Ek bahut bura sapna - Page 11

Originally posted by: AreYaar

It's kinda funny how unfortunately reductionist the arguments get when people don't want to understand the core basis of the current situation 😆

Ek side pe is the firm belief that Aparna has the full right to say whatever she said cuz Imlie ne sach mein dhoka diya by hiding her marriage to Adi for so long and supposedly breaking up the AM shaadi......

Dusri side pe is the firm belief ki duniya mein koi Imlie ki kadar nahin karta😆......nasty things bolne se Aparna becomes worse than AC who apparently is "honest" about her ugliness.....lol....and basically Imlie should leave everyone and go live in PD only for the rest of her life cuz sheher bhi bura aur sheher ke saare log bhi two-faced😆

Is sab mein actual story point gets lost.....koi dhundna bhi chaahe toh aage toh baaki Didi bakwaas mein beh jaata hai.....lol what a place to be.

It's like just being in the middle of two sides blindly shouting at each other without having any interest in evaluating the current point at hand......putting aside all the embellishments of the crap that Ts are talking right now, the gist is that it has been revealed to everyone that Adi-Imlie LIED to them for SO long.....there are consequences to be faced for that.....whether we like it or not.....to me, this is a different and far more impactful turning point than the revelation to Malini......it is only NOW that the truth has fully come out into the open and there is no one left to shield it from...and it only NOW that the battle TRULY begins.

And for any battle to be worth watching, the adversarial aspects have to be effectively built up......this has to be a hard mountain for Adi-Imlie to climb cuz yes despite all the challenges and trauma they've already been through, the price for lying to the Ts will still have to be paid.....if it was that easy to get past the Karma of that, toh phir toh baat hi kya thi😆

But if people want to say ki koi zaroorat hi nahin hai battle ladne ki and Imlie might as well just leave this family for good toh phir show bhi khatam hi kar do.....5 year leap karke, Imlie ko IAS officer banaa ke The End kar do....sab khush, right?😆

Word... They lied, they did a wrong and they have to walk the path to correct the wrong.If everything was easy in life, phir baat hi kya hain. T's have a right to be angry because of Aditya lying they have are going through a marriage and divorce which is not something that they condone. They are orthodox people at the core where it counts. Do they have right to be angry at Imlie? Ofcourse and why not?. They trusted her, made her a family member and gave her more love than expected. So now knowing that she lied, she was hiding just a big truth. anybody will retaliate. One would say, they should also throw the stones at their own son. But being typical family as they are, how can they question their own parvarish and their own son. Denial is the first thing that you hold that the son can never dow rong, outsiders are the issue. Bahar wale ko hi question karenge and in this scenario as Aditya had said long back that T's will question Imlie. Imlie herself knew this and hence she did not want to face her worst nightmares. But this is the battle that they have to go through. Galati ki han to sazza to milegi. "Pital ki aag ke baad hi sona hota hain".. These were Aparna's words long back and Aditya and Imlie have to face the brunt for their relationship to be accepted by everyone that matters. Its one of the last steps of the journey that this "rishta" has gone through that started since the gunpoint marriage.

On a separate not, not that I care, but do you think that the writers purposely fully got KC in the picture when the revelation happened to Malini because they did not know how to manage the sympathy factor for Malini and Adi-Imlie or Aditya in that scenario. If KC was not in the picture, Aditya would be as guilt ridden as Imlie and in that scenario if he would have been with Imlie, There would have been backlash. By bringing KC in, though as audience we know its a lie, they could justify Aditya stand on the front of not caring about Malini as she now has someone who she cares more. Thus, he could be with Imlie without getting hit from the backlash or under the negative light of doing a wrong to Malini.

Originally posted by: ShumiM

Hope ayisa hi kuch ho AY.keu ki jo alfaj aparna ki muh se nikli yeh sab jante hai ki ,yeh trp bait hai.itv ki old formula trp chahiye to bahu ko rulau,insult karo,bhar dhakke marke nikalo,callings name,showing class differences bhagera bhagera.my concern is please yeh sab permanent na bana de🙆🏿‍♂️.story etna disjointed be bana de ki pehchan ne mushkil ho jaye. Aur please makers yeh dd bakwas and Cs ki ss kam karo.bahut e irritating hai.

