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Posted: 4 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: _Seera_

sach mein yaa.. they had such scope with her but nahi bas token bana diya hai usko.. 😪


But I still don't hate her


She is what she says to imlie k sirf baatein karti h😭


I get her even if we have some long loved best fried and if we have major fight with them we still hope that they will comeback and once they will we will forget the fight and start afresh.


Yaha pe to she was invested with him in a relationship that too for 7 years💔


But I agree she should have tried morebahut difficult h but impossible nahi👍🏼


Even if she want BS back she needs to come clean to him saying there is no one her life and she still wants to be with him,she just lied to get truth out of him👍🏼 this should be the easiest thing to do👍🏼


Also it would be great to see what BS does then as he had multiple times told that after listening to truth he will support whatever Malini decides.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Waise do I get a point for asking sunlie scene in last thread??😆

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: jojo_mojo

Waise do I get a point for asking sunlie scene in last thread??😆

aap distinction se pass hoti hai jojo ji 🤣

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: FlowerHater

Aaj nahi ho payega.


Has read WU only and I don't have capacity to watch the epi


Pheels are similar as suicide track.


On break again,I suppose


kinda the same. feeling drained.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: nim_var

thanks Aps for the thread... and lovely WU.

I am going to paste my WU before I hit the sack... before Mon morning blues...😆


The highlight was the lovely Sundar - Imlie convo that was expected but did not expect to see it so soon. A welcome respite from the other depressing truth reveal scenes.

Imlie's nightmare turned true and she had warned Aditya about his family's reaction. He was too naive to believe that of his family. He is too shocked by their reaction and feels like a never ending nightmare to him. The biggest burden has been shed by him...that of his shaadi to Imlie. Now he has said many times, we will face together whatever happens..

Understand that Adi was shocked by his family's reactions... what did he expect, a welcome with open arms ?? He was delusional if he thought that, just treating Imlie nice n being kind to her does not mean she is bahu material... Why did we not get a follow up of Adilie... or Adi seeking Imlie out after the tamasha, Rupi/Pallavi consoling Imlie like Sundara did... they all know where she is... or a convo amongst themselves, how they are going to tackle this..

A normal family scene, everyone would be ruminating over what had transpired and it is not something swept away under the rug so soon..even the elder T's convo would hv been welcome instead we get the lame C's.

We will get to see their saath, that was missing today..Adi left her in her kona to deal with his own shock. Hope and pray we get a good convo from them, that is unhurried and good just as the sundar - Imlie convo was today.

Sundar really touched me with his saath to Imlie, how he told her not to forget her dreams and goals, to continue her journey to make something of herself. ❤️

Word on Aparna showing her heart for a sec before steeling herself to hurt Imlie... when she said she came out of majboori.

The younger T's bravely supporting Adilie but to an extent only I think.. dont know if they will go all out.

We will get more such scenes and bracing myself for them. The precap was hard to see but then... the T's will have to see the 'Taandav' from Adi and start accepting the kismet.

Now Anu's bakwaas... was funny.. from avenging angel of her broken shaadi n husband to avenging her daughter's ouster from Adi's life and marriage.. make up your mind woman... what is it that you are avenging?? I think she is basically unhappy and anyone associated with her cannot be happy or peaceful.. she has to spread the poison...

Spineless Toad Dev was another not so surprise.... hear hear... galat hai galat hai.. his guilt has done the 360 degree turn and vanished into the thin air... His beti is only malini and Imlie can never be that.. thank goodness that Imlie rejected him outright and his ego was hurt... not genuine regret else he would not be reacting this way.


Continue the convo 👍🏼 and will try to catchup with this runaway express. Cheers. 😃

Thanks Nim.

While I agree the transitions were bad and the specific "C" scenes that were ghusaoed just to give them SS was very annoying, I was still not as disappointed with the .

My reasons are very simple. 1) The day is not yet over, so I am hoping we get the continuity we want in tomorrow's episode. Imlie is wearing the MS in the precap, so making her wear it will give us the convo we were expecting today. 2) Imlie always processes everything first on her own. She never talks to anybody, because first wants to run through what happened on her own before seeking out someone to help her understand what she feels. Today she actively seeked out Sundar, because she wanted to first tackle that niggling feeling she had about reaching for something that everyone seems to say is above her "aukat". That word made her question a lot of things, including her own identity. Anyone else could not have given her that boost, because Sundar is the only one to come from a place she can relate to. While Adi would have given her strength and dilasa, somewhere he could not have done what Sundar did - remind her to not define herself by other's labels. That one conversation made Imlie realize that fighting for Adi or her dreams is not wrong.

