Roothe huye Babusahib - Page 15

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yes, I also feel we will get another round of Imlie agreeing to tell the truth and wanting to give Adi ka saath, but then koi aur tamasha ho jaayega which will again stop them from revealing the truth for whatever reason 🤷‍♀️

I have a feeling it’s going to be another round of sindoor tamasha 🙈…..Imlie will put on sindoor and maybe again try to say publicly ki SM ke aashirwaad se lagaya hai but she will again get accused of being the other woman by AC or someone and that might be a blow to Imlie ka self esteem again and make her retreat from telling the truth for now.

My bet is also on this. As shadi ka sach itne jaldi nahi aanewala samne. I think Adi may put sindoor n later may be Anu will notice her sindoor n create ruckus. Anu ka tamasha dekha nahi jata. Uff last week she did whole Dev being father kand now college n thn this sindoor uske beech mein Beti aake chilla ke gayi.. Imlie ki kundali mein kaunsi dasha chal rahi haiPoor girl

Originally posted by: S_n_t

Iss hisab se makers are planning to keep Aadi convincing Imlie to tell the truth for 4 years or Imlie guilty for breaking her sister marriage forever 😆 (I really hope not, Aadile story has many other aspects that can be very interesting and dramatic even, if handled correctly, but if they want to stick to this umpteen time shown family drama, keep going in rounds around this complicated relationship situation without ever actually going past it, then it’s not worth for me at least. I am choosing to have faith in makers who came up with the show it has been so far, could be too much optimism from my end, lets see how long it lasts).

there is another way out, it’s given by Aadi only earlier, Aaditya should move out of both sisters life, let them play ‘Kaun banega mahan sister’ forever, fir dekhna ek dusare ko kaat khaengi ye behane. 😆 T’s will also face consequences of ignoring their son over (not so real) bahu.
Mumbai chala jaye, focus on his career aur agar woh bhi nahi hota toh sanyasi ban jaye anyhow his life doesn’t exist without Imlie then chod hi de.

lol no, I don’t think it will take 4 years also 😆…..but this is the basic plot from the original also vis a vis the guilt always hanging over Adilie’s life so that has to be taken in stride if one wants to watch the show 🤷‍♀️😆.

We all have our days when it all gets too much for us with the drag and things going around in a circle. The daily rhythm is mostly frustrating and draining 😆….but sometimes there are sweet rewards of meaningful progression for Adi-Imlie even in the middle of all this convoluted mess, so I guess we kinda masochistically hang on for that 🤷‍♀️😂. But I think it’s useful to try to maintain a certain level of detachment from the overall plot given how convoluted it is with the constant forcing in and propping up of Malini. Woh toh rahega hi in some capacity throughout the story. As long as the Adi-Imlie core is maintained, the rest can be tolerated.

There will never be complete freedom from Didi coz the story decrees it as so that Adilie keep making allowances for her to interfere in their lives for different reasons. 🤷‍♀️….so Adilie are never going to have a peaceful married life away from her faltu tamashe. Might as well brace yourself for that if you want to keep watching 😆

Originally posted by: shalu79

My bet is also on this. As shadi ka sach itne jaldi nahi aanewala samne. I think Adi may put sindoor n later may be Anu will notice her sindoor n create ruckus. Anu ka tamasha dekha nahi jata. Uff last week she did whole Dev being father kand now college n thn this sindoor uske beech mein Beti aake chilla ke gayi.. Imlie ki kundali mein kaunsi dasha chal rahi haiPoor girl

Yes, it’s quite likely that Adi will want to put sindoor on Imlie as a part of giving her her rights as his wife cuz of whatever pooja/havan is going on in the house and that very symbol will again become the cause of tamasha once AC sees it.

AC ka tamasha aajkal kaafi frequency se rinse repeat kar rahe hain without much breaks 🤷‍♀️😆

Remains to be seen what the fallout of this new round of sindoor tamasha will be then. Didi bhi aayegi phir se muh banane on seeing sindoor in Imlie ki maang 😆 and maybe also to say the token “stop it, mom” 😆

Originally posted by: .SNOWWHITE.

