You are more than the labels the world assigns you - Page 6

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Bold - Dekh umeed pe duniya kaayam hai, so it never hurts to hope. Anyway after reading my own prediction I laughed thinking - yeh maine kya likh diya. So I modify it to say that they may send her back to kitchen, but I dont think ghar se bahar karenge, that just looks very obvious and cliche to me at least.

Aparna is unhappy because uske andar ek jung ho rahi hai between what has been revealed and her own feelings for Imlie. While she feels that Malini has been betrayed because of Imlie and wants to blame her and push her away, Imlie's crying chehra and her words melted that mother's heart who had genuinely considered her the daughter she never had. While Malini was the formal bahu, Imlie was her beti and saheli. Kuch bhi ho, Aparna cannot forget that bond, no matter what she calls Imlie. Yaar naagin ko dood Nag panchami ko bhi pilate hai to get aashivaad, because they are like god. So yeah her calling Imlie a nagin was mean, but I took it in the way I took all of Adi's insults to Imlie before - ek kaan se suno aur dusre se nikal do.

I still say that Imlie has heard much worse from her NN and her gaon wale before, so whatever the T family says, it is not going to affect her. What hurt her were 2 things - 1) That she intentionally phasaoed Adi and made him fall in love with her, thus separating him from Malini - which se never did and actively tried to avoid to happen in the first palace. 2) Where she herself began having doubts that she was reaching for something beyond her pay grade, which was somewhat resolved by Sundar's conversation. Baaki to boost her morale and support karne ke liye there are a lot of people in the T house, as well as her Amma and Dadda are also there. While unko bhi dose mil sakta hai, but wahaan pe SK can justify the gaon ka actions by explaining the reason for their shaadi and how Adi himself now wants to uphold the shaadi, despite being given to option to walk away. That should give them some perspective of how deeply Adi is in love and now Adilie's risha is an atoot bandhan.

@bold 1 Bilkul sahi.

Anger is a really blinding emotion. When in anger, things tend to escalate and reach points and heights which we can't believe at times. Though very much against her character, Aparna is angered and hurt even. Whatever her words maybe now, I can't doubt that she genuinely loved Imlie. She has which is why her anger is more.

@bold 2 Aap sahi me kaafi optimistic hain

@bold 3 Yes that is true. But Tripathis are people she loves and trusts a lot. NN and Villagers weren't that close to her. But here the Ts talking such things surely shall affect her because quoting Imlie herself - galtiyan aur baatein toh apno ki chubti hain.

@bold 4 I really really want SK, Amma and Ts scene. Honestly I want people to know just what Imlie has gone through all the while. I don't understand why pursuing behind Drama and stuff, the makers don't give proper dialogues to shed light on just what she's gone through all this while.

If they can get KC telling Malini her "sacrifice" and "acceptance" is a Big thing and himmat blah blah, why not focus on shedding light on the pain and sacrifices of the girl this serial is named after!

Tbh, I wanted a proper redemption for Adi and Imlie's outburst. How much ever I love Adilie, I feel he needed to understand and make it up for hurting her so so much! They dint give that fine. But at least let people know about the main character's pain, insecurities and sacrifices instead of repeatedly talking about EMA, betrayal blah blah. If Senior Ts can point out betrayal to Malini then why the hell can't they see one done with Imlie?

Originally posted by: wizardofoz2

Lovely review Aps

I am deeply saddened by todays episode😭. Sapne se zyaada batthar the elder ts ke reactions and words😡. Talk about imlies neeyat was beyond shocking to tolerate despite everything good she has done for the family. There is no redeeming them in my book. Disgraceful is the word😡. Imlie was so shattered by what she heard and it was far worse than expected. Bichari ki self worth ki dhajjiyan uda di😭🤗. Adi ko bhi itna shock laga sab bakwaas sunke ki uske aage apni patni ko sambhaalne ki himmat bhi nahi juta paaya.

