A person's nature and signature doesn't change - Shaurya Sabherwal - Page 4

Does this mean Shaurya was faking the change which Anokhi made him a better person ?

So Shaurya will let Anokhi become another Aastha ?

Shaurya will never acknowledge Anokhi changing him for good ?

Will he remain the same Shaurya Sabherwal of 25 years ?

If he doesn't like Anokhi bringing good change in himself then why did he change ? Why did he remove his bitterness from his heart for his mom ? Just to impress Anokhi he faked his change ?

I am feeling so bad for Anokhi.

Is his ego more important than Anokhi ?

Ykw Harsha? There are things in this world that cannot be changed in a jiffy. Such as when an older person makes a mistake, we say 'there's no medicine for stupidity' (In my country we do 😅) & its a fact that another person cannot change an individual's mindset overnight or within few months. Ideas will clash, hopes will be crushed, arguments will happen so & so.

Shaurya still having the misogynistic brain is something I wanted to see from a long time because the way Anokhi told him on their confession day 'Aap bas pyaar mein hain' is absolutely correct. He was in love, blind to other aspects, ignorant of his own behaviour, feeling bad about his perspective from before but not completely out of it, trying to diminish how he was keen about having a wife to look after his family & himself, not a working wife just because he was in love!

It's just that since Sat epi, I've felt a disconnect. Maybe the way they're portraying the marriage & how they skip stuff like exams (Also college years, like WHAAA......T???? 😂😂) is beyond my thinking. I've gotten super busy in life since July beginning, so thankful for that so that I can think about other stuff except SAAKK properly 🤣 Otherwise my brain would go bonkers trynna find answers!

Just being honest girl, I don't wanna sound negative coz I think, aar ya paar I'm okay about whichever the decision makers have taken solely because I felt a disconnect. Each to their own though because I've gone through this sadness (or whatever) of losing a drama I've watched with attachment & learnt a lesson 🤷🏻 We have so many teens watching the drama who has to experience this as well, then only they'll grow..

Even making a small change in your personality trait might take several years, so how did you expect that a person who has been a hardcore misogynist since the last 25 years will change in just 15 days because he found somebody like Anokhi Bhalla?

Also what you've said; on point! How they made Shaurya so supportive of Anokhi made me think this is the kind of husband a girl ambitious as Anokhi should have but I was proved wrong. Im delighted the guy hasn't changed, whether I'm liking the content rn isn't the matter here. This guy was sh** since beginning & that nature cannot die within few months 🤪 But there's a proper time to show that & within the last 2 weeks, kya hi ukadhloge? & Anokhi, needs to open her eyes now! Pyaar mein pagal hona bohot hogaya 😂 This is probably why I adore her character but cannot relate on a personal level or something. I think a lot from my mind 😎

Um... Ramesh bhalla situation is another question I have. For mental & physical harassment they didn't give proper punishment to Vineet, didn't bring dj back for babli, so many errors, why should we expect them to drag this track? So unconvinced though I never expressed my issue with this guy being so supportive like anything. I didn't enjoy the haldi fiasco as well 🤡 - lo bol diya. Alright, at the pace some tracks are wrapped up in the show is insane. I've never said this.

Its like we think something will happen & an opposite happens, which makes us think achcha teek hai, they didn't drag this. But that's not the case mostly for a drama carrying out different issues like we have in SAAKK. Some points, tracks needs to be explored fully so that the audience is satisfied with the ending of it, they know that the makers completely justified or repelled something.

TejVi ka toh pata nahi par Idk what to think about these two weeks & Anokhi's exams being rushed & ugh... My brain is at two places..

Your thoughts Harsha! ❤️

Originally posted by: black.snowflake

Today's episode was LOVE! ❤️

I have always maintained that Shaurya was in love when he "changed". His need to have Anokhi in his life was beyond his ego and hence he agreed to everything she put forward without thinking about the long term impact. Maybe he himself believes that he had "changed" but for me his misogyny always was in the smaller things and not the big ones! (Aka job) "Humari zimmedaariyaan alag hai" . I don't think he even realised that his argument of support collapsed on itself with this line. Again conditioning. Another dialogue about night suit and how it's always at one place shows his discomfort with the change Anokhi is bringing. They will have a big clash soon!

What I absolutely loved again, how both of them as a couple walk away from family conflict. They just walk away.🤣 koi dragging nahi. Infact, Shaurya stayed mum in front of his family, it has more to do with the fact that even he did not know about her application and him saying anything would mean their joint front would break. Smart choice.