I am still surprised with how much Nishant did support. Mujhe usse itni ki nhi umeed nahi thi, he was still way ahead. Rupi di's dialogue was honestly just token, I still don't get why they did not give her more, as she could have easily pointed out their hypocrisy by using her own example, which she did not. I actually liked Pallavi's point of not being fair to Imlie, just because Malini was wronged. While it did not have any effect, it did make them pause for one second, but again BK then started with her neeyat, toh pata nahi how much of that actually stuck.

Anu's motive became clear to me, she wanted to ensure that both her daughter and her betrayal was avenged from Imlie in the worst way possible. Ek teer se usne 2 shikar kar diye - Avenged their betrayal and ensured that Adile face the fire for their choices. While I know she is a vile, vicious woman, her motivations are always very clear and her parkhi nazr is always spot on, be it regarding Adilie or even her own daughter. While she can see her daughter is lying about KC, she will not hesitate from using that relationship to suit her purpose of separating Malini from Adi, which suits our purpose as well. Hence AC is the biggest Adilie shipper.

I refuse to give Dev any more than a token line in all my discussions as he does not deserve any more. He is a spineless, brainless and self serving person (calling him by any animal name will be an insult to that animal) who will never amount to anything for anyone.

Baaki, hoping to see you in the discussion later, would love to hear your predictions on what we will see next.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Lovely review Aps


I am deeply saddened by todays episode😭. Sapne se zyaada batthar the elder ts ke reactions and words😡. Talk about imlies neeyat was beyond shocking to tolerate despite everything good she has done for the family. There is no redeeming them in my book. Disgraceful is the word😡. Imlie was so shattered by what she heard and it was far worse than expected. Bichari ki self worth ki dhajjiyan uda di😭🤗. Adi ko bhi itna shock laga sab bakwaas sunke ki uske aage apni patni ko sambhaalne ki himmat bhi nahi juta paaya.


Sundar is a true friend🤗❤️. Imlie ko yaad dilaaya ki koi jo bhi kahe uski aukaat ke baare me she is made for bigger things being a state topper and student of the month in her college. The dirty words of the elder tripathis cannot lessen the importance of all the progress she has made in her life under difficult circumstances. I am glad he was able to provide some soothing reassuring talk to her after the intolerable insults she was subject to.


Dev is a kamina through and through😡. Uski apni choti beti jisne uski wajah se zindagi me itni nainsaafi aur dukh already jheli hai uski support me kuch bhi naa karne ke baare main rathi bhar sharam bhi nahin. And his lovely elder daughter has to be asked why she is still holding off on the divorce by kc. Uski badi beti abhi bhi is crisis ke dauran adi ki zindagi me waapis ghusne ki soch rahi hai.


Are they now subjecting imlie to physical violence at the hands of radha and aparna too? Paani phenkna aur kambal ko violently kheenchna vomit inducing🤢. Bechari kaanp rahi thi kyunki usko threaten bhi kar rahe hai itni aggressively to pack her things. No physical or psychological abuse of this kind is justified. Will have to muster courage to keep watching

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Apsvenky

"You are more than the labels the world assigns you and have a long way to go to achieve your dreams" Sundar's words to Imlie struck my heart today & made me cry. These words will forever be the bastion for Imlie, to deal with the current situation and forge ahead with her dreams.

From the get go, I was able to see the actual emotions behind each character's reactions to the truth, and their motivations for that reaction. Be it the Tripathis or even AC, today everyone was just dealing with the aftermath of the truth and Adi's choices.

Saturday's statement to Adi by PT was answered by Rupi, who reminded everyone that Malini loves someone else. Now how long that excuse is going to keep the T's from trying to get AM back together, we will have to see. Malini expecting decency from her mother made me laugh. This woman has never given anybody a reason to expect any level of decency in her behavior in the last 200+ episodes, why does her daughter even try, I will never understand.

Today AC's motivations made sense to me from her perspective. She is a vindictive woman who wants to take revenge for her and her daughter's betrayal from the easiest target - Imlie. Is she right? Of course not. But her thought process and stand have always been very clear and consistent, unlike the other people in her family, who still flip flop so much, that it gets my head spinning. AC today asked very pointed questions to Malini, who was trying her best to convince both her mother & herself that everything leading upto this moment were own choices and she was happy with it. While I know she will flip the next second (which she did, I knew I could count on that) she did try to convince her parents (mainly her mom, coz she also has lost all hopes from her father to do anything. Dev just keeps proving that no one should keep any expectations from him, absolutely no one) to allow Adi & Imlie to live their lives peacefully.

