Anupama's suicidal decisions damaging her children

In the precap ,they are showing kavya is instigating pakhi the way she did with kinjal.

More than pakhi/kinjal it is anupama's fault.

Anupama is well aware that kavya is trying to spoil her relations with her kids and she had confronted kavya for the same few days back .

Which mother allows her children to stay around evil step mother who is constantly trying to spoil mother-children bond???

Anupama's children are going away from her only because of anupama's suicidal decision about living life with kavya.

Due to anupama's suicidal decisions, kavya is getting chance now and then to instigate kinjal pakhi etc .Pakhi can be immature as per her age but anupama can't.

Why anupama loves to make suicidal decisions? Seems like anupama loves leela , hasmukh,kavya and vanraj more than her own children.

4 AM ka alarm set kar ke pura din gadhe ke jaise kam kar ke relations protect nahi kiye jate hai. Apne relations ko protect karne ke liye one needs to put active efforts in the direction of staying away from negative aura like kavya.

Vanraj had fulfilled financial needs of his children but he failed to give his children normal family life and brought step mother for adult children. Now he expects uske bacche uske sath rahe but he is completely overlooking his own actions and must say lately he looked pathetic father who did extra marital affaire in front of adult children's eyes and brought step mom for them in the same house.

Neither anupama nor vanraj ever think about giving normal peaceful life to their children which offers less daily drama.

Children are going away from them because of father's selfish affaire and mother's suicidal decisions still they haven't learn any lesson from their actions.

Anupama's children are less selfish than vanraj and thank god they have no suicidal tendency of anupama. Overall all 3 children are much better than their parents anupama and vanraj.

Anupama should have never stayed back in Shah house. She should have taken Pakhi with her and moved to her mother's house. At least Toshu and Samar have sensible life partners with them who can support them when needed. But Pakhi is at an age where she needs her mother's attention and guidance to make right choices in life. And it is not Pakhi's fault. It is high time Anupama stop prioritizing Hasmukh and Leela and concentrate on herself and her children. Hasmukh and Leela have their son, daughter, DIL and SIL to take care of them. Why should Anupama be burdened with all these responsibilities. And today Leela asked Anupama if she can stay away from her son? Then what about Anupama's mother? Did these people ever wonder how Anupama's mother might feel staying away from her daughter even now?

Another thing I feel is that they are going to keep Toshu and Pakhi shuttling between good and bad with Samar always being the good boy. It is kind of irritating because that spoils all the character developments of the other two.

Staying back in that house was Anupamaa's dumbest decision.

Originally posted by: janecastle

Anupama should have never stayed back in Shah house. She should have taken Pakhi with her and moved to her mother's house. At least Toshu and Samar have sensible life partners with them who can support them when needed. But Pakhi is at an age where she needs her mother's attention and guidance to make right choices in life. And it is not Pakhi's fault. It is high time Anupama stop prioritizing Hasmukh and Leela and concentrate on herself and her children. Hasmukh and Leela have their son, daughter, DIL and SIL to take care of them. Why should Anupama be burdened with all these responsibilities. And today Leela asked Anupama if she can stay away from her son? Then what about Anupama's mother? Did these people ever wonder how Anupama's mother might feel staying away from her daughter even now?

Another thing I feel is that they are going to keep Toshu and Pakhi shuttling between good and bad with Samar always being the good boy. It is kind of irritating because that spoils all the character developments of the other two.

The thing is anupama always wanted her children to stay with leela/hasmukh/vanraj/kavya. Even if you know your children wants to stay with father, as a mother it is your duty to invite all three children to stay with you but she never invited her children even as a part of formality only because not just children, Anupama also always wanted her children stay with leela,hasmukh,vanraj and kavya in future.

Anupama has always kept leela, hasmukh, vanraj and kavya's life above her children's life. It is clear anupama loves leela, hasmukh, kavya and vanraj more than her own mother/children.

Samar actor has bland acting/dancing skill and has no capability to pull off human flows so seeing samar actor's pathetic acting skill, better to show her good boy only because actor can't portray human flaws because of limited acting skill set. Toshu and pakhi both are way good actors and can effortlessly pull of human flaws.