Sundar is a true friend🤗❤️. Imlie ko yaad dilaaya ki koi jo bhi kahe uski aukaat ke baare me she is made for bigger things being a state topper and student of the month in her college. The dirty words of the elder tripathis cannot lessen the importance of all the progress she has made in her life under difficult circumstances. I am glad he was able to provide some soothing reassuring talk to her after the intolerable insults she was subject to.

Dev is a kamina through and through😡. Uski apni choti beti jisne uski wajah se zindagi me itni nainsaafi aur dukh already jheli hai uski support me kuch bhi naa karne ke baare main rathi bhar sharam bhi nahin. And his lovely elder daughter has to be asked why she is still holding off on the divorce by kc. Uski badi beti abhi bhi is crisis ke dauran adi ki zindagi me waapis ghusne ki soch rahi hai.

Are they now subjecting imlie to physical violence at the hands of radha and aparna too? Paani phenkna aur kambal ko violently kheenchna vomit inducing🤢. Bechari kaanp rahi thi kyunki usko threaten bhi kar rahe hai itni aggressively to pack her things. No physical or psychological abuse of this kind is justified. Will have to muster courage to keep watching

Wizardji, I can understand your pain completely. This is going to be there for sometime. While I was appalled by BK of all people questioning her neeyat, baaki sab was expected to happen. I knew that this entire spiel will continue like this and was prepared for it. I wanted to see Imlie's reaction to her Amma being dragged into this mess, and I am glad that Imlie gave it back in the way she thought fir for that moment. Her words really made Aparna feel for her and melt her heart, so much so that she had to remind herself that all these are just words to justify her continued anger.

Sundar is a sweetheart and I am glad we got him talking to Imlie today. That bit was small but effective and will help Imlie cope up with everything in the coming episodes.

Dev & Malini ke baare mein I have only one thing to say - Dharti pe bhoj.

While I agree no amount of violence is correct in any way, but this week is going to be giving us a lot of that. While I am hoping against hope that it is not the typical saas bahu types that gets shown, I am resigned to just let this week go by, so that we can move ahead in the story and just forget all this happened, the way we dealt with the suicide kand wale episodes.

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Good Flowerji, you saw the most important wale scenes and ignored the others.

Agreed that uske 4 lines were bhaari on all the 25 pages lekh by the others. She was mind blowing, enough that for that moment even Aparna pighal gayi thi.🤗

#Sunlie scene was beautiful, something I have not seen in some time. Really made me emotional.🤗👏

She's a marvellous actor. Each emotion, each scene she does is soooo effective!! She makes me feel all of Imlie's emotions when she emotes them.

Just sad to see how people don't see the difference between the character and actor playing it and bash her for nothing. She's so young yet is doing a marvellous job. I pray all success to her.

Originally posted by: Midnight_moon

Thanks for tagging.

Apart from sunder imlie scene and adhithya’s shock everything is expected.

Aparna will melt but take time as Adhithya to imlie.

More than imlie it is hard time for Adhithya.

@bold : optimism at its peak.

I also cannot process anything.. multiple photos have seen in normal suits and one with colour full but with no change in makeup… makes me confuse whether she leave or not.

I want Only thing this must not affect her studies.

Damn sure will not affect.. because Pooja day epiosde start with she seems to close her books.

As I said what ever Aparna says she will obey without asking.

But if she says to leave she must atleast send a message to Adhithya and go.

Adhithya seems to be not completed his punishments initially done to imlie till date .

Upcoming track whether they are going to show more emotions of imlie or Adhithya…

You are always welcome.

Yes, everything was pretty much expected for me as well, including the C's.

Agree that Aparna will take some time to melt, but less than Adi, which will be harder to watch for him.

My optimism comes along on times like this, never know when it may come true. Warna toh always ready for a chop.

Imlie knows if she leaves without telling him, he will hunt her down & get her back no matter what. Last time itself he had warned her what would happen if she left without saying anything, so I do not think she will make that mistake again, even if the T ladies force her to go.

Yes, Adi is bhugtofying the karma of all his sins, and will need to do some more before it gets any better.