Anokhi is smart or atleast very particular about her dreams, she is slowly realising the same things as us, that Shaurya might not have changed. That he has supported her, YES! But never openly taken a stand for her dreams. (Infact shaan papa has done more here and I am like woah! 👍🏼) Maybe he believes she is strong enough or maybe he does not want conflict, whatever the case, he will soon have to make his choice. He is in a limbo.

I find tejvi interesting.. tej wants the bahu to submit as his male ego demands it and devi wants her gone as her fear of losing control over her son dictates that. Wonder what will happen next?

Devi..devi..devi..hit where it hurts the most. Devi knows shaurya does not care if anokhi fails doing her "house duties". He does not give a cent to her not working in the kitchen. But he cares about how her work will affect him also, their marriage. As long as he is no1 he does not care and bamn! Devi struck!

So, everything is coming back now. Including the ego which took a backseat in love. God, this storyline is beautiful! She is adamant, he is arrogant. Arghhhh...I am loving this clash. Sigh! A little more time 😕

As far as the TA thing goes, I think you can only be a TA in the same college you study, as you will have your classes too. Having said that she should move away post her ug from siac. Definitely!

Small points, loved that Shaurya has learned to talk vs shouting. And anokhi is her impulsive self. And the shakhi scene was super cute! And honestly required for the balance. Also, MR. Bhalla was painted white but I guess they tried building a backstory with raja there to justify it (not satisfying but I think we can guess why it was rushed now!) It was frustrating though...sigh!

Very nicely put👍I just wrote something similar in EDT… I was waiting for this track since I started watching this show… this real issues associated with wife having a career… husbands like Shaurya will always support their wife to complete studies… no issues with that but job??? not so much…especially if he is well capable to support his family financially, he will want to have his wife to be homemaker and take care of family and kids…i have seen so many such cases around where women despite being highly educated sacrificing their career due to family and regret for it… I really hope makers have alternative plan to sustain this show and this beautiful and real storyline….

Yes they have picked up a very nice track where Ss misogynist trait will pop up.He has seen Anokhi top in her exams but he is not sure if she can handle both responsibilities properly .I wud say he has not seen a single women in his family handling career n family so his doubt on anokhi is quite natursl plus devi adding fuel to fire wont help. now anokhi needs to gear up her game n understand her family members motives as Astha had warned her b4 leaving. I want to see why she s late for meeting may be devi kept her engaged at home so she doesnt rch on time or she got wrong time for meeting like her schedule.

Originally posted by: Coffee_Chips

Ykw Harsha? There are things in this world that cannot be changed in a jiffy. Such as when an older person makes a mistake, we say 'there's no medicine for stupidity' (In my country we do 😅) & its a fact that another person cannot change an individual's mindset overnight or within few months. Ideas will clash, hopes will be crushed, arguments will happen so & so.

Shaurya still having the misogynistic brain is something I wanted to see from a long time because the way Anokhi told him on their confession day 'Aap bas pyaar mein hain' is absolutely correct. He was in love, blind to other aspects, ignorant of his own behaviour, feeling bad about his perspective from before but not completely out of it, trying to diminish how he was keen about having a wife to look after his family & himself, not a working wife just because he was in love!

It's just that since Sat epi, I've felt a disconnect. Maybe the way they're portraying the marriage & how they skip stuff like exams (Also college years, like WHAAA......T???? 😂😂) is beyond my thinking. I've gotten super busy in life since July beginning, so thankful for that so that I can think about other stuff except SAAKK properly 🤣 Otherwise my brain would go bonkers trynna find answers!

Just being honest girl, I don't wanna sound negative coz I think, aar ya paar I'm okay about whichever the decision makers have taken solely because I felt a disconnect. Each to their own though because I've gone through this sadness (or whatever) of losing a drama I've watched with attachment & learnt a lesson 🤷🏻 We have so many teens watching the drama who has to experience this as well, then only they'll grow..

Even making a small change in your personality trait might take several years, so how did you expect that a person who has been a hardcore misogynist since the last 25 years will change in just 15 days because he found somebody like Anokhi Bhalla?