Arrey he was also giving dhamki today.

When Imlie said she will leave hamesha ke liye if he didn't eat🤣

You saw na what happened when you go for hours and see what happens if leave me for ever Dekh Lena🤣

Pagal Aadmi. Aaj alag hi level dha Adi😆

(bold) that was very cute. kaise blanket wrap karke bola adi. 🤣

tantrum king. 😆

Forgot to elaborate on this earlier but I think it’s worth clarifying….

Every character in this show is flawed but the difference usually is around intent.

In Adi’s case, him clinging on to the KC-Malini relationship being legit as cover to reduce his guilt really doesn’t put him in much of a grey zone to me 🤷‍♀️. Malini herself gave that excuse to Adi when she started this lie to save face. So if he clings to it in order to not feel as bad about moving on in life towards his happiness, how does that make him a bad person?

A little basic selfishness is there in every human being. The selfishness to atleast try to find and savor your happiness. Adi’s happiness lies with Imlie but he also doesn’t want to feel bad about Malini supposedly still being in love with him and feeling bad seeing him with Imlie. So he is consoling himself as well as Imlie with the thought that Malini has found someone else and she’s not hung up on him anymore.

I’m not sure when and how the onus of ensuring Malini’s happiness landed on Adi or Imlie’s shoulders 🤷‍♀️. You can never make everyone happy in this world. Adi and Imlie are trying whatever little they can to spare pain to others while still being true to their emotions. They have to live their life. No one else can do that for them. Not even the mahaan Didi they both prop up.

Is it shortsighted of Adi to not see the obvious signs of Malini still being hung up on him? Sure you can make that argument. What I don’t buy is how Adi starts being held responsible for Malini’s own inability to take responsibility for her choices and actions. At no point has Adi compelled Malini to be with him. If he is avoiding the possibility of her still being hung up on him, that’s a basic human thing to want to avoid complications. He’s not directly leading her on for anything and he’s making it clear he only considers her a friend. So then to hold him responsible for Malini ke delusions and expectations, I don’t get that 🤷‍♀️

He’s doing what he can to try and free himself and Imlie from the otherwise omnipresent guilt in their lives. It’s a very small and human thing to try to do that much and he’s not harming anyone with asserting that Malini loves KC. It’s his hope that this be true so that everyone can have a happy partner who loves them. If it doesn’t turn out to be true, he will feel sad for Malini but that still won’t stop him from wanting to be happy with the one he actually loves.

Adi is facing the consequences of involving Malini in his life to begin with but I don’t buy the argument that at this point when he’s clearly told her the full truth, he is still expected to manage her lies and delusions if she spins up a fake boyfriend 🤷‍♀️….

Yeah he doesn’t really have a genuine friendship with her when he’s so clueless about what she really thinks and does but that still doesn’t make him liable in my eyes for the lies she’s started. Why blame him for latching on to an easy excuse she provided when it isn’t hurting anyone? 🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Forgot to elaborate on this earlier but I think it’s worth clarifying….

Every character in this show is flawed but the difference usually is around intent.

In Adi’s case, him clinging on to the KC-Malini relationship being legit as cover to reduce his guilt really doesn’t put him in much of a grey zone to me 🤷‍♀️. Malini herself gave that excuse to Adi when she started this lie to save face. So if he clings to it in order to not feel as bad about moving on in life towards his happiness, how does that make him a bad person?

A little basic selfishness is there in every human being. The selfishness to atleast try to find and savor your happiness. Adi’s happiness lies with Imlie but he also doesn’t want to feel bad about Malini supposedly still being in love with him and feeling bad seeing him with Imlie. So he is consoling himself as well as Imlie with the thought that Malini has found someone else and she’s not hung up on him anymore.

I’m not sure when and how the onus of ensuring Malini’s happiness landed on Adi or Imlie’s shoulders 🤷‍♀️. You can never make everyone happy in this world. Adi and Imlie are trying whatever little they can to spare pain to others while still being true to their emotions. They have to live their life. No one else can do that for them. Not even the mahaan Didi they both prop up.