Aur yeh normal hai ki imlie never behave rudely with aparna aur radha,specially aparna.woh Adi ki ma hai,uski sasuma hai and she love them to the core.so will misbehaved with them yeh asha audience ko nehi karni chahiye.woh imlie ki core character ki against hai.imlie told Adi that she want to be a journalist so that she can change the views of the duniya.may be story will go in that direction only.who knows….dhekte hai. Thanks

@bold: Permanent toh I don't think they will make all this.....Imlie is not that level of TRP bait show also.....yeah they show cliched stuff from time to time but overall it doesn't get that cliched regressive that way......abhi ke liye cliched gimmicks dikha rahe hain of FL being mistreated by sasuraal waale in MUs.....lol but yeh Ts hain, inke MUs and resolutions bhi hatke honge....and honge zaroor, that I don't doubt......

Permanent toh is show mein bas Loservedis ki bakwaas hai unfortunately....their standard negative character is AC.....woh crown usse koi chheen nahin sakta😆......even if people are now claiming that Aparna is worse than her.....lol

Soch ko badalne mein toh ARSE lag jaate hain....yeh toh phir bhi bas ek daily show hai😆.....are we really so naive to think ki aas paas ki duniya mein utni soch badal chuki hai jitni we'd LIKE to see?.....There is a difference between wanting to see an ideal standard of behavior and the struggle towards actualizing it.....making people overcome the soch that is ingrained as a standard part of society is the hardest of things many times......sab log Adi ki tarhaan duniya ki soch ko peechhe chhod ke nahin chal paate easily.....especially the parents who are from a different generation.....they will struggle more with this.

Originally posted by: pamk06

Word... They lied, they did a wrong and they have to walk the path to correct the wrong.If everything was easy in life, phir baat hi kya hain. T's have a right to be angry because of Aditya lying they have are going through a marriage and divorce which is not something that they condone. They are orthodox people at the core where it counts. Do they have right to be angry at Imlie? Ofcourse and why not?. They trusted her, made her a family member and gave her more love than expected. So now knowing that she lied, she was hiding just a big truth. anybody will retaliate. One would say, they should also throw the stones at their own son. But being typical family as they are, how can they question their own parvarish and their own son. Denial is the first thing that you hold that the son can never dow rong, outsiders are the issue. Bahar wale ko hi question karenge and in this scenario as Aditya had said long back that T's will question Imlie. Imlie herself knew this and hence she did not want to face her worst nightmares. But this is the battle that they have to go through. Galati ki han to sazza to milegi. "Pital ki aag ke baad hi sona hota hain".. These were Aparna's words long back and Aditya and Imlie have to face the brunt for their relationship to be accepted by everyone that matters. Its one of the last steps of the journey that this "rishta" has gone through that started since the gunpoint marriage.

On a separate not, not that I care, but do you think that the writers purposely fully got KC in the picture when the revelation happened to Malini because they did not know how to manage the sympathy factor for Malini and Adi-Imlie or Aditya in that scenario. If KC was not in the picture, Aditya would be as guilt ridden as Imlie and in that scenario if he would have been with Imlie, There would have been backlash. By bringing KC in, though as audience we know its a lie, they could justify Aditya stand on the front of not caring about Malini as she now has someone who she cares more. Thus, he could be with Imlie without getting hit from the backlash or under the negative light of doing a wrong to Malini.

@bold1: Exactly.....Ts are going through BIG time DENIAL wala stage right now....the enormity of the truth is too much for them to handle toh first they are stuck on fierce denial......Adi pe bhi gussa hai but ZYADA gussa Imlie pe hai ki she led him astray supposedly....lol cuz as you said, apni parvarish ko question nahin karna chahte toh pehle blame kisi aur pe daalo in denial......and Imlie ko they've loved like their own but again woh technicality remains that she didn't have a technical direct relation to themselves in their eyes.

@bold2: Oh thanks for reminding me of that peetal needing to go through aag to become sona line....haha I do remember Aparna saying it but if I recall, she was saying it in context of something else na? 😆......yet even then we were saying it actually applies to Adi-Imlie ka rishta more.....it has anyways strengthened after each set of challenges they've faced....that fire literally nikhaaoring their rishta.....and abhi bhi yehi lag raha hai that this latest fire will nikhaaro this sona all the more😆

Re: KC.....lol arey as if Adi STILL isn't getting backlash regardless😆.....there is no winning with that brigade who only wants to stay hung up on Malini ko kyun chhod diya Adi ne.....even after Adi has apologized and explained a 100 different ways ki there is no point in them being together when he only loves Imlie and considers her his wife......KC ka excuse toh Adi ko token basis pe yaad aata hai to console himself that Malini also has someone.....lol baaki toh I think he would still have taken just as fierce a stand for his truth with Imlie regardless of KC being in the picture......