Originally posted by: wizardofoz2

Is aurat ne precap me uski bhabhi ke saath milke imlie ke mooh pe paani phenka aur iske kambal ko bhi violently yank kiya. Daayan ki tarah dono dekh rahi thi imlie like really threateningly. Agar rathi bhar ki insaaniyat bhi hothi tho no matter what one will never react this viciously. Itna low gira diya dono ko ki i dont know how they will be redeemed.😭i feel sad man. Kya sikha rahe he public ko?

Wizardji, this is still tame compared to what is being shown on ITV. While I do not justify it, a lot of this happens and this is the maker's way of garnering TRP's. While people like us do not condone this, there are others who want to see just how much they will torture her till they redeem these characters.

Aur redemption hoga, dekh lena. WHile right now they are being mean and vicious, they are not psychopaths like AC. They will apologize and make up for this behavior, dekh lena.

Originally posted by: shalu79

Beautifully put❤️. Thank you @Aps your views really helped me to feel bit better. Otherwise I was more angry than disheartened.

Your title is also so apt. Today Sumbul shared story saying

To remember who you are, you need to forget what they told you to be

Last night, I was like we wont get Imlie-Sundar scene so soon..but cvs surprised us. Only good thing about todays episode was this scene.

When he first got prasad ka sheera, I was like Bhai kisine dekh liye toh phir rola pad jayega ..ki meetha kha rahi hai n when he started with apne chaddar dekh ke paav pasar ne chahiye...Not you too Sundar... but how beautifully he motivated her n uplifted her self esteem.... Lovely scene❤️

Senior Ts reached a new low today. So, they questioned everything about her... her intentions, her character, her integrity....why? just becoz she is from poor background. When Apu said Anu was right about you... somebody tell Apu then she was right about you all too. They also were happy Malini from rich family being their bahu n not for person as Malini then. Tripthis really deserved all the insults Anu served them...🤧

If my memory serves me correctly than...In all seniors, only CK didn't cross limits n asked logical questions to Aditya. His questions were all directed towards Adi n not Imlie. Small mercies.

You righty pointed out abt BK n B Kaki seems made for each other couple. BK seems stuck on that pic.. it was just comforting hug..Innohe usse lya samajh liye.

Regarding Apu,I loved the reference you made about Adi-Imlie scene... That made me feel bit better to take it. But I really hope we get a glimpse where we get to see Apu's fight with her heart n mind...I still want to believe that deep down Apu knows that Imlie is innocent girl caught in unavoidable circumstances. N I would like to see something like the scene we got when all Tripathi's thought Imlie ran away with all jewellry but it was Aditya who said she is jhalli does crazy stuff but she cant to this.. she is not dishonest.

Regarding Precap I really wish this time its dream. I dont want Apu to stoop so low... throwing her out like this even in anger doesn't go with her character.

Shalu ji you are welcome. Glad that my words helped you in any way.

Yes, PT's anger was more towards Adi rather than Imlie. While he was upset ke Adi use leke kyun aaya, non of his words were directed towards her.

BK & Radhaji are made for each other, aur unhone woh sabit kar diya, specially with his neeyat wala dialogue.

Nishant today proved himself to be Adi's confidant, where he explained to Adi that things will need time and he has to give them that time.

Like I mentioned before, Adi and Aparna are exactly like each other. Both will push the other person to the extreme, if it helps them deal with the guilt they are facing. Aparna will go through the exact same journey as Adi, albeit shorter, as Aparna and Imlie ke beech mein already pyaar hai, which will help rebuild their relationship.

Originally posted by: Pearl21

by the way aparna and Radha imlie ko kahan shift kar rahi hain aditya k room mein  😆

Aap toh mujhse bhi zyada optimistic nikli.

Seera, dekha, I am not the only one.😆

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Aap toh mujhse bhi zyada optimistic nikli.

Seera, dekha, I am not the only one.😆

😆

tum log ne kya breakfast kiya hai bhayee mujhe bhi batao.. mein bhi thodi aur optimistic ho jau..