Is it shortsighted of Adi to not see the obvious signs of Malini still being hung up on him? Sure you can make that argument. What I don’t buy is how Adi starts being held responsible for Malini’s own inability to take responsibility for her choices and actions. At no point has Adi compelled Malini to be with him. If he is avoiding the possibility of her still being hung up on him, that’s a basic human thing to want to avoid complications. He’s not directly leading her on for anything and he’s making it clear he only considers her a friend. So then to hold him responsible for Malini ke delusions and expectations, I don’t get that 🤷‍♀️

He’s doing what he can to try and free himself and Imlie from the otherwise omnipresent guilt in their lives. It’s a very small and human thing to try to do that much and he’s not harming anyone with asserting that Malini loves KC. It’s his hope that this be true so that everyone can have a happy partner who loves them. If it doesn’t turn out to be true, he will feel sad for Malini but that still won’t stop him from wanting to be happy with the one he actually loves.

Adi is facing the consequences of involving Malini in his life to begin with but I don’t buy the argument that at this point when he’s clearly told her the full truth, he is still expected to manage her lies and delusions if she spins up a fake boyfriend 🤷‍♀️….

Yeah he doesn’t really have a genuine friendship with her when he’s so clueless about what she really thinks and does but that still doesn’t make him liable in my eyes for the lies she’s started. Why blame him for latching on to an easy excuse she provided when it isn’t hurting anyone? 🤷‍♀️

Agree with all but esp bold..as you said one can only try to make someone happy but happiness is not a switch you can turn on..and to be honest nobody even tries that much the bare minimum ke dusra hurt na ho In the process. These 2 are doing that itself shows how big they are as humans they know they cannot guarantee and khushiyan dhoond ke nahi laa sakte but what they can do is being supportive of her that she is finding her own.. it does eases the guilt on them that yeah in the process she got hurt.adi wants her to be happy on general basis ke mere saath nahi atleast she is finding it somewhere else..he sees it as a reprive ke it will make up for her dukhs..life goes on. he is not responsible for finding that caz it is her life her choice her decisions .. they can only find solace in the fact that she is finding support and saath along the way caz yeh divorce to hona hi hai ya toh roke kar lo ya try to do it mutually so they are happy as chalo acha hai something is better than nothing but that is about it as far as adi is concerned..as I said earlier too ya toh kisi ke liye itna bhi wish karlo bohat hai caz people are selfish enough ke apne ilawa koi aur dikhaayi nahi deta toh the fact that they are giving this much consideration does make them get so much more love from me yes it frustrates me but it shows me what kind of human beings adi imlie are..caz otherwise claims to didi bhi karti hai but does she look happy on inki khushi no.. does she still want to come and ruin their happiness yes.. and yehi farak Hai..

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Forgot to elaborate on this earlier but I think it’s worth clarifying….

Every character in this show is flawed but the difference usually is around intent.

In Adi’s case, him clinging on to the KC-Malini relationship being legit as cover to reduce his guilt really doesn’t put him in much of a grey zone to me 🤷‍♀️. Malini herself gave that excuse to Adi when she started this lie to save face. So if he clings to it in order to not feel as bad about moving on in life towards his happiness, how does that make him a bad person?

A little basic selfishness is there in every human being. The selfishness to atleast try to find and savor your happiness. Adi’s happiness lies with Imlie but he also doesn’t want to feel bad about Malini supposedly still being in love with him and feeling bad seeing him with Imlie. So he is consoling himself as well as Imlie with the thought that Malini has found someone else and she’s not hung up on him anymore.

I’m not sure when and how the onus of ensuring Malini’s happiness landed on Adi or Imlie’s shoulders 🤷‍♀️. You can never make everyone happy in this world. Adi and Imlie are trying whatever little they can to spare pain to others while still being true to their emotions. They have to live their life. No one else can do that for them. Not even the mahaan Didi they both prop up.