Waise toh KC ke hone na hone se bhi koi farak nahin pad raha.....Malini is still continuing with her victim act behaving like usko ghar se nikaala gaya and she was compelled to leave cuz of Adi......if people really fully bought her KC excuse toh abhi bhi yeh angle itna kyun continued rakhte? So KC bhi bas tokenism ke liye hi reh gaya hai cuz no one really believes that lie of Malini's......kuch log confused hain, kuch log apni tassalli ke liye maan lete hain but the eternal Didi victimhood continues😆

I keep going back to the fact that even after Didi tried suicide, Adi's stance was still to tell her the truth first.....lol and this was all before she cooked up KC......Adi has never wavered from his stance of telling Malini that he loves Imlie and she's his wife......Didi pulled a contrived stunt with KC that is just dragging on in a token manner now.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: Permanent toh I don't think they will make all this.....Imlie is not that level of TRP bait show also.....yeah they show cliched stuff from time to time but overall it doesn't get that cliched regressive that way......abhi ke liye cliched gimmicks dikha rahe hain of FL being mistreated by sasuraal waale in MUs.....lol but yeh Ts hain, inke MUs and resolutions bhi hatke honge....and honge zaroor, that I don't doubt......

Permanent toh is show mein bas Loservedis ki bakwaas hai unfortunately....their standard negative character is AC.....woh crown usse koi chheen nahin sakta😆......even if people are now claiming that Aparna is worse than her.....lol

Soch ko badalne mein toh ARSE lag jaate hain....yeh toh phir bhi bas ek daily show hai😆.....are we really so naive to think ki aas paas ki duniya mein utni soch badal chuki hai jitni we'd LIKE to see?.....There is a difference between wanting to see an ideal standard of behavior and the struggle towards actualizing it.....making people overcome the soch that is ingrained as a standard part of society is the hardest of things many times......sab log Adi ki tarhaan duniya ki soch ko peechhe chhod ke nahin chal paate easily.....especially the parents who are from a different generation.....they will struggle more with this.

+100

The funniest is yeh virtual dunia main Morche nikalne wale assay sabse zyada iss takiyanussi socho main ghire hote hain.how many actually fight for the right to that extent on their daily lives..? Bolna assan hota hai karna mushkil..ideally we would all want things to change but is it that easy NO yahan har ek choti si choti change ke liye ladna padta hai on a visceral level for the most part ..

Baaki I am fully with you on the matter of T 's and on what you have said on last few posts I have nothing to add so I will just + 1 it but there is absolutely no way it is the same 2 things as being made

Hello newbie ji.....are you not feeling like Ts are now dead to Imlie cuz they are "beyond redemption"? 😆.....aaj kal toh it's surprising to see anyone trying to be a little objective about the T ladies 😆

Jokes apart, yes I mentioned this same scene from epi 172 in my previous thread is well.....this was when Aparna-Radha were talking about wanting Imlie to never take crap from anyone, even themselves.....lol but sadly people are determined to forget all these things cuz Aparna is now saying nasty things to Imlie in anger again.

Aparna-Imlie's dynamic is one to be experienced I suppose rather than fixating on one particular turn of phrase here or there......no matter what Aparna is saying or doing right now, I feel she has genuinely loved Imlie.....woh dikhava nahin tha

LOL I don't know if this is some long winded test for Adi to pass to get approval for Imlie's acceptance but yes, overall Aparna-Radha are both lashing out in anger and confusion mostly....this is just another iteration of what they did the last time they thought Imlie was affecting the AM shaadi.....they tried to remove her from the house but still grappled with bouts of guilt......this isn't really about class consciousness in so much as being about wanting to desperately save their son's marriage to a perfectly nice girl (as they see it).....they've loved Imlie as a daughter.....imagining her as Adi's wife is a bridge too far for them right now.....but that doesn't mean the love is actually gone.....yeah it's gotten selfish and paranoid right now....but it still has a strong basis.

....are you not feeling like Ts are now dead to Imlie cuz they are "beyond redemption"?

