Originally posted by: Indira1211
you know I watched the episode twice,,first online and then on tv,,and initially I thought it might be a dream.. but now I’m thinking that it may not..we are talking about Anirudh and Bondita,..these two love each other very much,..yes it’s not romantic love on anirudhs side…but Bondita was his reason for living,.and it was his dream to see her as this independent young woman..so I think if they show him melt when he sees her it will actually be the more appropriate reaction than him being cold with her..anirudhs love for Bondita is how you love a family member ..it’s unconditional..and we can remain aloof when they not around..but when we see them we soften..so I really hope it’s not a dream…and he does put the robe around her and she does get to touch his feet..because this is what she always wanted,,,.He wanted to kill himself when he thought he couldn’t educate her,,.so when she stands in front of him with their dreams accomplished..it’s going to be hard to turn away from her,,🤷🏻♀️
Same for Bon if u see her love is actually right not for man who made her this strong and empowered ,the girl who never understood how her innoncenxe was curbed by her own fmaily members ,it si that love and respect who gave her childhood back to her.,she herself knows ani always wanted to make her educated and be firm for herself and he ontl recognised her tark shakti and made her respectable barrister
Her expressions I did not find romantic or blushy -she is a grown girl Aanchal ke expressions hai yeh how happy she was feeling -people said she did this only so that ani can maker her wear from Bon side too it is not that love
Perception lies in what we are seeing and analysing
Even ani ahve these expressions when Bon was a child - we used to adore it and amek a hype of it
Uspe rtm baje hoga isse zyada best scene koi nahi hai
It is unconditional love
When ani and now Bon also knows they have a mazboot maan ka rishta then who are we to judge
Bon is not an emotional fool to expect ani to lover her back or marry -she will always be his Bon and he will always be her sakha babu
Anirudh gave Bon life of London to heal her wounds which when she was younger only he knew what she was suffering from and now she realises that too that if I am able to live freely it is becuas of ani
The audiences see it from one side because we also are sued to these things jabki Bon and ani are showing progressive nahi soch that not all things are showcased in one way
Their mann ka rishta is still pure
Aanchal expressions age of gleefully joy and melting
Seeing a big girl is not make u able to feel
I want Thai to be real
From ani he is seeing thei girl who he always saw her life Beinf risk ,nee innoncenxe being deprived her losing her identity now she is in front of him - happy ,smart ,educated and moreover he wanted Bon to live for herself
And she is exactly the better as he can see that shine and content in ehr eues for studying and receiving quality of education, he can see the Bon who sued to ahve silent tears ,was always forced to live up to expectations is now living for herself and other girls and formed her opinion
Even in amrriage the reason he annuled marriage je realise he has the decison to make Bon life beautiful and even Bon said after leap episode he freed me from child amrriage and she said proudly
She understood this on growing up and thanks ani for giving ehr this life - he brought back Bon the chdildhood she lost ,she grew up in London she recovered her wounds ,she knows what ani wanted for her and she wanted him to be proud of her - she wants the man who made,cared for her when she was a masoom girl who had plenty of questions ,courage yet confusing ,always burdened u have to do this I am not saying rc people loved she but if u see one her puberty start -everybody inckdhilind kaka ,started over expecting form her and she was losing herself
Now she got back her tarks ,boldness. ,bindass attitude her own way of taking decison and she acknowledges ani si reason for every breath ,happiness she is taking
She is not selfish or immature nor crushing over him
She is admiring him and that is my perception
We always said the elder Bon would thank ani for everything he did and today he is getting thakan from the woman whose childhood , life is made by ani
Even the children asked is bondita the child for ani Bon will remain hai jeene ki vajah and everything
I don’t relate their relation to marriage or love
The show Can even end with goth of them overcoming everything - and looking towards sky as soulmate’s
So fro me even after Bon as a grown up girl ani is having proudness to finally see the rela Bon who was curbed or suffocating when she was a. Baby over burdens as child bride , entangled in social evils and having plenty of questions and now he can see she is free and she has embraced her shararate,her tarks ,her boldness and even her own beliefs which earlier as what her elders told she lost
Since she is grown up a girl gets shyness despite of boldness she abs that is the softness in her and that deep love for ani (love is the purest thing)
She neither expects ani to love her in that way or husband wife relation
If makers show ani moving on with someone else and even Bon moving on but both of them their story always there it would also be best ending and something itv never crossed guys (ps my rarest scenario aisa nahi hoga we ahve rudhita as endgame) and form me they were age and will always be end game -marriage or romantic love does not decide the endgame for me
So sorry for long post nd if it hurt anyone sentiments
I just said what I observed when I saw epsidoes many time
To be honest prevap is very beautiful that si how Bon is she exporessed her happiness and girls become like this on growing up and even ani too is melting for giving Bon tribute
Edited by Katy4566 - 4 years ago