Is it shortsighted of Adi to not see the obvious signs of Malini still being hung up on him? Sure you can make that argument. What I don’t buy is how Adi starts being held responsible for Malini’s own inability to take responsibility for her choices and actions. At no point has Adi compelled Malini to be with him. If he is avoiding the possibility of her still being hung up on him, that’s a basic human thing to want to avoid complications. He’s not directly leading her on for anything and he’s making it clear he only considers her a friend. So then to hold him responsible for Malini ke delusions and expectations, I don’t get that 🤷‍♀️

He’s doing what he can to try and free himself and Imlie from the otherwise omnipresent guilt in their lives. It’s a very small and human thing to try to do that much and he’s not harming anyone with asserting that Malini loves KC. It’s his hope that this be true so that everyone can have a happy partner who loves them. If it doesn’t turn out to be true, he will feel sad for Malini but that still won’t stop him from wanting to be happy with the one he actually loves.

Adi is facing the consequences of involving Malini in his life to begin with but I don’t buy the argument that at this point when he’s clearly told her the full truth, he is still expected to manage her lies and delusions if she spins up a fake boyfriend 🤷‍♀️….

Yeah he doesn’t really have a genuine friendship with her when he’s so clueless about what she really thinks and does but that still doesn’t make him liable in my eyes for the lies she’s started. Why blame him for latching on to an easy excuse she provided when it isn’t hurting anyone? 🤷‍♀️

Very well said!!

Adi is not a person who looks deeper into feelings or relationships. Its all face values for him. His 7 year relationship is proof of that. If he was a person who would have analyzed and thought about relationship intricacies, it would not have taken Imlie entering his life for him to realize that his relationship with Malini is anything but perfect. He was told by everyone she is perfect for him and he took that as the truth of his life. He was told by Malini that they are they ideal couple and he took as a statement. Similarly, when Malini said that KC is the one for her, he has no reason to look further. This has been the base of their relationship from the beginning. She tells, he listens and follows unless its affects his ideals or works and now Imlie. So blaming him for being clueless is really not fair because this is him.

He is the same with all his family members. He is not a person who delves deeper into relationship and feelings. Even with Imlie, he is the same and takes most of the things on face value but with Imlie because of his feelings or how their relationship was formed, he has a deeper connect and hence understands her more. May be because of their circumstances, he was forced to look beyond the surface which have resulted in this understanding and feelings that they share and they keep growing with every situation they faced and the only reason he takes the time to do it is because she and her happiness matters to him a lot.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Agree with all but esp bold..as you said one can only try to make someone happy but happiness is not a switch you can turn on..and to be honest nobody even tries that much the bate minimum ke dusra hurt na ho I thr process. These 2 are doing that itself shows how big they are as humans they know they cannot guarantee and khushiyan dhoond ke nahi laa sakte but what they can do is being supportive of she is finding her own.. it does eases the guot on them that yeah in the process she got hurt.adi wants her to be happy on general basis ke mere saath nahi atleast she is finding it somewhere else..he sees it as a reprive ke it will make up for her dukhs..life goes on. he is not responsible for finding that caz it is her life her choice her decisions .. they can only find solace in the fact that she is finding support and saath along the way caz yeh divorce to hina hi hai ya toh roke kar lo ya try to do it mutually so they are happy as chalo acha hai something is better than nothing but that is about it as far as adi is concerned..as I said earlier too ya toh kisi ke liye itna bhi wish karlo ya people are selfish enough ke aone liye koi air dikhaayi nahi deta toh the fact that they are giving this much consideration does make them get so much more love from me yes it frustrates me but it shows me what kind of human beings asi inlie are..caz otherwise claims to didj bhi karti hai but does she look happy on inki khushi no.. does she still want to come and ruin their happiness yes.. and yehi farak Hai..

Word to the bold especially. It frustrates me too that they fixate more on their guilt about Malini than managing their own relationship, but yes it makes me respect their large heartedness on a level ki genuinely apne se upar kisi ke liye itna soch sakte hain. Unlike Didi who just does upar se bakwaas and jal bhun jaati hai on actually seeing Adi-Imlie happy together.