@bold I don't think they are beyond redemption...- Hear me out. I think while Adi and Imile are returning from the college press conference - Nishant, Rupi and Pallavi might have filled in about their marriage. Shock toe hoga hi - but all of them must have thought about this plan to have Imile speak for herself - and / or show Adi's support to Imile.

Radha ji just picked up Imilie's shaadi wala baath too quickly. Nishu stopping Adi and chachi listening to Nishu and not ask Imilie questions......meh I feel like daal me kuch kaalaa hai.

Of all the things. BK saying nasty thinkgs about Imile..... I am unable to accept that.

Who has access to Tripathi's terrace garden to get Adi and Imile's picture? Someone at home must have sent that to Anu - because they all know that she cannot and will not keep quiet.

I cannot digest Aparna, bringing Meethi and her upbringing to Imile at all.....They tried everything. Since that did not work - I guess precap waala scene try kaar rahe hai - their expressions are creating doubts for me....

I keep thinking about this....over and over.

....imagining her as Adi's wife is a bridge too far for them right now.....

@red It might be a bridge too far - but I don't think it is impossible for them to pretty quickly cross that bridge!

Originally posted by: paddulu

@bold I don't think they are beyond redemption...- Hear me out. I think while Adi and Imile are returning from the college press conference - Nishant, Rupi and Pallavi might have filled in about their marriage. Shock toe hoga hi - but all of them must have thought about this plan to have Imile speak for herself - and / or show Adi's support to Imile.

Radha ji just picked up Imilie's shaadi wala baath too quickly. Nishu stopping Adi and chachi listening to Nishu and not ask Imilie questions......meh I feel like daal me kuch kaalaa hai.

Of all the things. BK saying nasty thinkgs about Imile..... I am unable to accept that.

Who has access to Tripathi's terrace garden to get Adi and Imile's picture? Someone at home must have sent that to Anu - because they all know that she cannot and will not keep quiet.

I cannot digest Aparna, bringing Meethi and her upbringing to Imile at all.....They tried everything. Since that did not work - I guess precap waala scene try kaar rahe hai - their expressions are creating doubts for me....

I keep thinking about this....over and over.

....imagining her as Adi's wife is a bridge too far for them right now.....

@red It might be a bridge too far - but I don't think it is impossible for them to pretty quickly cross that bridge!

LMAO what?!!!🤣🤣 You think this is all a PLAN of Junior Ts to get the truth revealed like this? 🤣Baap re alag hi level ka soch liya hai aapne😆

Originally posted by: paddulu

Hello newbie ji.....are you not feeling like Ts are now dead to Imlie cuz they are "beyond redemption"? 😆.....aaj kal toh it's surprising to see anyone trying to be a little objective about the T ladies 😆

Jokes apart, yes I mentioned this same scene from epi 172 in my previous thread is well.....this was when Aparna-Radha were talking about wanting Imlie to never take crap from anyone, even themselves.....lol but sadly people are determined to forget all these things cuz Aparna is now saying nasty things to Imlie in anger again.

Aparna-Imlie's dynamic is one to be experienced I suppose rather than fixating on one particular turn of phrase here or there......no matter what Aparna is saying or doing right now, I feel she has genuinely loved Imlie.....woh dikhava nahin tha

LOL I don't know if this is some long winded test for Adi to pass to get approval for Imlie's acceptance but yes, overall Aparna-Radha are both lashing out in anger and confusion mostly....this is just another iteration of what they did the last time they thought Imlie was affecting the AM shaadi.....they tried to remove her from the house but still grappled with bouts of guilt......this isn't really about class consciousness in so much as being about wanting to desperately save their son's marriage to a perfectly nice girl (as they see it).....they've loved Imlie as a daughter.....imagining her as Adi's wife is a bridge too far for them right now.....but that doesn't mean the love is actually gone.....yeah it's gotten selfish and paranoid right now....but it still has a strong basis.

....are you not feeling like Ts are now dead to Imlie cuz they are "beyond redemption"?

@bold I don't think they are beyond redemption...- Hear me out. I think while Adi and Imile are returning from the college press conference - Nishant, Rupi and Pallavi might have filled in about their marriage. Shock toe hoga hi - but all of them must have thought about this plan to have Imile speak for herself - and / or show Adi's support to Imile.

Radha ji just picked up Imilie's shaadi wala baath too quickly. Nishu stopping Adi and chachi listening to Nishu and not ask Imilie questions......meh I feel like daal me kuch kaalaa hai.