Also what you've said; on point! How they made Shaurya so supportive of Anokhi made me think this is the kind of husband a girl ambitious as Anokhi should have but I was proved wrong. Im delighted the guy hasn't changed, whether I'm liking the content rn isn't the matter here. This guy was sh** since beginning & that nature cannot die within few months 🤪 But there's a proper time to show that & within the last 2 weeks, kya hi ukadhloge? & Anokhi, needs to open her eyes now! Pyaar mein pagal hona bohot hogaya 😂 This is probably why I adore her character but cannot relate on a personal level or something. I think a lot from my mind 😎

Um... Ramesh bhalla situation is another question I have. For mental & physical harassment they didn't give proper punishment to Vineet, didn't bring dj back for babli, so many errors, why should we expect them to drag this track? So unconvinced though I never expressed my issue with this guy being so supportive like anything. I didn't enjoy the haldi fiasco as well 🤡 - lo bol diya. Alright, at the pace some tracks are wrapped up in the show is insane. I've never said this.

Its like we think something will happen & an opposite happens, which makes us think achcha teek hai, they didn't drag this. But that's not the case mostly for a drama carrying out different issues like we have in SAAKK. Some points, tracks needs to be explored fully so that the audience is satisfied with the ending of it, they know that the makers completely justified or repelled something.

TejVi ka toh pata nahi par Idk what to think about these two weeks & Anokhi's exams being rushed & ugh... My brain is at two places..

Your thoughts Harsha! ❤️

You have said everything I wanted to say. The surprise wedding for Anokhi was the time when Shaurya nature came to the forefront. In fact everything about SAAKK started going downhill from then on.

Just as well, the my addiction has died down now.

A couple of months would have given a better ending, now either we have another Asthaa or everything will be rushed.

Originally posted by: kiranpri

You have said everything I wanted to say. The surprise wedding for Anokhi was the time when Shaurya nature came to the forefront. In fact everything about SAAKK started going downhill from then on.

Just as well, the my addiction has died down now.

A couple of months would have given a better ending, now either we have another Asthaa or everything will be rushed.

I did say I'm disconnected but I love this show. The last I watched with this much of dedication was Bepannaah in 2018. Colors ruined it way badly but there wasn't a disconnect for me anywhere. Ones who has watched BP might get my point.

SAAKK deals with pretty serious issues. The fight between heart & mind, ideologies, how a woman sees herself in the society & how a man wants a woman to be in the society etc. So that's why the rush in this particular track seems on-off for me, but if they've decided to go hot star route, im excited!!!! Then that's something; a proper story about Anokhi's struggles after marriage, proper tracks unfolding & closing at correct time will obviously keep viewers entertained. We need min 3 months for that or if cannot, then at least 2 🤷🏻

I feel bad for the fans who take this as a mere love story though LOL 😆 (Teens yk?)

To me in today's episode Shaurya did not come across as misogynist. He is not against Anokhi taking up the job. Its the timing and the fact that he was not taken into confidence.

When I saw Anokhi gladly announcing her job application in front of family in last episode, my reaction was "What's wrong with this girl? Is she out of mind? What does she expect from everyone in this house?". They have been against her doing the job or studying anyway. So it was very obvious that they will be all upset hearing this news. Yet she is happily announcing it.

When you get married be it a male or female, you take on additional responsibilities. And you have to balance these responsibilities. You can't give up your dreams for family responsibility and in the same way you can't give up your family responsibilities for your dreams. And that's true for both male and female.

There will be times in life when you have to keep your dreams over your family and times when you have to keep your family before dreams. In my opinion, right now it was time for Anokhi to put her family before her dreams. I agree that the demand from her family is unjustified and anyway they will make sure that she fails to balance her studies and family responsibilities. So it becomes even more important for Anokhi to try harder to keep up with her family responsibilities. In normal circumstances it would be a good opportunity to be an AT in your third year but dont think it will be huge set back for your career if you dont do that. I am not too aware of teaching career and may be wrong here.

But today as a working women, I agreed with Shaurya and dont think he was being misogynist.

Hii...

After watching todays epi only one word that is in my mind is utter disppointment..

Firstly, Anokhi should have said about this TA thing to Shaurya and then to family members..

Shaurya anger is not totally justified..

He is expecting too much from Anokhi knowing about her dreams, aspirations etc...

I mean woh sochta hai she will do evrything a bahu does and also manages her dreams...

Its soo crap...

BM knows how to manipulate Shaurya but now its Shauray call....

About precap...

Shaurya anger is justified...

Any person will feel bad if he/ she waits for long and the other person does not arrive..