Sabka dil Imlie jitna bada nahin hota jo AM ki fights bhi khud hi patch up karne mein lagi rehti thi coz she genuinely cared about Malini ki happiness.

The other thing is that people try to make it sound like Adi supposedly led Malini on for 7 years with promises of love so now he is liable for any unhappiness she feels over him not being with her🙄….again, this need to lay all onus on Adi like he didn’t continue to make an attempt to tell the truth to Malini at many points as he could and even after he realized his true emotions. Matlab itna bada aspect of this story is conveniently zoned out to victimize Malini and paint Adi as her permanent culprit for not understanding what they had was not love and for now not really understanding her twisted lies and games in their BFF mode either. Bhai yeh saara expectation Adi se hi kyun hai? Just cuz Malini is completely empty headed, Adi is liable for all her unhappiness?

Jhoot Malini bole to fake her emotions DELIBERATELY for another guy and phir bhi galti Adi ki hai for wanting it to be true so that he can be happy with Imlie? 🤷‍♀️😂

Adi ka Moon jaap was not done deliberately or consciously unlike Malini’s current lies. It was all subconscious because he was not in touch with his core truth and emotions. Like I said, INTENT matters in how people end up making mistakes in this story. All of Malini’s lies are DELIBERATE to save her own behind. While in Adilie ka case, most of the lies were told either cuz of subconscious confusions or to spare others from hurt. There again they were able to look beyond themselves but Didi tells major lies to prop up herself or put down others and still claims to be the only victim.

Sorry I can’t hold Adi liable for lies started by Malini 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Forgot to elaborate on this earlier but I think it’s worth clarifying….

Every character in this show is flawed but the difference usually is around intent.

In Adi’s case, him clinging on to the KC-Malini relationship being legit as cover to reduce his guilt really doesn’t put him in much of a grey zone to me 🤷‍♀️. Malini herself gave that excuse to Adi when she started this lie to save face. So if he clings to it in order to not feel as bad about moving on in life towards his happiness, how does that make him a bad person?

A little basic selfishness is there in every human being. The selfishness to atleast try to find and savor your happiness. Adi’s happiness lies with Imlie but he also doesn’t want to feel bad about Malini supposedly still being in love with him and feeling bad seeing him with Imlie. So he is consoling himself as well as Imlie with the thought that Malini has found someone else and she’s not hung up on him anymore.

I’m not sure when and how the onus of ensuring Malini’s happiness landed on Adi or Imlie’s shoulders 🤷‍♀️. You can never make everyone happy in this world. Adi and Imlie are trying whatever little they can to spare pain to others while still being true to their emotions. They have to live their life. No one else can do that for them. Not even the mahaan Didi they both prop up.

Is it shortsighted of Adi to not see the obvious signs of Malini still being hung up on him? Sure you can make that argument. What I don’t buy is how Adi starts being held responsible for Malini’s own inability to take responsibility for her choices and actions. At no point has Adi compelled Malini to be with him. If he is avoiding the possibility of her still being hung up on him, that’s a basic human thing to want to avoid complications. He’s not directly leading her on for anything and he’s making it clear he only considers her a friend. So then to hold him responsible for Malini ke delusions and expectations, I don’t get that 🤷‍♀️

He’s doing what he can to try and free himself and Imlie from the otherwise omnipresent guilt in their lives. It’s a very small and human thing to try to do that much and he’s not harming anyone with asserting that Malini loves KC. It’s his hope that this be true so that everyone can have a happy partner who loves them. If it doesn’t turn out to be true, he will feel sad for Malini but that still won’t stop him from wanting to be happy with the one he actually loves.

Adi is facing the consequences of involving Malini in his life to begin with but I don’t buy the argument that at this point when he’s clearly told her the full truth, he is still expected to manage her lies and delusions if she spins up a fake boyfriend 🤷‍♀️….