Originally posted by: wizardofoz2

Lovely review Aps

I am deeply saddened by todays episode😭. Sapne se zyaada batthar the elder ts ke reactions and words😡. Talk about imlies neeyat was beyond shocking to tolerate despite everything good she has done for the family. There is no redeeming them in my book. Disgraceful is the word😡. Imlie was so shattered by what she heard and it was far worse than expected. Bichari ki self worth ki dhajjiyan uda di😭🤗. Adi ko bhi itna shock laga sab bakwaas sunke ki uske aage apni patni ko sambhaalne ki himmat bhi nahi juta paaya.

Sundar is a true friend🤗❤️. Imlie ko yaad dilaaya ki koi jo bhi kahe uski aukaat ke baare me she is made for bigger things being a state topper and student of the month in her college. The dirty words of the elder tripathis cannot lessen the importance of all the progress she has made in her life under difficult circumstances. I am glad he was able to provide some soothing reassuring talk to her after the intolerable insults she was subject to.

Dev is a kamina through and through😡. Uski apni choti beti jisne uski wajah se zindagi me itni nainsaafi aur dukh already jheli hai uski support me kuch bhi naa karne ke baare main rathi bhar sharam bhi nahin. And his lovely elder daughter has to be asked why she is still holding off on the divorce by kc. Uski badi beti abhi bhi is crisis ke dauran adi ki zindagi me waapis ghusne ki soch rahi hai.

Are they now subjecting imlie to physical violence at the hands of radha and aparna too? Paani phenkna aur kambal ko violently kheenchna vomit inducing🤢. Bechari kaanp rahi thi kyunki usko threaten bhi kar rahe hai itni aggressively to pack her things. No physical or psychological abuse of this kind is justified. Will have to muster courage to keep watching

Precap ne mujhe bahut hila diya. hamare wahan hum househelps ko bhi aap aap bolte hain. yeh.. aise sab imagine bhi nahi kar sakte. hamari el house help thi. woh aur meri Amma ka alag hi rishta hain. in fact ghar main sabse. woh Amma aur Appa ko Amma and Appa bulati hain, bhaiyya ko bhaiyya bhabhi ko didi.

sirf mujhe ghar pe naam se bulati hain aur hakk se bulati hain. she came last week to invite us to her housewarming with the first card for amma and appa and inka ashirwaad bhi liya... jab main aise dekhti hoon.. I understand tv show hain... but then it's too drastic. shuru main itna pyaar dikha ke abhi jhat se aise bartaav karna ? isse to acchi Anu thi.. woh jab leke gayi thi to pata tha aise hi bartav karne wali hain.. yeh log to Anu se bhi gaye guzre nikle.

Originally posted by: Loony_lovegood

What was more baffling to me was Aparna's bond with Imlie since the inception of the show. They have always showed it to be very candid and it was more genuine than the formal one she shared with Malini. When we look at it closely, though she was hesitant breifly she was understanding when she learned that Malini fell in love with someone else while she was married to Adi and was ready to let her go. But when it came to her own son having fallen for Imlie, she lashed out at them for having betrayed her which was fine, but what was bothering her more was the fact that he fell in love with the naukarani. Had she been someone else, she would have made peace with it sooner?

So was all that "apnapan" she showed Imlie was out of sympathy? So would that not imply that they have not ever loved Imlie for the person she was but all that love was stemmed from the sympathy she felt for her?

I dont think it was just sympathy. Because if it was just sympathy, she would not have had such a violent reaction to everything. It was more betrayal she was feeling. See, with Malini, Aparna was always more formal, so even her emotions towards Malini were much more subdues, even when she thought Malini betrayed her son.

With Imlie she has a deeper relationship, so the btrayal hurt even more. Like they say that you lash out only at people you consider your own. Out of all the T's reactions, Aparna's was the worst, because her relationship with Adi & Imlie were the deepest. With deeper emotions there are always extreme reactions. That is what I saw in Aparna today. That brief moment when Imlie explained about how it was a majboori for her and not a choice, Aparna's heart melted and she could connect with what Imlie said. But to steel herself from further pain and to deal with her betrayal, she lashed out again at Imlie to push her away.

This process will continue till Aparna realizes that neither of them were at fault and that Adi & Imlie chose each other because they were meant to be. Only then will they be bale to come out of this shock.