At the T house, Radhaji started her "Samaj kya kahega jaap" and Adi was just done. He made it clear that we fall in love with a person and not the samaj. He is the least bothered what other people think of his marriage with Imlie and will not allow anything wrong to happen with her. Aparna tried to start her Malini jaap, which rebutted very well by Adi, who mentioned that he had apologized to Malini multiple times and finally Pallavi who correctly mentioned that just because Malini is wronged, they cannot do the same to Imlie when she is not at fault.

Today I finally understood why Radhaji & BK have had such a successful marriage, as both tend to think the exact same way. When BK tried to go all moral police and tag Imlie's actions as her "gande neeyat", his son came back to remind him of exactly all the actions that Imlie has done and try to understand exactly which one of them have "gande neeyat" attached to them. I am glad that here it was Nishant who tried to make BK understand that he did not misjudge Imlie then and this feeling of betrayal is what is causing them to unsee everything that Imlie has done for this family over this entire period of time. Everything that she has done, was now colored by the fact that she was doing this to phasao Adi in her jaal, just because she hid the truth from them. Radhaji went one step ahead to involve her parents in this as well, which got such a violent reaction from Adi, that even Imlie was surprised.

Aparna started to blame Imlie for doing everything to capture Adi & his family in her web of lies and tried to blame her other for teaching her all of this. Like we all expected, that statement finally broke Imlie's silence. She finally said that coming to the city was never her choice but she had to come out of majboori. How her mother shed tears of blood and how her dadda was ready to shed blood when they sent her away. How she never wanted to stay, but their love and support just made it difficult to go away. She never wanted to hurt anybody, be it Malini or the T family.

Aparna's reaction to her pleas instantly made me connect to Imlie's dialogue to Adi, when in jealousy he asked her to marry Prakash. She tells him that everytime he feels his heart melting for her, he feels guilty of cheating Malini and then lashes out at her to insult her and make her feel bad, so that she steps back & leaves him. Today Aparna did the exact same thing. While Imlie was making her case, Aparna was visibly melting and you could see that she was able to somewhat understand that Imlie was just a little girl stuck in a situation not of her choice. But because she felt that by melting she will do injustice to Mali's memory, she immediately shut down her feelings and insulted Imlie in the worst way she knew, just to push her away. Her anger was her defense mechanism to deal with this unexpected situation that both Adi & Imlie have put her in, just like her son.

Imlie just walks out of there to deal with everything on her own, leaving Adi to contemplate if what happened was a bad dream he could not wake out of. Nishant comes there and reminds Adi that life does not change in an instant and he needs to give the family time to come out of this shock.

Finally we get to see KC after a long time. While DC is not so keen on him, AC is willing to use him to keep Malini away from the T's and Adilie. This one scene showed me just how big of an Adilie shipper AC actually is. Just imagine how all of us were so worried that Malini will get herself involved in this situation to make her presence felt, but looks like AC is doing the heavy lifting to keep Malini away and let Imlie patao her in-laws on her own. Thank you lord for giving us AC😆.

KC & Malini's conversation is again a rinse and repeat of him trying to understand if she wants to move on and singing praises of how big a sacrifice she has made by giving up her pyaar for them. But he said one good thing - finish this naam ka rishta also & all of you move on with your lives. then he finally asked teh million dollar question - "Do you want to move on?" Made me laugh at how he put Malini in a delicate situation with this question, where either answer is going to take her down a path she does not want to go on.😆

Finally we get the best scene of the day. I am glad that out of everyone, Imlie chose to speak to Sundar. While I understand her motivation behind sharing her feelings with Sundar as he will be a neutral third person who can tell her what has been gnawing at her this entire time. Has she tried to go above her aukat by falling in love with and holding on to her relationship with Adi? Is she trying to see dreams beyond her "pay grade"? Sundar so beautifully explains that his advice to her was always mired in what he had learnt from childhood about his own position in society. How while he is happy with his place that society has defined for him, she is not like him in anyway. Meeting her made him understand how a person's status in society is defined by them, their thinking and their choices to make something of themselves. How her being state second and student of the month shows that despite what anyone says, her dreams and ambitions define her, not the labels that everyone wants to assign her to fit her in a box in their mind. He makes her realize now it may seem that she cannot match up to them now, but she will go very ahead in life to go much beyond what anybody expected and that he has full faith on her.