Yeah he doesn’t really have a genuine friendship with her when he’s so clueless about what she really thinks and does but that still doesn’t make him liable in my eyes for the lies she’s started. Why blame him for latching on to an easy excuse she provided when it isn’t hurting anyone? 🤷‍♀️

I think a lot of people are unable to accept that the reformed Adi can still be selfish. They feel that he should be more considerate to Malini's feelings as he considers her his best friend and gehri dost.

The thing is Adi has always been this way with everyone except Imlie and that has been his character from day one. His involvement in other's lives be it Malini or his own family has always been surface level. So now even if he is able to see that Malini may not have moved in, he is willing to cling to her lie that she loves KC because as you said he does not want to increase complications by digging into something that can have an adverse affect on his relationship with Imlie. Is he being selfish - Yes. Is that wrong? Of course not. He has never given any signal to Malini in any way for her to think he has any lingering feelings towards her except friendship, despite their 7 years ka saath. He has maintained his stance that he loves Imlie and wants to continue his relationship with her on multiple occasions, so MU ki baat toh honi nahi chahiye. Like he said even yesterday that if his family did not know, she should have known better as she is aware of the situation.

Adi and Imlie have been very considerate to Malini's feelings from day one, even when their relationship was not defined by love. They have always tried to make sure that she does not get hurt due to their marriage and have been hurt themselves in the process. Toh agar abhi apni khushi ke liye they want to belive what is being told to them as truth, it feels unfair to blame them in any way.

Originally posted by: pamk06

Very well said!!

Adi is not a person who looks deeper into feelings or relationships. Its all face values for him. His 7 year relationship is proof of that. If he was a person who would have analyzed and thought about relationship intricacies, it would not have taken Imlie entering his life for him to realize that his relationship with Malini is anything but perfect. He was told by everyone she is perfect for him and he took that as the truth of his life. He was told by Malini that they are they ideal couple and he took as a statement. Similarly, when Malini said that KC is the one for her, he has no reason to look further. This has been the base of their relationship from the beginning. She tells, he listens and follows unless its affects his ideals or works and now Imlie. So blaming him for being clueless is really not fair because this is him.

He is the same with all his family members. He is not a person who delves deeper into relationship and feelings. Even with Imlie, he is the same and takes most of the things on face value but with Imlie because of his feelings or how their relationship was formed, he has a deeper connect and hence understands her more. May be because of their circumstances, he was forced to look beyond the surface which have resulted in this understanding and feelings that they share and they keep growing with every situation they faced and the only reason he takes the time to do it is because she and her happiness matters to him a lot.

Thanks, Pam!

Agree with the rest of your post but slightly disagree with the bold.

Agreed that Adi takes most things at face value coz he’s not really cared about much in his life other than his work. Even all the Ts in general take things on face value too or they would make more of an attempt to know their own son na 🤷‍♀️😆

But in the case of Imlie, Adi never took things at face value from day one. Cuz he connected, he cared unlike with anything in his life. She’s always moved him in fundamental ways like no one else could. It wasn’t just the life or death situations that ultimately bonded and created a deeper understanding between them but even initially, Adi had a curiosity in wanting to know more about Imlie, her thoughts and her aspirations. That spark in her fascinated him and tab bhi it was not about face value or he wouldn’t have noticed that spark in her.

Imlie actually is the ONLY one with whom Adi DOESNT take things at face value 😆….because she is the only one that makes him CARE enough to WANT to know every little thing, to want to delve deeper, scratch the surface… if he took things at face value with Imlie toh aaj tak yehi soch ke baitha hota she doesn’t love him 😆….but it is only with Imlie that he shares the connect to tune into his emotions, to pursue his emotions and want to share them rather than just going through the motions of life. That is the biggest truth of his life.

Imlie is the exception to how Adi treats every other person in his life. Is it really fair to expect him to pay the same level of attention to others when he can’t muster GENUINE interest in what they think or do? 🤷‍♀️😂….He is only able to show that for Imlie coz only she brings out those genuine emotions and regard from him. Yehi sach hai.