Of all the things. BK saying nasty thinkgs about Imile..... I am unable to accept that.

Who has access to Tripathi's terrace garden to get Adi and Imile's picture? Someone at home must have sent that to Anu - because they all know that she cannot and will not keep quiet.

I cannot digest Aparna, bringing Meethi and her upbringing to Imile at all.....They tried everything. Since that did not work - I guess precap waala scene try kaar rahe hai - their expressions are creating doubts for me....

I keep thinking about this....over and over.

....imagining her as Adi's wife is a bridge too far for them right now.....

@red It might be a bridge too far - but I don't think it is impossible for them to pretty quickly cross that bridge!

Lol - Imlie is not the show where we get such over the top twists which doesn’t make sense 😆😆 Ts have nothing to do about that pic 😆 and I do not think Adi imlie were in the terrace garden in that pic - it was Imlie’s corner in the house- it’s just that the background looked weird because our fav director had something to do with it 😆

Regarding Apu and Radha’s expressions, well they just asked her to pack her potli, they didn’t say she has to leave the house explicitly - so let’s see what they actually ask her to do - but no matter what Adi Imlie will find each other as always.

Originally posted by: pamk06

Word... They lied, they did a wrong and they have to walk the path to correct the wrong.If everything was easy in life, phir baat hi kya hain. T's have a right to be angry because of Aditya lying they have are going through a marriage and divorce which is not something that they condone. They are orthodox people at the core where it counts. Do they have right to be angry at Imlie? Ofcourse and why not?. They trusted her, made her a family member and gave her more love than expected. So now knowing that she lied, she was hiding just a big truth. anybody will retaliate. One would say, they should also throw the stones at their own son. But being typical family as they are, how can they question their own parvarish and their own son. Denial is the first thing that you hold that the son can never dow rong, outsiders are the issue. Bahar wale ko hi question karenge and in this scenario as Aditya had said long back that T's will question Imlie. Imlie herself knew this and hence she did not want to face her worst nightmares. But this is the battle that they have to go through. Galati ki han to sazza to milegi. "Pital ki aag ke baad hi sona hota hain".. These were Aparna's words long back and Aditya and Imlie have to face the brunt for their relationship to be accepted by everyone that matters. Its one of the last steps of the journey that this "rishta" has gone through that started since the gunpoint marriage.

On a separate not, not that I care, but do you think that the writers purposely fully got KC in the picture when the revelation happened to Malini because they did not know how to manage the sympathy factor for Malini and Adi-Imlie or Aditya in that scenario. If KC was not in the picture, Aditya would be as guilt ridden as Imlie and in that scenario if he would have been with Imlie, There would have been backlash. By bringing KC in, though as audience we know its a lie, they could justify Aditya stand on the front of not caring about Malini as she now has someone who she cares more. Thus, he could be with Imlie without getting hit from the backlash or under the negative light of doing a wrong to Malini.

Totally man.. it.is the same galti ki hai jhelni toh padegi.had it.been so easy toh itna time chupate hi kyon ? And by that I mean simve they have had a realization that they are staying together.. didi reasons notwithstanding.. had it been a choti moti baat with no consequences toh ussi waqt aake jhat se bata dete na..

Man my mind is blowing reading the accusations and kya kya mann gharath kahaniyan has been made..I do not support the rude behavior but where it is coming from isn't that far fetched as simple as that..asal imtihaan toh yeh hai ab they cannot delay facing the consequences and as adi always has said ke aaj nahi toh kal someday toh yeh hona hi tha good it is out of the way now.. bas galat yeh go gaya ke as per his fears kisi aur se gande tareeke se hi pata chala jab the family wasn't ready to hear it at all.. it is kinda very intrestkng ke dono ke hi fears sach huye hain in that sense isi liye adi ka bhi olz wake me up from this bad dream.. my friend is I need adi imlie as a team I just want them to show the world what they are made of and not being used as props int heir own story...kisi ka kuch nahi jaayega of few days are solidly for these 2 but woh hone se raha

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LMAO what?!!! You think this is all a PLAN of Junior Ts to get the truth revealed like this? Baap re alag hi level ka soch liya hai aapne

Maaan gaye ji! - Haar man gaye LOL

Adi today 🤗🤗

Of course didi has to be mahaan and also be the one to tell all truths 😕 but big time chop from Adi 🤣🤣 loved that 😆

Waiting for the thread!