi as any kind of commitment, Aparna is using these labels to justify her stance against accepting Imlie as her bahu.

Let me put in my thoughts also here Aps! Let me know what you think 😃

Even I was wondering if Aparna was having a similar dilemma like Adi had when he was in denial. Because I also did not miss those emotions passing her face when Imlie was speaking to her. At times I have felt even Radha resonates with Apu's emotions. So I thought to start from Adi to understand how much they are similar.

Adi himself confessed that Imlie reminded him of his tarnished false pride, his helplessness at having gotten married on gunpoint and his guilt at not being able to come clean with Malini. He was weighed down by the frustration at having to lie about her to everyone. So he made a point to vent all his frustrations on her by insulting her. He just wanted an exit, and thats why he insisted her to leave his home. Even when he handed over the money to her in PD, he had this genuine concern for her, and a concience that her education should not be affected because of him and he was ready to take the responsibility. But ensuring she stays far away from him so that he is not reminded of the past.

But today when we try to draw parallels on both Adi and Apu, we should also take into consideration on what basis they were rejecting Imlie. Adi was reminded of his past and he wanted her out of his life. It was not out of contempt/prejudices. He never verbally belittled her because she was an illegitimate child, or her social status. When he got married to her, he never judged her or insulted her on those grounds, he just wanted to keep her at bay so that he will not feel like he is betraying Malini. Adi's denial/love was not conditional like Apu's. Again the similarity is that we see Apu rejecting Imlie on the basis of her broken "pride" on her son marrying a girl "below" her social strata which is the conditioning that you talked about. That false pride did not stem from feeling helpless like Adi. She on contrast to Adi was not weighed down by any guilt on betraying Malini because for her Malini moved on with Kunal. Because of this social conditioning she will have to lie the society about her bahu's status unlike Adi who lied to keep his personal life on his control.

Even though their thought processes were similar, that alone will never make her be like Adi. He will never hide Imlie from the world because her social status did not match his. We could say that Adi and Apu are similar in PROCESSING their emotions, but they are ethically and in their beliefs very different from each other. So the redemption should also be in a totally different line, not like Adi's.

Originally posted by: shalu79

I won't mind seeing them guarding as long as I get to see their sleeping arrangements🤣🤣

I didn't notice how he put his bedding... Have to chk it again. As it is Imlie's bistar is big enough..with two pillows... But itna nazdeek soyenge toh Ta halla macha denge..

I just can't imagine How BBS will look sleeping in that kona🤣

Sach me ek tho scene dikha dethe

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Ooh I hope we get a scene where Imlie dantoes Adi for making a mess at her kona, coz Adi is really a slob who drops his clothes yahaan wahaan and Imlie keeps her kona spick & span.

Ab Imlie ko pata chalega how it is to live with someone.

Dear makers, please give us a scene like this. Ek scene, aur MS ko pehnate na dikhane ka jo crime kiya hai, woh sab maaf.

Aparna ko toh heart attack aa jayega on seeing that ittu si ladki shouting at her pahad sa beta.

#Imlie&Adilivetogetherinkona

#Adilielivingtogether

#DomesticblissforAdile

koi bhi scene chalega.. lekin bas kone mein ho.. night time it would be so much fun! 😍

@bold - woh toh kal hi aa gaya tha na.. jab imlie ne haath pakda aur rok liya .. chota bomb bada dhamaka hai imlie..

Waise with all this taam jhaam I feel they r gonna cut cost on BS ki formal shaadi.. we r not gonna get that.. I just felt 😪

Saw the BTS of Adilie in college and the grand announcement...

lagta hai...abhi bhi drama baaki hai...

Chalo bring it on...

I am off to work and will catch up later in the day folks.. Will be in office and I am scared to open the thread as I might just burst into 🤣 cant risk that.

Keep it up and will see you all.. later... Cheers... 😃

Originally posted by: _Seera_

koi bhi scene chalega.. lekin bas kone mein ho.. night time it would be so much fun! 😍

@bold - woh toh kal hi aa gaya tha na.. jab imlie ne haath pakda aur rok liya .. chota bomb bada dhamaka hai imlie..

Waise with all this taam jhaam I feel they r gonna cut cost on BS ki formal shaadi.. we r not gonna get that.. I just felt 😪

I hope makers will give us some Adilie scenes in that Kona .. otherwise it's meaningless #bsinimliekakona

They are totally focused on drama only ..they need to balance it with Adilie scenes ..not asking for cliche one but there needs to be something only Adilie..

Question is why Imlie is back in her single get up? Ab kya ho gaya ki she decided not to wear her Sindoor?