Lets c why our Anokhi gets late...

Frankly speaking guyzz I donot want excess supportive Shaurya but such a Shaurya who analysis things before taking action...

In ITV there are many ML who just blame FL without knowing full mattet and this all leads to MU...

Our Shaurya character is not like typically ML of ITV.

I just hope the remaing days of our loved show goes down the hill...

Hope the portray a good and meaningful ending...

Originally posted by: butterturnips

Since our forum has been thanda after all the bad news, I thought we should better let things take it's own course and be back to discussing the story!

Not a negative review but a FACT! Shaurya Sabherwal is just like how he had started - a misogynist 😆 and today's episode is quite a proof of that, and we knew somewhere in our heart that this is going to come. If you guys had thought that a misogynist has been whitewashed in this progressive story, well you have to go and watch the episode.

Shaurya's mind since the age of 5, has been crushed and moulded in such a way that now it's already too late to get things right. 25 years of conditioning.... a great 25 years! 💔 It will take a long long time. Even making a small change in your personality trait might take several years, so how did you expect that a person who has been a hardcore misogynist since the last 25 years will change in just 15 days because he found somebody like Anokhi Bhalla? 😆Do I need to paste the dialogues and write a whole essay on this?

And honestly, I'm still not able to digest Rami Bhalla's sudden transformation as the 'superhero dad' who was the main villain of the story, let alone TejVi's redemption 🤪 I don't know how they'll be covering up the story in just 2 weeks! 🤔

Harshu!

What a title!

True, its a fact Shaurya's 25 years of conditioning under Badi Maa's and Bade Papa's exclusive tutoring can't be overlooked. It takes time.

My major concern is this. Apart from ShaKhi, what drew me was this complex equation between shaan-noor-Shaurya.

The flip in his behaviour since wedding track started is quite unsettling. He, approaching Aastha on his own was definitely a huge step. But he didn't dig deep into what actually happened with his mom-dad 25 years ago. He just rushed into accepting her, in 1-2 episodes. Tick tick 1.

Not once did he sit with Shaan and talk abt the past. He never confrobted the elders for the crap they fed him abt his mother, for destroying his innocence abt a child's love for his mom.

But i think it can be blamed on the rush to cover as much as thry could, in short lapse of time. The sword was dangling since then.

Rami Bhalla! Now this man's redemption is oh so inconsistent. I don't wanna talk abt him. Essay type ho jayega. 😆

I haven't watched the episode yet. The excitement to wake up early n watch the episode has worn off. I watch it with family at night. Once a day is enough.

Drama is needed, yes. Too sugary lovey dovey will soon make it all boring. But consistency is also needed. N right now, none make sense.

Only characters consistent are the villains. 😆

Alok is still the murky plotter.

Kitty Bebo are still brats.

BM n BP are still the ruling king n queen at Sabherwals.

Only exception is Shagun. She is still undetermined. Kya hai?

Saying all this, i still love this show a lot.

What saakk is showing right now is very realistic...

Shaurya has to an xtend moulded his ways bt not changed completly (no1 changes at core so easily) he is trying to be supportive bt also has his own insecurities plus family brainwashing...al dis will deftly add strain to his relationship wid anokhi

Anokhi wants dreams n love n believes shaurya will support bt shez oblivious abt d family planning n plotting...realistically she cant be a super human best in all work...she will falter in some duties as a wife as student as a teacher...she needs to undersrand kaunse role ko kitna n kab importance dena hota hai...

Deir difference in soch is deir biggest weakness n deir love is deir biggest strength...

It will eventually al boil down to how much dey really wanna be wid each oder.. as a couple r dey willing to bend n adjust 4 each oder or its better to drift apart

Will d love turn sour n bitter wid daily adjustment or will it make dem more stronger to stay together inspite of al d hurdles...

Bottom line is to keep d relationship moving dey both will hafta act smart...samajna hoga based on issue k kiska turn hai adjust karne ka d one in fault line shud bend n dont let d mutual love n respect for eo wear out only den dey can be successful...every married life shud be like dat u give some u take some u cant keep sacrifising nor u can xpect d same 4m d oder partner...marriage is companionship whr both needs to play deir roles equally tabhi baat banti hai...

small tiffs n happy days atey jatey rahegey bt d will to be together is al dat matters...

D will die d marriage breaks d will stays n everythng is worked upon gladly ❤