After a very long time Imlie has shown me a scene that really made me emotional. While it may look cliche to people and others may feel ke usne aisa kya kaha that we all already do not know. But what his words did then was apply balm on a very hurt soul. It reminded Imlie that her dreams and ambitions are what define her, not the words and insults that the T family hurled at her today. That no matter what anyone says, she is much more that what she was called today by people she trusted and loved. Reminds me of when a child who goes against their parents to follow their dreams and are constantly put down for following something that may seem trivial to them. How that propels them to stick their guns and do their best to succeed, just to show that their choice to follow through on their dreams was not wrong. Today Imlie is in that situation, and Sundar's words confirmed to her that fighting for Adi & her dreams are not wrong, no matter what anybody says.

The precap shows Aparna & Radhaji asking Imlie to pack up her potli. While it can go either way, my feeling is that they may ask her to move from the kona to a guest room maybe? Let the speculations begin.

Thanks for tagging.

Apart from sunder imlie scene and adhithya’s shock everything is expected.

Aparna will melt but take time as Adhithya to imlie.

More than imlie it is hard time for Adhithya.

@bold : optimism at its peak.

I also cannot process anything.. multiple photos have seen in normal suits and one with colour full but with no change in makeup… makes me confuse whether she leave or not.

I want Only thing this must not affect her studies.

Damn sure will not affect.. because Pooja day epiosde start with she seems to close her books.

As I said what ever Aparna says she will obey without asking.

But if she says to leave she must atleast send a message to Adhithya and go.

Adhithya seems to be not completed his punishments initially done to imlie till date .

Upcoming track whether they are going to show more emotions of imlie or Adhithya…

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: _Seera_

That scene with Aparna was so beautiful.. it’s gonna be a internal battle for Aparna to just be this TV serial ki saas.. she is good at heart but angry..


#sunlieforwin



Is aurat ne precap me uski bhabhi ke saath milke imlie ke mooh pe paani phenka aur iske kambal ko bhi violently yank kiya. Daayan ki tarah dono dekh rahi thi imlie like really threateningly. Agar rathi bhar ki insaaniyat bhi hothi tho no matter what one will never react this viciously. Itna low gira diya dono ko ki i dont know how they will be redeemed.😭i feel sad man. Kya sikha rahe he public ko?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Beautifully put❤️. Thank you @Aps your views really helped me to feel bit better. Otherwise I was more angry than disheartened.

Your title is also so apt. Today Sumbul shared story saying

To remember who you are, you need to forget what they told you to be

Last night, I was like we wont get Imlie-Sundar scene so soon..but cvs surprised us. Only good thing about todays episode was this scene.

When he first got prasad ka sheera, I was like Bhai kisine dekh liye toh phir rola pad jayega ..ki meetha kha rahi hai n when he started with apne chaddar dekh ke paav pasar ne chahiye...Not you too Sundar... but how beautifully he motivated her n uplifted her self esteem.... Lovely scene❤️


Senior Ts reached a new low today. So, they questioned everything about her... her intentions, her character, her integrity....why? just becoz she is from poor background. When Apu said Anu was right about you... somebody tell Apu then she was right about you all too. They also were happy Malini from rich family being their bahu n not for person as Malini then. Tripthis really deserved all the insults Anu served them...🤧

If my memory serves me correctly than...In all seniors, only CK didn't cross limits n asked logical questions to Aditya. His questions were all directed towards Adi n not Imlie. Small mercies.

You righty pointed out abt BK n B Kaki seems made for each other couple. BK seems stuck on that pic.. it was just comforting hug..Innohe usse lya samajh liye.

Regarding Apu,I loved the reference you made about Adi-Imlie scene... That made me feel bit better to take it. But I really hope we get a glimpse where we get to see Apu's fight with her heart n mind...I still want to believe that deep down Apu knows that Imlie is innocent girl caught in unavoidable circumstances. N I would like to see something like the scene we got when all Tripathi's thought Imlie ran away with all jewellry but it was Aditya who said she is jhalli does crazy stuff but she cant to this.. she is not dishonest.


Regarding Precap I really wish this time its dream. I dont want Apu to stoop so low... throwing her out like this even in anger doesn't go with her character.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: jojo_mojo

Kal pakka AI scene😎

I’m still hopeful adi bhaag ke jewellery store jaayega😆

by the way aparna and Radha imlie ko kahan shift kar rahi hain aditya k room mein  😆

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